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[–]adambombchannel 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Go for it! But have something already planned. Like “hey, im going for a walk and to get some food/drinks at X place tomorrow, wanna tag along with me?”
good luck! Don’t text too much, limit to only making plans. if she can’t hang out then, ask when she’s free next. don’t overhype here and get inside your head about her “beautiful” status
[–]uCypro 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Bro! Oh crap she replied and she says she is down for it but in another day because she gonna be busy with class tomorrow and is on her period lol. It really was that easy? Why I been so shy for no reason?? You are the goat bro thanks !!! We setting something up for another day I’m so fucking excited 😂
[–]adambombchannel 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
At least someone is doing well out here! Haha that’s awesome, happy for ya. just be careful with all that excitement. Not fun to build up a bunch of expectations and not meet them. Plus girls can pick up on those vibes. Just treat her like a bro, be playful and joke at her.
Enjoy it and make sure if you are feeling it that you escalate physically on the date with touching, comment on her clothes/hands etc and build up to kiss. Idk how experienced you already are but for me it still feels somewhat unnatural to just put my arm around a girl. You just have to go for it, it sounds like she already likes you so you’d have trouble fucking up being touchy.
Had too many dates myself dead in the water on the first go because of too much talking and not enough doing.
[–]uCypro 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That’s what I been doing I’m not really putting her in a pedestal like I used to do before with other girls, now I’m just like talking to her the same way I would talk to one of my bros like you said haha, now building up to a kiss gonna be a challenge because I haven’t kissed a girl before if everything goes well as time goes on she might be my first but also I don’t want to build a bunch of expectations as well like you mentioned
[–]adambombchannel 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah just take it slow mate. When you’re walking around, just put your arm around her. don’t overthink it, she clearly likes you. Not like you can’t withdraw if there are weird vibes.
Easiest way to kiss is just to tell her you want to go sit down at the park or whatever, face her and joke around/tease her. Create a time limit, like 5 minutes of talking and then 5 seconds to make the move before you talk yourself out of it. Wait for a lull in the conversation after laughing etc, stare at her lips during the silence, look back into her right eye, then slowly move your head in.
when you kiss, go for that first deep peck then pause and pull away for a moment. look back at her, then go back in for a make out sesh if she’s feeling it. when you’re making out, just alternate sucking and pushing kisses between her lips, come back up for air (don’t linger in any one style too long) and don’t get too sloppy. don’t worry about tongue too much. Alternate gentle and little bites etc too. you can mix it up, turn her head a bit and plant light kisses around her neck, nibble on her ear if you’re feeling it - she’ll love the variety.
relax, enjoy yourself, don’t get hung up if you accidentally bump her forehead or nose. Give her some feedback, what she does well. you’ll get better with practice.
[–]uCypro 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the tips bro 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽 I’m definitely taking it slow don’t wanna rush anything and look like a fool haha
[–]Skinny_Wizard 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
As the guy above me said follow something like "Hey im free from work tomorrow and im not in the mood to stay home, would you like to grab a coffee and walk to the park?" Hope it goes great for you mate!
I will do this lol, sounds perfect! A nice walk in the park is what I like specially since we live in nyc and we have Central Park ready to go, let’s see if it goes well. I’ll update if she replies or no 😅
[–]Skinny_Wizard 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cool mate, focus on having fun with her and the rest will come. Good luck and keep us updated!
[–]uCypro 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I sent the message, I build the courage 😬 let’s see what happens lmao
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