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| 7 | Brock TurnerWhat the fuck is this nonsense? Jesus christ. If anyone wants the issue false claims to be taken seriously you have to accept that the real rape deserve punishment, and that if a kid gets 6 months for raping an unconscious woman that there's something seriously fucking wrong with the system. Fucking hell sometimes I want to take some of the movement's points seriously but its impossible with shit like this. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/16 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Broke up a week ago. Struggling as I'm trying to get back in to the game.seddit breakup crew checking in | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Broke up a week ago. Struggling as I'm trying to get back in to the game.hey man, I just wanna say thanks for writing this. I'm in the breakup boat too, and this was maybe one of the more helpful things I've read. I'm moving to a new city in two days and need some kind of drive to make it work. | /r/seduction | 27/08/15 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Multi-Orgasmic Man Guide : come ONLY when you want and have 10x more powerful orgasmsI would tend away from Wellbutrin, as my experience has been that it is great for depression and lifting your mood but has wired me up a bit so that I have to take beta blockers to relieve the physical symptoms. As always though, talk to the doc because I do know some people who have had the opposite reaction and wellbutrin works well for high levels of anxiety. | /r/seduction | 21/08/15 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Multi-Orgasmic Man Guide : come ONLY when you want and have 10x more powerful orgasmsI've been on lexapro as well. It will destroy your sex drive, no question. Didn't work for me, it would work for a week and then stop, and I'd have to bump up, and the same thing would happen. Went off for a while when I shouldn't have, crashed incredibly hard and went on Wellbutrin. It works pretty well for the depression, so I can get up and do things and have the motivation to work on things. It drove my anxiety up too, but that's more of a physical response to a stimulant than anything. A lo… | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 07:02 PM |
| 5 | Multi-Orgasmic Man Guide : come ONLY when you want and have 10x more powerful orgasmsYeah that was my experience too. I switched up to Wellbutrin which had the opposite effect, my sex drive is through the roof | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 06:12 PM |
| 1 | I Did ItWhether it's direct or not isn't the point. It's that someone you want to talk to, someone who is open and interesting and has a lot of positive qualities, would not meet someone new and think "go away" in the first place. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 03:06 PM |
| 13 | Multi-Orgasmic Man Guide : come ONLY when you want and have 10x more powerful orgasmsyou could just go on antidepressants and have no possibility of cumming. I mean, you hate life but you can't finish so girls think you last long. edit: not srs, obviously | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 02:51 PM |
| 5 | Failure never felt so sweet, till I did my first approach todayYo hit me up, I'm moving to Toronto in the fall I'll go out and game with you | /r/seduction | 01/08/15 01:35 AM |
| 5 | Starting my last semester of college on Monday. Here's my little black book from the last 4 years of fun. Thought y'all would enjoy. (Throwaway account)jesus it's spelled brunette | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 04:03 PM |
| 14 | My solution to approach anxiety. Real stuff here.reading this felt...super gay | /r/seduction | 15/07/14 03:45 AM |
| 6 | Tip: Be honest and don't back down.tangential point: can someone please explain to me the meaning of 'x' at the end of a text? | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Iev done it, finaly become who I want to beexcept for the big loud "fuck you assholes from high school" part in the middle. I don't think you're treating them like meat, but it feels to me like you are using women as a conduit for your own happiness; you're expecting them to make you happy and to make yourself happy only through women which, in my opinion, is kind of a shitty way to approach things and having been that guy before I know how consistently disappointing it can be. | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Iev done it, finaly become who I want to beNo offense intended, but you sound really preoccupied with proving yourself to someone - maybe yourself, maybe someone else - and it makes you sound pretty angry and arrogant. Remember that these are human beings being dealt with here, its all not a game. Also, man, spelling | /r/seduction | 13/06/14 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Should I let girls know that I'm a virgin?tangent: am I the only person who thinks that blow-jobs are more or less just glorified masturbation? | /r/seduction | 12/06/14 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Access to government programs by sex: USNo, they don't give a shit about it being a gendered issue, you're right. In fact, they don't even see it as a gendered issue. What I was saying was precisely that they don't see it as a gender thing, precisely because there are too many OTHER factors that make SS and the draft a bit of a sticky matter - both to employ, if it ever came to that, but moreso to dismantle. As I've pointed out, the real gender matter goes back to deeply held ideas about martial values and masculinity. It's not saying… | /r/MensRights | 11/06/14 12:19 PM |
| -1 | Access to government programs by sex: USI have seen it before. It's a pretty widely read document in any undergraduate US survey course. You're reading it as something that it's not - a piece of history. What this document is is a grandiose statement that had no practical effect. The extreme elements of it, such as the quote you pulled, were not largely influential in the women's rights movement ca. 1850s. In fact, the only real issue that had much circulation was the right to vote, and the early feminist movements of the 19th century… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/14 10:32 PM |
| 0 | Access to government programs by sex: USYes, I have heard of Seneca Falls. I'm looking at this document and I'm not sure what you are seeing in it. It's a fairly benign assessment of the way gender roles worked in the mid 19th century. It's a little bit rhetorical, certainly, but at the end of the day it's not demonstrably un-true. Though I imagine you will have some disagreement with that point? Also worth noting: that was not an example of a piece of revisionist history, but rather a rhetorical document from a political movement. Se… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/14 10:10 PM |
