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[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
2mo of talking and one meetup, no sex, getting into LDR bs… and still wonder why you’re boring?
[–]chipper14 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Ive had several friends get into LDRs with people they haven’t met, or have only met a few times. Sex isn’t everything.
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Agree, sex isn’t everything. But without sex its only friendzone which ofc is waste of time
[–]chipper14 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
It seems there is attraction and romantic feelings there and that op just seems a little nervous. Perfectly normal. Although LDR can be extremely hard without physical touch and quality time - so that’s another worry
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[–]chipper14 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For sure. I do thinking following the advice of the other commenter would be a good idea. You might find more help in those subs :)
[–]UrFavPlayerIsBack 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There can be the strongest chemistry ever existed on mother earth between them that even Romeo & Julia would be jealous of.. but if you don’t escalade things forward asap, in reasonable time frame, then it all will fade off as if never even existed
So yeah, he better worry sooner than later
[–]kittybrehbreh -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get out of it. Humans need physical intimacy. Especially since you’ve only met once. There’s plenty of other fish in the sea.
[–]No-Department6252 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can assure you she is talking seeing and probably hooking up with other guys. solution talk to other girls. if she hasn't already she will smell the desperation from you from miles away (no pun intended)
[–]chipper14 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Try adding a “x” after every few messages, basically giving her a kiss. You could also try using pet names, like “cutie” or “beautiful”. I’m sure she’ll appreciate that and will see that you are romantically interested. Try not to focus too much on saying the wrong or right thing, just go with what feels natural at the time. Ask her more questions about herself and her life, show you’re interested. I was in a LDR for 3 months and what helped keep the attraction between us was sending each other selfies everyday or just photos of ourselves looking nice etc.
As a general skill just show you’re interested in the person you’re talking to, let the conversation flow and don’t force anything.
[–]No-Department6252 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
shes talking to other guys for sure op needs to see this and stop wasting his time
[–]atomant88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
maybe r/dating would be a better sub to ask or r/relationships
[–]SomethingS0m3thing 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Comment on the way she looks and tell her how sexy and beautiful she is
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