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[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wtf are you talking about
[–]AwakenTheSavage 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I suspect English is not OP’s first language
[–]TheRiverOfDyx 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Life isn’t about that. Well, solely about that. If you wanna see that stuff, watch a little porn, get bored with it. Naked bodies aren’t really all that. Yours isn’t right? To you it’s just the body you’re given. Same goes for girls. Nothing to really ogle at, and they can be either creeped out or flattered by it.
Do your own thing, focus on building a life, on your off-days, go talk to people for the sake of talking to people. You might get hints that they want to hang out more. If a girl wants to hang with you, she’ll hang with you. Easy as that. Let her ramp the spice up, it’s common thought that girls are the biggest deciders in consent, guys are mostly secondary to that because it’s assumed “guys will always consent, even when raped”. It’s messed up, but let her get herself closer to you, if she does, be open to it, don’t be squeamish and shy and try getting away from it. It’ll feel uncomfortable, but if you keep a mindset of “even if this girl throws herself at me, I wouldn’t fuck her” while still mentally masturbating to her, you’ll have it down. It’s a weird self control game. Your mind can do whatever it wants, but it has to be secret, the body must be controlled and unwilling because girls read body language instinctually. It’s like a game of poker in this sense.
So be unphased by them, just chat like they’re dude friends, just a little more sensitive. Don’t be crude around this “dude friend”, you don’t have to be “extra” polite. Just be normal, for lack of a better word. If you think of yourself as being spawned into the world as the only one in existence, then the world occupied itself with friends for you to meet, this gets way easier and way easier to be social. Strangers are just friends you haven’t met yet. Nobody is your enemy until THEY decide that. You’re not anyone’s enemy until YOU decide you are, right? Same for them.
So go chill with some people. Don’t even think about sex, think about the rest of your life. Girls will distract you from it with sex anyways because they want it too. Opposites attract. Be unfocused on sex, you’ll get sex. Be focused on sex, you don’t get sex because it comes out in your body language and the words you use.
[–]yvvie14 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very nice insights. A great read.
[–]HerrZunt 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be based, have a purpose to fight for
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