| -1 | Access to government programs by sex: US1) That was my original point, was that it is easy to say you oppose it but some measure more difficult to find a way to get rid of it. The real point is that the USofA has a long, long tradition of citizen militias, and this is really calling upon that tradition. To get rid of SS would be essentially to take a bite out of a longer tradition of emphasis on citizen militia, and that is a much larger step than simply getting rid of it wholesale. As I said in my original post, the question then bec… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/14 09:40 PM |
| -1 | Access to government programs by sex: USI would say because it didn't happen during the US's largest military commitment since Vietnam, and the way that conflict (along with the country's debt and other factors) has changed the way people view military engagement. It's a bit of a tricky argument, but one can say that if SS was to be used, it was most likely in Iraq - but it wasn't. That, coupled with the fact that neither party supports the draft and both know that the draft is universally unpopular with young men. The idea, I think, … | /r/MensRights | 10/06/14 09:12 PM |
| 7 | Access to government programs by sex: USTo be fair, this didn't have anything to do with feminists - rather, it was all about something that is being overlooked. The point to all of this (simplistic, yes) was that feminist organizations are perfectly happy to spout rhetorically about rights to one's own body while ignoring the fact that US Males are required to sign control (a qualified, circumstantial control, to be sure) of their bodies away. The point being that it is hard to substantiate the claim that men have total rights to the… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/14 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Access to government programs by sex: USI really do wish this was tempered by the awareness that there is little chance that selective service would ever be employed anymore in a way that brought un-willing men into combat. This is certainly a gender problem, but I think this infographic ignores some of the subtleties to the particular existence of SS, viz. it's historical lineage. What I'm really saying is that this is mostly just a holdover of a past era, not a reflection of the gov't's view on gender now. Given a blank slate I thin… | /r/MensRights | 10/06/14 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Time magazine's editorial includes a nasty quote from an MRA. One problem: it's not real.TIL... | /r/MensRights | 30/05/14 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Thank you, Seddit, for being a positive community.I was going to come here to post something similar. I was surprised that there hadn't been already. It may well be, as this thing in California ripples, that communities like this one will be called into question. Seddit is pretty good. At times, things go in some weird directions but the general tone is positive here. It should stay this way. The extreme example in front of everyone this week needs to remind us that the very thing that brought most of us here can, unchecked, become a menace. So… | /r/seduction | 27/05/14 05:01 PM |
| 7 | Seduction for IntrovertsAs much as I agree with you, this is an example of how far this sub has fallen. People are actively looking for sex without deeper connection. There's this false dichotomy that says you can either have fast sex, or deep connection, but not both. Total BS. This sub should be, and was, about presenting the best self that women would want to make a deep connection with. | /r/seduction | 06/05/14 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Text Game Example at it's finest. Don't give a fuckit literally didn't matter one iota what OP said here. he was getting a pic anyways. and THEN he responded with that sloppy "i liked what I saw" like some rummy pervert describing his trip to the mall. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 06:25 PM |
| 6 | Text Game Example at it's finest. Don't give a fuckIt's great that this girl wanted to send you a pic, but you're delusional if you think your "text game" (and i'm being generous even calling this text game) in this picture had anything to do with it. | /r/seduction | 04/05/14 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Losing my game by reading "The Game"Jesus, has anyone in here actually read The Game? It was a book about the downside of all this, one guy's descent into a nasty place because of an obsession. It was a warning guide, not a manual. You shouldn't be reading it looking to learn HOW to get women, but read it as a book about the consequences of becoming obsessed with it. It shows you, above all, that there is a way to logically apporoach the problem of your dating life, but moreso it shows you the pitfalls of this way of thinkin. | /r/seduction | 02/05/14 04:54 PM |
| 4 | PUA blogs and Youtube videos are creating an army of angry douchebags that have invaded sedditOP, I'd be inclined to disagree with you (because you sound just as angry as the angry guys) if you weren't...right. This kind of shit, which may have been fringe 5, 10 years ago, was a little outside 2 or 3 years ago, seems to be normal as hell now. Guys everywhere, whether they know about the community or not, are engaging in a lot of the really bad alpha-centric behaviour. I see guys all the time texting shitty things to shitty women and treating them like shit, and its got its roots in this … | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 08:13 PM |
| 7 | In a new relationship. My confidence SKYROCKETS. What causes this?Me and my buddy asked a group of girls this once. Their immediate answer was that it's clear that you don't give off the vibe that you want something from them. | /r/seduction | 29/04/14 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Just approached a girl. .man...as someone who had really bad clinical depression, fuck you. on the other hand, i did laugh. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 07:23 PM |
