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Agreable_Actuator84 · 2021-11-19T00:55:59+00:00

May depend on the culture she is from, the environment she is in and her upbringing. On many college campuses or in big cities or with an older woman if you don’t initiate and push for sexual contact today, tomorrow it will be someone else who is doing so. In my limited experience, not a single women has complained that I acted too quickly, but several had shown they were disappointed I didn’t act sooner, or have been picked up by someone else because they thought I was friend zoning them and didn’t feel sexually attracted to them.

In imagine there are exceptions, and I wish the exceptions weren’t so rare. But in the world we live in today, being direct sure saves a lot of time and missed opportunity.

kickassvbass · 2021-11-18T21:38:40+00:00

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reditoris · 2021-11-18T23:26:38+00:00

To me its not "society" wants us to wait. I think genrally we know that sex can lead to pregnancy. No matter what sort of protection you use the possibility is never 0. The idea is that it may be a good thing to know who this other person is before you put yourself in that position.

You may say that abortion is also posibillity, sure but it is her choice so......

Also if you are afraid that women wont like you unless you quicky nut in her...well you might want to try to improve your personality.

RainbowChardonnay · 2021-11-21T01:52:53+00:00

Wait for three months. The sex is better for the woman when you wait.

Serenity_qld · 2021-11-19T08:26:28+00:00

Women release oxytocin during sex, which gives a kind of false sense of attachment based on hormones. Smart and experienced women therefore hold off on sex and get to know the guy first. Why get attached to someone who only wants a hookup and will discard you? Many guys do and it jades women. And what about abusers and people with attachment/ mental health disorders who can hurt and even kill you?

Don't pressure for sex and don't be phased by a woman wanting to evaluate you . If you're one of the types mentioned above, you're best bet is therapy so you can become a less confused or toxic human being.

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