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[–]ItIsICoachCal 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Without knowing your two's dynamic, not I nor any other stranger on the internet can say what the best path is.
That being said, "C" is very cringe, and you're probably overthinking this 100x over. Do what feels smooth and natural to you.
[–]Key_Ad_5626 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I liked c. Think it's the best.
[–]ItIsICoachCal 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As long as she knows it's light hearted sarcasm, which it didn't read to me at least. That's kind of my point, if shes expecting sarcasm like that, sure go for it. If they have a different dynamic, it could come off as desperate or mean or a million other things. We don't know, and OP kept hoping we magically did.
[–]downforme123 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Thanks man, dynamics are: she's hot and partially interested, but (generally) a bit reserved and not (yet) totally into me. For now I just want to mess with her
[–]ItIsICoachCal 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
No I mean like unless someone has been involved in your conversations, they don't know what things she expects to hear from you and you plan to play into or subvert that. My whole point is that a headline overview of "hot and partially interested" is nothing to go on for specifics like this. You are the only one who has a good idea about what she expects and what your interactions play out as, so do what you think is best.
[–]downforme123 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I was a bit too blunt and pushy in my pursuit but I recently managed to shift gears, retracted successfully, got her off balance and and into seeking attention mode. She probably expects something nice, even appologetic from me, but she won't get that. I went for a combination of a and b, I probably just needed a test run to see how it feels to write that down
[–]ItIsICoachCal 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
OK hope it goes well
[–]downforme123 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thanks, if not I'll post the result on r/TIFU 😆
[–]ItIsICoachCal 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Regardless of what she says, the real fuck up would be not trying and/or not learning. Be outcome independent here.
[–]downforme123 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
the results are in and she responded with "Frechdachs", which of course is german and roughly translates to rascal, or cheeky monkey.
I´d say: worked exactly as planned : )
[–]i_love_crazy_hobos 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t really like any of those. But maybe they speak of the frame you’re coming from. I would just tell her “next time well make up for it”.
But if I had to pick one it would be B.
P.S. I hope you’re actually kissing this girl in the mouth and vagina as well, and not doing a million dates with only cheek kisses.
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