| 45 | Just approached a girl. .OP himself has depression. I'm guessing she may have been able to sense it; a fisherman always knows another fisherman. As much as its a tricky situation, and there is a risk of it going badly, I think its important to remember the other side of that coin: OP may have just met someone who has a common experience, and the two of them may really be able to help one another. Even if its not a sexual thing, there's the possibility of a really meaningful relationship there. | /r/seduction | 11/03/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Im ready to approach, and i now know how. But, I need to ask one last thing:Step back my friend. This is not rocket science, this is people. You're gonna talk to the girl, maybe have a conversation. Don't rush the ask out, just talk to her. When you feel like its time (and you will feel like its time a little earlier than it actually is) then just casually float the idea of hanging out, maybe with specifics maybe without. Don't script this much, just keep in mind the principles of being clear with your intentions, being active in pursuing what youare after, and being a … | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 08:52 PM |
| 2 | TIPS ON CLOSING?!I'm beginning to realize that the best way is not to fly under the radar with it, just straight up say: want to hang out at your/my place for a bit? | /r/seduction | 10/02/14 12:17 AM |
| 4 | Eye contact vs. staring.In your situation, just smile. If she smiles back, start a conversation. No need to overthink it. | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 10:44 PM |
| 6 | The date from hell (or the dangers of one-itis)I noticed it earlier this week. There's a coffee girl who I flirt with regularly, and have just been waiting to come across in the right context to express more interest than what I can do with strong eye contact, face, body language, etc. I realized that a lot of the thought process that goes through my head is run through a filter of "value, value, value" and if one thing was a little off, or a slipped up a tiny bit with phrasing, investment, and all the really technical terms we use to analyz… | /r/seduction | 03/02/14 04:33 AM |
| 11 | The date from hell (or the dangers of one-itis)If there was one overarching thing that you did wrong, it was that you staked your reputation on this girl, and when it deviated from what you thought the expected path was, you took it personally; you were after a quick hit instead of doing the smart thing. We all get it, we've all been there at one point. TBH, game can sort of skew your thinking a little bit. I catch myself thinking about everything in life, every interaction in terms of value and how you are portraying yourself and it starts … | /r/seduction | 02/02/14 07:13 PM |
| 82 | The date from hell (or the dangers of one-itis)Jesus. I mean, we could all sit here and pick apart what you did wrong but I don't think that's what you want or need right now. I think we've all been in places that are dark and really hurt from time to time, but its not worth sulking and being depressed over a girl - they're everywhere, another one will come along and this will seem dated and gone. In the meantime, give her her car back, but do not, I repeat, do not send her some emotional baggage text message, its only going to make things f… | /r/seduction | 02/02/14 03:24 PM |
| 0 | How do you get girls to approach you?Nothing wrong with your body type, so to up your attractive value (in addition to just feeling attractive, which is the most important part) I would start cultivating a more interesting style. If you feel like you are being passed over, I would just start to go a little bolder with some of your fashion choices, it will display confidence in your appearance and will attract more attention. | /r/seduction | 01/02/14 05:07 PM |
| 1 | About to go on the 2nd date of my life. The 1st one (which was with another girl) went poorly. What should I do and what kind of mindset should I have to avoid such a disaster again?Definitely been on way too many dates that sound exactly like that one... Try Laser Tag. It's physical, dark (but not creepily so), kinda nostalgic, sexy, and incredibly easy to kino. | /r/seduction | 15/01/14 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Making out tipsBe slower than you think you need to be, use tongue sparingly but not rarely, don't be afraid to kiss the neck/ears, don't be afraid to grab a litle hair, and use your hands and the rest of your body to bring you two closer together physically. | /r/seduction | 14/01/14 11:20 PM |
| 0 | Whats the best single piece of advice on girls in general?step up to the fucking plate. | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 12:42 AM |
| 5 | [Q] How do you create and sustain a "casual lover" frame and stay away from the "boyfriend" frame?... tell her this, and maintain your boundaries. | /r/seduction | 08/01/14 12:50 AM |
| 1 | My OKCupid experiment is over. FINALLY was deleted/banned. x-post /r/OKCupidOP, you may not see this, but could I have a read of your paper? I'd love to see what you wrote. | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 06:30 PM |
| 1 | What is your game plan once you're back at her/his place?as well you should ;) Oddly, I've played a SRV/Albert King live disc once or twice, but maybe I'll start pulling out the jazz more often. | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 03:05 PM |
| 1 | What is your game plan once you're back at her/his place?Depends what kind of jazz. Frankly, you could have a different album for every type of seduction. Slow, intimate, passionate? Kind of Blue, couldn't possibly go wrong. Or Bill Evans Trio. For a more middle of the road time, some Monk would be great, its kinda got some nice vibes. If you're into some wild monkey sex you could put on Coltrane's Live at the Half Note and just get all weird on one another. | /r/seduction | 07/01/14 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Because the Woman is Somehow Always Innocent. Women Never Lead Men On.This is honestly a dumb post. If a man had his shit together, he wouldn't end up in the friendzone in the first place, or he wouldn't care because there are always more women out there. | /r/MensRights | 05/01/14 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is Models by Mark Manson is the favourite mPUA here?Well, yes - but he takes it to perhaps another level of abstraction by positioning himself fully outside and largely in opposition to PUA culture. | /r/seduction | 04/01/14 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Why is Models by Mark Manson is the favourite mPUA here?First off, its because it's a well written and concise book. Secondly, Manson markets himself as something of an anti-PUA dating advice coach. By harping on the old-style methods ("who lies more?", negging, M3 and all that) he presents his more natural method as the obvious alternative, the antidote to the schemes of older game methods. His inner game