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[–]skinticket02 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, you're too focused on one person. So try inviting her though.
[–]elyeezzus 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Well, of course I’m interested in this one person. I like her a lot. Is that bad?
[–]skinticket02 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Liking people isn't necessarily bad , but don't put all your eggs in one basket until you're sure it's serious. I reccomend having crushes on multiple women . Desensitize yourself to it so you can make rational decisions.
[–]elyeezzus 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
How do you even notice other women if you have a crush on a specific one? Idk about you, but when I have a crush on someone, the rest of the world just don’t matter to me
[–]skinticket02 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The issue here is that you've judged her as being more special in your mind than other women when you barely know her. You gave her that power over you without her involvement.
The solution here is just to talk to as many other women as possible. You think you won't find another woman to crush on , but that's your mind tricking you . Men are incredibly prone to "shiny object syndrome" when it comes to women . You'll be surprised how quickly you get over it when you do it a couple of times.
If you live in a big city , just ho out and talk to every girl you thing is good looking.
This is gonna sound harsh , but you need to realize that the girl you like isn't special, you made her special.
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Crushes on multiple women? I Huhhhhhh? I thought that was illegal! Or at least that I was a scoundrel for doing that. Whoaaaa. Brooooooo I fucking love being a guy! Everything I thought about me was horrible is just normal!
[–]skinticket02 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, being a guy is awesome. I wouldn't give it up for a billion dollars.
There are a lot of terrible things men do , but expressing passion towards multiple people isn't one of them. Keep doing your thing king.
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Sweeeet! Time to dig up all the internalized misandry. That’ll be liberating
[–]skinticket02 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
The truth is , as long as you're not emotionally, psychologically and physically abusing women , they should never have any say in how you behave as a man.
If you never take anything else from this , just peep this.
Women love emotional stimulation from men , even if it's negative. So if you see women who complains about men all the time , it's because she's emotionally getting something out of it .
From this point on , never view it as them hating you , but as them trying to feel something.
It happens everyday irl but you see this a lot on the internet, a woman will tweet something that angers a lot of men on purpose just to have male ire directed at her. Men fall for it every single time .
Women love emotional highs , whether it's a positive or negative emotion doesn't matter.
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
See I’ve never really realized this entirely. My mother was always really stoic, a single mother, almost masculine, kinda felt like having two dads. Kept a strong face for her kids, my guess.
So my experience with girls outside my mother has generally been that they’re landmines, and anything I’ll do will hurt them and they all hate me for it, and any love is just temporary because I’ll step on the landmine at some point and I’m dead. Back to villain status. I felt underprepared I guess.
Good to know it’s normal to be a man, maybe sad there’s outcry, whether it has a catalyst or not, but baby steps to progress are better than not being able to take a step at all.
[–]skinticket02 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We're in the same boat! My mom was like that to.
Never go out of your way to upset women , but don't shy away from it happening either . It's all a balance .
Have you ever heard a woman say "I hate and love him at the same time" or " I hate him but I just can't leave him for some reason"? That happens because the guy stands his ground and is unphased by any emotional event she's having.
I went to a very liberal college and dated the angriest feminists you could think of , I'm the exact definition of what their version of a toxic man is . Every time they'd have an emotional event, I just smiled smacked their ass and when to watch TV. That drove them crazy in a good way , that's where a lot of the passion came from.
And also if you see a very mean and angry girl , she's actually the easiest to get if you know what you're doing.
You'll get there in due time . Check out Patrice O'Neal if you haven't.
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I knew this deep down, and if I have a girlfriend it’s generally how I be, but enough girls get fed up over it that it piles on. Thanks for pulling the wall of corpses off me, bruv. Back to the slaughter we go, I guess
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