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[–]lekkerlad9 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have to accept that not everybody is made to be together. Some people (such as yourself) are independent. I’m not implying that it makes you better than everyone else but I see it as a gift, as I have the same way of life. I have many friends but don’t frequent any particular friend group more than the others , but still have all the flavours of all the groups like yourself. Enjoy it, you can learn so much, and it already sounds like your having fun. If you don’t like it, then you can try to stick to one group but I’ve found that it feels unnatural and you just go back to how you were before. As for you attracting the certain caliber of girl, I believe that to be unrelated. Screen for those traits and send them off if they bear those ways. It can get lonely sometimes not having a group to fall back on and have heaps of history, which equates to a good connection, but overtime you may accumulate one. Start your own group and see being independent as a positive.
[–]Upset-Temperature 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you for this. I read it many times and it gave me peace. You make a great point about my relationship with certain circles and its correlation to the women I get, but screening those traits is a bit difficult, you only see that side a couple months into something. I’ll be more vigilant in trying to identify independent women, but every women comes off pretty independent these days.
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