material is excellent in this regard, because he speaks to something that all men strive for: honesty and congruence. I liked the book - its an ea… | /r/seduction | 04/01/14 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Next step after NYE K-close?Invite her back to your place after the get together to watch a movie. This is literally all you need to do tonight. | /r/seduction | 02/01/14 03:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] NYE, 6 k-closes.I agree, the context helped me out massively. I could have gotten numbers from the others if I tried, I wasn't really interested in getting the numbers, however. | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 05:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] NYE, 6 k-closes.Exactly! I live a good distance from downtown, so I'm sometimes at the mercy of logistics. They weren't there last night (plus I think the girl was a virgin) so I'm not upset. | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 05:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR]? NYE wtf?Shit, I dunno how serious she is. I would never have said you owe her something, that was sorta silly. But if she seriously thinks that was sexual harassment, I would really consider contacting a lawyer... | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 04:55 PM |
| 1 | General Discussion: New Years Eve ThreadThanks man! I definitely place having fun above gaming tonight, but obviously a girl can certainly enhance fun. I'm not feeling outcome dependent, but it would be cool to make it happen. | /r/seduction | 01/01/14 12:21 AM |
| 1 | General Discussion: New Years Eve ThreadMy friend...you have put in the legwork, now just go out and close the deal. Think about what you want to do with her, and draw a straight line towards that goal. If you want to kiss her, kiss her. If you want to leave with her, tell her that you want to leave with her. | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 11:00 PM |
| 3 | General Discussion: New Years Eve Threadthe thing is, they aren't gunna refuse... | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 10:58 PM |
| 1 | General Discussion: New Years Eve ThreadI'm not - I've got 0/2 for the last two years (although after midnight I did get one k-close, and a day2 with another girl from earlier in the night), so this year I'd like to improve on the last two years, ideally! Let's be honest, I'm gonna be too shallaced on expensive beer anyways | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 10:34 PM |
| 3 | General Discussion: New Years Eve ThreadIf I find myself without a particular girl im gaming (say, I've hit a few sets and nothing has stuck, or i've set a solid foundation with a few girls), what's the best protocol come 11:45? I was thinking come that time I may return to a set and drop a cheeky "you're gong to be my new years kiss this year, come with me". Thoughts? | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with girl saying she would still like to see other people?OP, if that is something you are comfortable with, then so be it. If you are not, then tell her and she can decide. You have to be willinbg to let her walk at this stage though. Otherwise, if you are interested in her seeing other people (and you as well, of course) then just make sure you are the best of the bunch! | /r/seduction | 31/12/13 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Is the concept of a "league" real, and should it be considered when approaching women?the idea of a league is legitimate, but only you determine what league you are in, so in that sense, it doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 05:12 PM |
| 1 | This comedian sums up texting girls perfectly.dear diary | /r/seduction | 30/12/13 05:10 PM |
| 1 | I was asked by a girl at a bar "How big is your dick?" ... I fucked up and didn't have a good response"you mean in meters?" | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Some things I'd love to see from /r/seduction in 2014 - what else?I agree. Maybe stretch it over two weeks, so M-W-F-Su-Tu-Thu-Sat | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 05:39 PM |
| 8 | Some things I'd love to see from /r/seduction in 2014 - what else?We could do the kind of thing I fin engaging over at /r/running - a post every day of the week that starts a thread. For example: Sunday: Weekly Mini-FR Report (this could siphon off some of those crappy simple FR's that include "oh i banged her" and "oh i smiled at her" kind of posts. Monday: Weekly Goals Thread Tuesday: Simple Questions Thread Wednesday: Tactics Discussion Thursday: Venue Discussions and Questions Friday: Weekend Plans Free for All Saturday: Fashion and Style or something like… | /r/seduction | 26/12/13 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to More Field Testing, Less Theory CraftingThis should all be tempered with the warning: you will undoubtedly fall flat on your face a bunch of times, try to let this teach you. | /r/seduction | 17/12/13 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Advice on text gameText her soon and invite her over to eat dinner and hang out at your place tonight or tomorrow night. You don't need to pussyfoot around it, just text something like: Hey, I'm making [insert your meal of choice here] for dinner tonight, come hang out! All you need to do at this point is isolate her. If she's interested she will go along with it. | /r/seduction | 16/12/13 05:36 PM |
| 1 | What do you do for excitement?I run. Keeps me looking fantastic, feeling fantastic, and distances always impress people. | /r/seduction | 16/12/13 02:41 AM |
| 3 | A reconciliation of r/seduction and feminism - What are your views on feminism?I think their sexuality is one thing, but its that they generally look down upon male sexuality as brutish, or somehow based entirely on female sexuality. There's little space within the discourse for men expressing sexuality without charges of privilege and expectation. And the way they message their desires can be confusing - they ask, as most women do, for respect, but code their idea of respect in language that makes it look a lot like very passive, beta behaviour that in the end, is unnatra… | /r/seduction | 15/12/13 12:36 AM |
| 4 | A reconciliation of r/seduction and feminism - What are your views on feminism?Feminism tends to ignore the fact that both men and women are looking for fulfilling sexual relationships, and as such the messages it sends are often contradictory and confusing, and the general feminist ethos does little to foster real emotional relationships. | /r/seduction | 14/12/13 10:46 PM |
