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[–]Minute-Lie-2287 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (31 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a headache that isn't worth it. Id just do you, if she likes you she'll drop the test if it's not a test there's no sense convincing her.
Either way sounds like a basket of crazy.
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[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (29 children) | Copy Link
No idea, either test or shes too insecure (thinks you're too hot to hold down) or just really doesn't want to get involved and isn't done hoeing or met another guy already/ ex got interested again.
Only one reason I can see that ends in her back is testing... Which id guess she'll drop if you aren't too reactive. You've already made it clear you're still interested and willing to take it serious...so I would think you passed if that's the case and then all you can do is just stay on the grind.
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[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (26 children) | Copy Link
Honestly it's kind of a guessing game.
Seems to me like you pretty much made it her choice...serious or fwb, you're down with whichever.
If it's a test yeah I'd guess she starts chasing you when she sees your not clamoring.
I'd give it 75 percent it's all BS and she's onto something else, ex or another interest.
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[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (24 children) | Copy Link
Not because of your last response but from having asked to be together early on....then agreeing to " exclusive fwb " uh which is really just a relationship where you admit it might not last forever.
She's not judging on your last response, she's judging the experience as a whole.
"Three days thinking about us" IME translates to "3 days working on it with the ex"
I could be wrong on any of this...just my take with only a summary of info.
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[–]Minute-Lie-2287 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link
I was referring to the three days not talking.
I can tell you're in that unbelievably frustrating stage of just not knowing the clear truth. It sucks, you'll ponder it a lot but you should accept that you will almost certainly never know.
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[–]Minute-Lie-22871 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Just kind of ran this by my girl, who happens to be a social worker and counselor ( maybe some extra human understanding points there) she says yeah pretty much.
[–]submaster2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
she’s just using you as a validation that’s she pretty and fuckable. i guarantee you when finds another person she’s think is hotter than you, she’ll forget you immediately. come on man go find yourself a proper GF and stop wasting time will all this FWB nonsense
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[–]submaster2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
you by taking the time out of your day to fuck her is already the biggest compliment of all. because a good looking guy (in her pov most probably) like you is willing to at least fuck her.
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[–]submaster2 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
yes i understand. but to me (maybe not for all), dating/sleeping with girls while knowing there’s a progression it’s much better. it like a job you want as much as possible to be in a job where there is career progression. in other words fucking girls while trying to figure out which one is the best one for you as a gf/wife. because as long if you keep fit,good at whatever job you do and confident there’s will be hardly any issues in getting someone to sleep with you. but whether or not that particular fuck is meaningful (meaningful as in there is a possibility of progression). you’ve already mentioned that she rejected you, so there’s no chance of progression. just move on bro tbh and go out and fuck someone else
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