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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 13 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You've changed your thinking and lost your confidence. This happened to me too - at 19 I was an unstoppable confident asshole and then I got a girlfriend. My girlfriend wore me down into a total chump, then she crushed me and left me with no confidence. I don't know what happened to you, but you've lost it.
First of all, stop putting pressure on yourself to be awesome. Stop caring, because you are awesome. Don't rely on the past for reference either, just live right now for the maximum enjoyment and fun possible. The rest will come. It's only natural.
[–]TheOneGerman 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
But what should I change or just nothing and just go on??
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Just commit yourself to the game and move on from setbacks. You're a loser because you perceive yourself as one. People hit slumps. Just go out and have fun and mack on girls.
[–]TheOneGerman 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I´ll try
[–]kdelamont 0 points1 point2 points 13 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You left the element that you thought was giving you success - America. REmind yourself that what you were doing well in the US is the same thing you need to do well in Germany.
Hell, I've been on exchange for the past month and have used it to really improve myself, and im even more excited to take what I've learned and improved on here back to my home turf.
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