| 4 | So I made a twitter account of my attempts at courtship/loveHow on earth is getting validation and laughs on twitter for your shitty game supposed to help you at all? Maybe I just don't get it. | /r/seduction | 14/12/13 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Talking less on purpose, people in general talk too muchTalk as much as you need to. Not a single word more. | /r/seduction | 13/12/13 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Need help with Kino Escalation`Some sort of go to move is good. Whenever I'm sitting down with a girl (beside her or across) I make our legs touch. The more contact the better. When she doesn't move it away, you know she's comfortable with it. After that, I move to hand on the knee, arm around her, and then from there its a short hop to making out and on you go! | /r/seduction | 13/12/13 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What are some flirty 'bets' you can make with a girl?No specific bet. I like to do it while judging other people ("i'll bet you that guy likes xxxxxx" or "i bet that guy plays hockey") kind of stuff. Or on meaningless fact disagreements that we can google right there. | /r/seduction | 12/12/13 03:15 AM |
| 1 | I miss my ex, but I won't be ready to date her again for a long time (I'm working on self improvement.) No contact sucksYou never answered the question. Why did you feel that breaking it off was necessary? | /r/seduction | 12/12/13 03:13 AM |
| 1 | I miss my ex, but I won't be ready to date her again for a long time (I'm working on self improvement.) No contact sucksWhat did you want to get out of the breakup? If all you wanted was some self-improvement, you should ask yourself why you felt you needed to be single to do so. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 04:33 PM |
| 1 | What are some flirty 'bets' you can make with a girl?yeah, you just make some kind of bet, doesn't matter what it is. Loser has to kiss the other person on the cheek. Sometimes if I'm feeling realllly cheeky (pun intended) I pull the ol' game show host last minute head turn peck on the lips thing, but you gotta feel that out. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 04:12 PM |
| 8 | What are some flirty 'bets' you can make with a girl?I sometimes use the "loser has to kiss the other on the cheek." its so corny it works. | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Lesson's for pickup from Orwell's 1984 [SPOILER ALERT]I was expecting you to go off on a tangent about the power of words and language, but this confusing mess... I dunno man. | /r/seduction | 10/12/13 10:15 PM |
| 2 | In light of all the virgin talk...At the end of the day, you can't expect a flawless, impressive seduction for your first time. Its not going to happen. What you can do though is do the best you can and try as hard as you can. It'll happen when it happens. | /r/seduction | 08/12/13 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Ending things - need help making the best of a bad situation hereTo clarify: I never went on the date - the date was planned for the day after we first hooked up, and I ended up cancelling. She was upset that I even mentioned another date. | /r/seduction | 01/12/13 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys! I managed to get over my AA (anxiety approach) and msg this girl.is there a point to this joke we're all missing? | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Guys! I managed to get over my AA (anxiety approach) and msg this girl.Ya you just messaged yourself you dingus. | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Mentally Strong People: The 13 Things They AvoidThat's a tough one. Especially when the end goal - getting laid/relationship - can sometimes happen. You start to think that you've got it, when really you've still got a long way to go. Learning that now.... | /r/seduction | 27/11/13 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Getting in ShapeMajor benefits. I'm a runner, and the process of running has a number of really great effects: You get in shape. You can talk about your next big race and your training goals, and it will seem interesting. Most people think running 5k is impressive, if you are training for a marathon or even a half, its a great conversation topic. You will feel better in your own body - more control over posture, I found. The process of running is not too strenuous, and you can work it into your daily lifestyle … | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Mentally Strong People: The 13 Things They AvoidBrilliant. Not necessarily game related, but this is absolutely fantastic life advice. | /r/seduction | 26/11/13 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Hit the town in a well fitted tailored suit every now and then.I partly agree, but i think a great deal of the success OP had with it is because a suit is raw sexy in a way preppy style just isnt. | /r/seduction | 15/09/13 01:16 AM |
| 20 | A quick thread to stress how important eye contact isI can't emphasize enough how important this is. Recently I realized it was one of the big holes in my game, and since I have adopted strong eye contact when talking to women the attention and IOI's I receive have gone through the roof. | /r/seduction | 15/09/13 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Getting Laid While Living At Home?haha, that's the post I made! | /r/seduction | 07/09/13 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Getting Laid While Living At Home?I wrote up a post a year back or so. Essentially: Get your parents on your side - treat them like social adults and they will treat you like one. Afford them their space and you will get some of your own. Have a sex location with some space between you and the parents room, if logistics necessitate it. I have used the movie in the basement with the fireplace and blankets. Honesty - HONESTY. I can't repeat this enough times. If you want to have a girl over, kindly request some space. They've been… | /r/seduction | 04/09/13 03:49 AM |
| 2 | R&B star cleared of wrongdoing in rape investigation, but college pulls the plug on his showHa. I go to this college. We have a terribly misandrist student council. Nothing but bashing students over the head with wild feminist principles. | /r/MensRights | 04/09/13 03:16 AM |
| 6 | Great line given to me by girl at a music festivalHaving also been to music festivals, this is not necessarily so. It all depends what kind of festival it is. | /r/seduction | 03/09/13 03:12 AM |
| 19 | Great line given to me by girl at a music festivalfook off. Don't assume what you don't know just to bring the guy down. | /r/seduction | 02/09/13 06:19 PM |
