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[–]JacobMoogberg69 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You are looking at this the wrong way just like every guy on the planet. DO NOT TRY TO GET ON WJTH HER PROGRAM, LET HER GET ON WITH YOURS.
[–]Unipiggy 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You're only going to get the dumb blondes, desperate ones who will potentially try to baby trap you, or women with A LOT of baggage who you don't want to be involved with. They're the only ones who go for much older men.
No sensible woman will be with someone who is a decade+ older than them. If it's a genuine relationship that you're looking for, I strongly recommend finding someone 29+. Accept that you're getting older.
I'm a 21 year old woman and I've never used Instagram or Snapchat. Anytime I talk with someone they ask for my Insta/Snap like it's the only thing they know and I'm like "uuhhh... this ain't gonna work"
It all depends on the person.
[–]nullcode 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe don't go after the one's partying like they live off trust funds.. lots of women in their 20's like older men.
Try a dating app instead of Instagram?
[–]HovercraftFirst2925 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I am 44 and most women in their 20's in the US are dumb as a rock. In any Latin American country, women mature faster, so there are many women there in their 20's that prefer older men but most young women here have nothing to offer.
[–]1hatethis 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I have had this question for a while myself and still do honestly so would also like to see if there's any good advice out there. I will give you mine though from the perspective of 30 year old living in Europe and mostly hanging out with dudes your age or even older. The Europe part may be important. I think the US scene is quite different. Either way:
Way I see it there's two options:
a) This one applies if you're actually good looking and/ or can afford travelling. Build an instagram profile. Really build it though. Tag shit follow randos and so on until you can start meeting girls that way. Have tried it very little myself but I don't see how this could fail if, like mentioned earlier, you're good looking enough and can take pictures of you at different places doing different stuff relatively often. Bonus is this way you'll meet people and see places too so it's all good regardless if you manage to get 20 year olds or not at the end (assuming there is an end)
b) Get your laptop and start hanging out at local cafes where's there's bound to be a younger crowd. Hang out at local bars with a younger crowd in the evenings too. You might make friends with younger guys that you can go out with too and that way meet girls their age. I have a buddy that is 40+ I think now and has been doing just that for years. Has been very successful with the younger girls. This was in Europe though where as a foreigner you kind of stick out and instantly get extra points but still
Make sure you're doing well grooming wise and fashion wise. Keep a fresh haircut, beard and dress in a youthful but still appropriate for your age way
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