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[–]Swimming_Fortune 7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Nice, also try to make it clear to them you think they're attractive and try to get their number/set up a date
[–]DanielSnipeCelly 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Thanks for the advice! Yeah, easily that was my mistake with Girl #2. With Girl #3, I had no chance either way. She had an incredibly dismissive attitude about her. Although, I made the mistake of not smiling or making proper eye contact, so there's a decent chance that I came off as a bit offputting.
[–]Swimming_Fortune 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
yeah it's good that you're starting though. I"m a beginner too. My "template" for the interactions is to make sure I let the girl know I think she's attractive, then make some small talk/conversation and then ask what kinda stuff she likes to do, if she would want to hangout, then ask for number
[–]DanielSnipeCelly 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Do you immediately open up by letting them know you find her attractive? If so, what kind of reactions do you typically get in return?
[–]Swimming_Fortune 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Not usually immediately, but I'm trying to within the first few sentences of meeting them. I used to be afraid of going direct like that but I decided to start doing it. Like I said I'm a beginner too so I haven't done it that much. Usually they like it and say thanks for the compliment. Yesterday I got the funniest reaction from a woman when I called her attractive, she's like "I'm VERY attractive, thanks for noticing." And she was insanely attractive and dressed really well so it was pretty obvious lol. Idk reactions aren't predictable but it's highly unlikely they're gonna yell at you or flip out or something lol. You just have to stop worrying about the reactions.
[–]DanielSnipeCelly 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Oh, I see. Can you give me a quick example of a typical conversation you’d have? Indicating my interest is very tricky for me at the moment.
[–]Swimming_Fortune 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like "hey how's it going, just thought I'd say hi." and she would be like "hi" and then I ask what her name is and tell her mine and then say "honestly I thought you were attractive" or something like that. Sometimes I talk about something in the surroundings first or ask what she's doing. Then ask for a number as she leaves. Idk. I'm not good at it yet. Every conversation can go differently.
[–]Itzz_rezzy 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ayy man keep it up. If u not failing u not trying and u can only go up from here.
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