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[–]Important-Quote9544 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Jeez, bro you need to chill. You can try. But how is your profile? Are you displaying high value? How was the convo you had with her? Was there flirting? You said there was awkward convos, does that mean you were carrying the convo and she was vaguely replying? No I wouldnt message her right away. There are cues if someone is interested on social media. Like replying to your stories, liking your pics, etc. If you do not show value on social media it will be hard to get her espeicially with your guys' limited interactions
[–]ZenZiccoZ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
What I mean with the awkard convos is that I acted like a awkard fuck most of the times. Let me explain… she caught me off guard she is a really pretty female like dead ass who is unique in her interests she likes anime Nintendo all of these things that where I’m from is rare in a pretty female, like she’s not another one of these thots if you can understand me. But it’s weird because she is really confident (I believe she has a lot of work experience and has more polished social skills) and she’s like a 7 and I consider myself an 8 so first day of class she enters the classroom and sits beside me bro out of all the empty chairs available she picks to sit next to me and like I said she was very very straight foward which caught me off guard and made small talk with me during the class asking me things clearly liked me bro she even asked for my phone number one time “to add me to the glass group chat” so then she made a fool out of herself because she created a new gc of the class where she was going to add me but there was already a group so she affed alot of number in the gc and then she realized we already had a group so she turned red when that happened etc like she acted nervous also but thing is I was more nervous bro haha at the end after the small talking during the class when there was an opportunity to talk with her bro I would pussy out and say uh like see you next class etc and leave……. It was very awkard and this happened like 3 classes where we would small talk and then I would leave (I was very on my fight or flight response I had been during covid drinking coffee for multiple months without stop) so that fuck me up with the anxiety. And after some of those awkard shows I started going virtually to the class never to see her again… and i passed the class and I believe she dropped out because I never saw her again she left the gc before it needed and never went virtually again… so you see why it’s very important I play it right now. She followed me which means something it’s a message like a “yes I liked you” I believe. You gotta help me mate I can’t chill that’s my wife where talking about.
[–]Important-Quote9544 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
HAHA Bro if you are calling her your wife, you got some serious self reflections you gotta do. Also, no, a follow back is not code for "I liked you before" a follow back means I know you/you are familiar. Also, if you were a true 8 like you claim. You wouldnt be having issues on what you need to do next. You also did not respond to my question of is your profile displaying value, or if she liked your pics/respond to your stories.
[–]ZenZiccoZ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I am an 8 but I was not an 8 my whole life lmao if that makes sense it’s true bro trust. And my profile has a couple of pictures of me etc and I’m pretty handsome dead ass so I don’t know if that’s what you consider high value like I’m pretty fucksble but I was not always like this mate in high school I was not glowed up. But if that’s the definition I think I’m doing alright. And I’m pretty sure she like me bro honestly she was all over me but I was fucked with anxiety
[–]Important-Quote9544 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok whatever you say. I'm skeptical because you are showing needy behavior. Guys that fuck alot don't show this because they have multiple options and aren't putting all their investment on one prospect. You can message her sure, but prepare for the worst
[–]ZenZiccoZ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I get that but I don’t have multiple options right now, females eye me down “validate my hotness” that sounds cringe but fuck it haha and all but I’ve hadn’t had a job in some time where I get to be around other women and my classes have been virtual most of the time it’s been though to be exposed to a lot of females so yeah. But should I do it today is the question
[–]Important-Quote9544 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you are living in fantasy land. They validate your hotness ? Is that something you tell yourself? How is your online dating? If you are an 8 you should be cleaning up
[–]ZenZiccoZ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s my wife mate you gotta help
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