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[–]revente 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
To have a ‚deep sense of connection’ you clearly need to have two people feeling this, and she doesn’t.
Keep meeting girls until you meet one that’s a clear upgrade.
[–]beaveleboss1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Once we both did. Now obviously not. Will do what you say and keep on meeting girls till I get an upgrade haha. Cheers man.
[–]According-Fox-890 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What I have always found was once a fling of any nature with a girl ended another would randomly start.
I could be casually seeing a girl for 4 months and have no interaction with another but a few weeks after that ended I could fall into talking to someone else without seeking it out.
Life has a habit of working itself out and you'll be surprised who could walk into your life next.
I had a similar experience with a girl in and out of my life for a good few years and never knew what was coming of it. Getting closure and moving on was such a relief and you will someday I hope feel the same.
Go live your life, be happy. Give yourself a break for trying and welcome the new chapter in your life. Do not ponder over her as you'll just torture yourself and don't get caught in the sunk cost fallacy!
[–]beaveleboss 5 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Man, thanks so much.
[–]According-Fox-890 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're very welcome. Don't get me wrong it is very tough and I empathise with you so much. You deserve more than 'what ifs' and someone who is 100% about you. Do yourself a favour and realise you deserve more and respectfully let her walk away knowing you will be happier eventually. It may suck now but in 5 years time you will see her as a distant memory while you lead a wonderful life. You got this! Now pick this up and put it back on 👑
[–]beaveleboss2 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
That is exactly what I need to hear. Love you man.
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