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Melinored · 2022-01-23T18:57:23+00:00

What's a bigger red flag for a man who always text's a girl first?

1keentolearn12 · 2022-01-23T19:09:20+00:00

Why were you shaking. Grow a pair

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-01-23T19:16:10+00:00

This right here is the problem. A girl texting you back makes you feel good about yourself, as if you felt validated by her just because she gave you a bit of attention.

The fact that you feel nervous and shake just because you fear she might not give you that attention is just lame, and weak, as if your perception of self worth depends on a message that she didn’t even think more than a second to send because it’s not a big deal for her to just be polite and reply back.

And no a girl texting back you doesn’t mean she has any attraction or feelings. It also doesn’t mean she is giving you a sign for you to try. Texting is just texting and they do it with both guys they are not interested in and guys they are interested in.

So placing some much importance on something like this is the reason why eventually it will not work out, this needy behaviour comes from a weak inner game, and that inner game will be what turns her away anyway sooner or later because yes your inner game will betray you.

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Date	January 23, 2022 6:43 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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