| 2 | If you have been part of this subreddit for two years and still havent gotten past approach anxiety, I may have somethin for you.What on earth... I've been on anti-depressants before, for a period of a year and a half. A couple things: 1) its not this good time happy drug 2) it doesn't do shit all for your AA, 3) you're yawning all the time and your dick just takes on a mind of its own. | /r/seduction | 28/08/13 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, what is your current major mental blocks/sticking points?I'm stuck on a couple things: I'm used to playing a lot of game within various social circles, meeting friends of friends and running game that way, and my cold approach skills have decayed a little bit. This being the first summer where I'm not seeing anyone in a university town, things have just stagnated a little bit, to the point where I don't even want to go out anymore, and hence am not meeting any new women to even practice game on. Secondly, when I do meet them I'm not maintaining physic… | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 10:21 PM |
| 7 | How To Pick Up Girls From Open To CloseSave the video, listen to it on a bus ride or a workout or something. It's also good to pick out little sticking points you might have. | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Doesn't feel like techniques are working; What am I doing wrong?As a book addict who won't put anything down after page 100 my lord, yes man, finish this book! | /r/seduction | 24/08/13 03:17 PM |
| 1 | The 3 Rules of Social Savviness {Chateua Heartiste}Definitely had his Oxford English Dictionary at hand. | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Solo clubbing guide to leaving with a girlThose moves to the Kesha song might work for you and in that case keep on with it, but my lord I cringed at: "Oh what a shame that you came with someone" -Take a girl you are interested in and grab her (hand or otherwise) and move your arm across pointing to her friends | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 02:36 PM |
| 0 | Woman comedian frames male obligation to buy women an engagement ring as sexism against womenWhat bugs me about this is that she doesn't realize its an engagement she wants, not a fucking diamond. Way to logic. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/13 02:33 PM |
| 1 | 21 year old virgin moving away to college next week. Any helpful advice?But...but... m'lady | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 05:25 AM |
| 6 | 21 year old virgin moving away to college next week. Any helpful advice?Most college guys (at least in my town) have a fairly standard wardrobe. Going out at night, its one of like, three outfits: tanktop and plastic sunglasses, v-neck and baseball cap, or plaid shirt. Not saying to rule these things out of your wardrobe if you like them - ok, maybe the tank top - but have a nice white shirt, its so versatile and with a button undone eminates raw sex appeal; have a couple buttondowns that fit you really well and look good in a number of contexts; have some cool tshi… | /r/seduction | 18/08/13 05:22 AM |
| 6 | 21 year old virgin moving away to college next week. Any helpful advice?Don't dress like every other college guy. | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Do you have huge approach anxiety? I have come across a solution, and it's brilliant fun. The Name Game.I play this all the time - i switch it to "hey, i'll give you 3 dollars if you can guess my name" and then switch roles. its fun. | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 11:04 PM |
| 3 | I recently re-read some of the old The Game, Mystery Method, type stuff...I read The Game after becoming fully acquanited with RSD methods, Models, and all the inner-game-centric stuff. It made me realize that perhaps a certain element of logic was exactly what my game was lacking. After starting to think of it in terms of logic rather than pure emotion (I fall somewhere in the middle of the two now) I find it improved my game. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 10:22 PM |
| 12 | [FR] From strangers to F-close in an hourTrue. And hey, that's awesome for you, I wish it was me haha. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 05:33 PM |
| 15 | [FR] From strangers to F-close in an hourThere is really nothing to learn from this. You sat down and she did all the work. All you did was drop a nice routine, which was to your credit perfectly placed, but don't assume that it was your overall game that turned her. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 04:53 PM |
| 5 | An honest feminist tells you the truth: Feminism is not about equality.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_true_Scotsman | /r/MensRights | 12/08/13 05:02 PM |
| 5 | Oldschool pua! The most dangerous routine in the known Meta-Verse..."Insta-Girlfriend."I used this routine in a chicken shop one night. Bar's closing, and I'm picking up a box of wings for my walk home. Girl in there covered with piercings, one final open for me. Get to making a "you're gonna be my new wife now". She laughs says ok, I say we better kiss to make it official, chicken shop K-close. | /r/seduction | 12/08/13 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Great gender-neutral anti-rape campaign [X-post from /r/feminisms]I cannot agree with this more. We expect men to figure out ever nuance, every subtlety, and then chastise them when they have a little trouble. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/13 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Pheromones?If you're sweating a lot don't shower immediately after the workout. You'll just keep sweating unattractively for like, 3 hours. Source: runner. | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 03:09 PM |
| 2 | Pheromones?I agree with you, although I dislike your tone. I wish there was more of what there used to be, the posts that were "Great Opener I tested in the field last night" kind of stuff. | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Pheromones?It smells like the time the raccoon got into the copier! | /r/seduction | 09/08/13 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Models by Mark Manson is blowing my fucking mindThis. Frankly, I have a feeling that he or his publishers wanted to spin it as self help rather than pickup. | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 03:19 AM |
| 2 | If you're out by yourself how do you handle that situation?I was new in a new city and went to a bar alone. Your thesis: disproved. | /r/seduction | 29/07/13 01:15 PM |
