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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes but wait till late because her DMs will be filled with birthday messages during the day. That way your message will appear at the top.
[–]MeIvinCapital 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Depends what your existing relationship to her is. Does she know you ?
[–]juampab_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She's an ex friend's sister. We know we exist and have shared eye contact a few times but we never really talked
[–]MeIvinCapital 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Maybe go straight in for the ‘kill’? Wish her a happy birthday and ask if she will go out for a cocktail with you to celebrate. Use the 🍸 🍹 emoji too?
[–]juampab_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'll tell you how it goes!
[–]juampab_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I actually wrote her a DM saying "Happy birthday! Let's meet up sometime and have a beer" and she replied with "HAHAHHAHAHA thanks a lot!!" (I translated from spanish but it's basically this). What should I say to keep the convo going and actually take her out?
[–]MeIvinCapital 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I dunno man that comes across to me like she’s not interested… 🤷♂️
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’d suggest a specific day and bar for that beer. If she flakes out and doesn’t suggest anything else at least u will know
[–]david10277 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Say..
Actually.I'm gonna be in your area on (insert date) let.me know if that works, we can grab something around (insert time) if that works. Hope you recovered " smiley emoji
[–]juampab_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Is this from some other post? Recovered from what?
[–]david10277 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just like I left you wondering.. she will do the same
That's what she will ask..then you say
*Recovered from your birthday celebration"
Now you have her attention ..setup the meetup
[–]stanthemilkman88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It won't work.but you have nothing to lose.
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