| 3 | 101 Ways for Men to be Allies to Women, including: "Walk on the other side of the street when a woman is walking towards you at night." Sigh.I don't think your point - a great one - gets enough attention on this forum. This kind of advice will unequivocally lead to romantic failure for men; this guy is writing what he thinks women want, and it almost certainly is not attractive behaviour. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/13 11:54 AM |
| 2 | 101 Ways for Men to be Allies to Women, including: "Walk on the other side of the street when a woman is walking towards you at night." Sigh.Drowning in it. | /r/MensRights | 29/07/13 11:52 AM |
| 3 | Called sexist for having a typeSo no Neil for you then, eh? | /r/MensRights | 28/07/13 11:44 PM |
| 47 | Does Jezebel cover men's issues?I honestly just sit here, starting in a decent mood, and then I read shit like this and my chest goes into knots and my face starts to feel hot and I feel like writing angry letters. | /r/MensRights | 28/07/13 03:45 AM |
| 13 | 101 Ways for Men to be Allies to Women, including: "Walk on the other side of the street when a woman is walking towards you at night." Sigh.I think its dogma too - whatever your position on the matter, it has nothing to do with feminism, and as such its just dogma to assume that all liberal leaning gender conscious feminists need to support SS marriage. | /r/MensRights | 27/07/13 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Do you always have to be the one setting up a date? While texting, can you put the responsibility on the girl?exactly. If I get one where they don't say that, I usually just leave it for a week or so, try one more time, and if nothing then move along. | /r/seduction | 19/07/13 05:16 AM |
| 58 | Do you always have to be the one setting up a date? While texting, can you put the responsibility on the girl?If they want you, they will let you know when they're free. | /r/seduction | 19/07/13 04:46 AM |
| 0 | The Secret Society [Masterful Level Material]It's misogynist because you assume that all girls (50% of the population, are goverened by rules such as: It's OK to cheat on someone who is not a part of the secret society, so long as it is for the purpose of fulfilling the needs of someone who is, or if it to fulfill your own needs and it is with someone who is a part of the secret society. Sleeping with a rare guy from the secret society is no worse than grinding with a girlfriend at a club and making out with her. "It doesn't count". and If… | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 04:58 PM |
| 0 | The Secret Society [Masterful Level Material]I hate that subreddit, and I've been on seddit for quite some time. All I'm saying is that conceiving of genders as adversaries, as if we need to break into a certain combination lock to get sex, is just plain wrong. | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 04:42 PM |
| -1 | The Secret Society [Masterful Level Material]This is truly one of the most misogynistic and non-sensical pieces of writing I have ever seen, and thoroughly misinterprets and misunderstands human relationships. | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 10:38 PM |
| 3 | I have a problem with dating/seduction because I know it'll ultimately lead to sex...??Checked out the post history. wot. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 04:22 PM |
| 1 | WTF, I did everything perfectly IMO, but am getting friendzoned?There are of course exceptions, but in my experience a girl who is committed to a boyfriend is going to stay that way. If she is looking to cheat or is willing to, she will, but otherwise she's probably not going to. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 04:03 PM |
| 3 | WTF, I did everything perfectly IMO, but am getting friendzoned?Sounds like she has a boyfriend. If the girl has a boyfriend and doesn't want to cheat on him, nothing you can say or do is going to change her mind on that matter, and nor should it. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 03:58 PM |
| -1 | Evolution of Frank Pt. 2 [FR]If real: cool stuff, albeit your voice is odd. Congrats on the date though, sounds like a good'un! If fiction: eh, so so fiction. | /r/seduction | 11/07/13 06:11 AM |
| 6 | Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino.who says that its wasted? Say the event goes well, what's to say its off limits for someone else? College girls are still cool and deserve something interesting. If anything, they are awash in guys showing up with cheap lager and condoms and that's all they ever get - why not make that more of an impact by having a really unique date idea that she's never been involved in before? | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 09:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readYou can literally say anything you want though. If the crowd's not feeling it, fuck them. Stick by it, don't dwell, and move on to something else. I once told a bunch of sorority girls that I thought being in a sorority was kinda like joining the KKK just without the racism, same big parties. It died on the floor, but they at least respected the fact that I stood by it. I told the joke again with a different crowd and they loved the analogy. For what its worth, the analogy was this: "joining a s… | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 04:00 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readNo no no. All I meant by that was that it doesn't always require what I think of as "game" to sleep with someone - sometimes its easy, natural, and all it requires is a little logistical planning. I didn't mean that the girl was somehow a slut, or chronically loose or easy or whatever, just that it was an easy close for the guy, because the attraction was so obviously there. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 03:55 AM |
| 14 | Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino.Alright, excellent. I was pondering good date ideas while I was running today and ran past it and thought it would be a great idea. Plus, there's a fully furnished bedroom in there that they've been using for promo material... http://i.imgur.com/UuQbJ.gif But seriously though, I'm gonna see if I can fandangle that as a little adventure. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 01:22 AM |
| 35 | Seddit, let's hear your go-to 1st and 2nd date ideas that are conducive to lots of kino.I live in a pretty wooded area, so I find a walk in the woods to a lookout point works pretty well if you've generated enough comfort and aren't gonna maker her feel like she's gonna be raped. For my own curiosity, what would you guys think of a date that went up to the top of a university residence in construction for a few beers on the roof? I have one going up right down the road from me, and its accessible with some simple fence hopping, and offers a really cool view. I think taking a girl u… | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 12:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readHave you ever heard a girl talk about how hard it is for them to find a good guy? Or about how all guys they meet are assholes? Those are the things girls say who are craving a real connection, not one cloaked in layers of bullshit. | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 12:07 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readJust for interests sake and maybe so I can give you a little advice, can you give me an example of a time this happened? | /r/seduction | 03/07/13 12:06 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readYeah sure, its confirmation, but I think its been thoroughly vouched for that confidence and touch/proximity are responsible for success. This sub has been slowly becoming more about FRs that are little more than "GUYS LOOK IT WORKED" than anything. I barely even read the FRs that discuss success anymore, because I find the ones that say "this is why it DIDNT work out" far more valuable and interesting. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 10:19 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readShit dude, you don't have to be the source of all entertainment to be confident. Say what you need to say, and nothing more. Don't say random stupid stuff that you know is going to be misunderstood for the sake of saying it, because its not the fact that what you are saying is unattractive, its the fact that you are just creating noise pollution and takling for the sake of talking that is unattractive. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 09:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readDude. Both men and women are out there craving romantic, sexual, personal, emotional connections. Sometimes its not easy to facilitate, but that's all this stuff is - facilitating the connections that people are looking for, not creating them out of thin air. If you are happy being "unwanted" and "invisible" living without being able to bring the kind of women you want into your life, that's fine, but don't lash out at females because of it. If you want to be confident and have people treat you … | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 09:35 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readHow? This amounts to: "the guy was hot and did some stuff that turned me on so I fucked him." I mean, its not like the guy converted her from being neutral to wanting him. He did that the night before when OP was sloshed. This FR is just her checking a guys fb, deciding he was attractive and french, and then just following the tide from there. I'm not saying its not good for them, but its not exactly a lesson for us. | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 09:28 PM |
| 34 | [FR] Seduced by a French guy (Girl's POV). Long, but I hope it's worth a readThis post has almost got to be BS. The whole virgin thing makes no sense, first off, as has been noted. Other than that, what does this teach anyone? You were attracted to him from the get-go, this was low-hanging fruit for the guy, and it required only minimal game to sleep with you. You guys were not "mostly just friendly" before hand, you'd already made out. It was on the table, and it was very clear that both parties were interested. I'm not saying that its not cool for you, but if this is t… | /r/seduction | 02/07/13 01:41 PM |
| 1 | The #1 Reason You're Not Having SexChrist I needed this read. I've been in a funk for two days over not taking some subtle cues from a girl and more than anything not being ballsy and just making a fucking move. I'm gonna re-read this a few times. | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 09:13 PM |
| 0 | I just had the worst night I've had in a LONG timeFirst off, one bad night does not mean that you should put your social life on hold. Yeah, having the girl go and fuck some other guy after the night with you around sucks. But you shouldn't put up with that kinda shit. Once she was all over that guy I wouldn't have stuck around any longer and just got the hell out of there. What does this teach you? That you didn't close. To be fair, she was in a bit of a messed up emotional state with her crying, so i wouldn't have tried to close there. But in… | /r/seduction | 22/06/13 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Is the "strong silent type" just a hollywood trope? How does a man attract by simply being comfortably handsome in a corner and grunting a suave comment once and while?I agree, but it was only like, 4 words bro. | /r/seduction | 17/06/13 07:14 PM |
| 1 | [FR] first night out in the shangOpened up another set she was a prostitute told me she wanted 200usd a night we've all been there bro... | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Short [FR] Screening for logistics led to an f-close, but not initiating an IOI cost me a lot of effort.Ever just toss them a thumbs down and then approach? With a smilt on your face it might be nice and playful | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 12:36 AM |
| 3 | Why feminism isn't compatible with modern relationships and sex.this. in terms of 'the friendzone' idea, most feminists seem to forget that there is a difference between expectations and hopes. And that if you get close to someone and start to really like them, that person telling you its not going to happen because you are too close of friends can be confusing and stings a little bit. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/13 12:58 PM |
| -2 | The Double Standard I have the hardest time withOn FGM and the salve trade: http://dss.ucsd.edu/~gmackie/documents/MackieASR.pdf see page 1003-1004 for a discussion of FGM and its historic origins as linked to the slave trade. And now that I read the stats, MGM is more prevalent in the middle east. I retract my statement to the contrary. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/13 03:54 PM |
| -5 | The Double Standard I have the hardest time withHe was right that male circumcision has its roots in cultural practices, such as the Jewish ritual, that are hard to overturn. FGM has been historically linked to the slave trade and practices revolving around the world of slaves and slave trading. I'm not saying either is right, but let's just think about which has a more benign history. Furthermore, FGM is more commonly practiced in Africa, where the standards of cleanliness and medical practice is much lower. MGM is practiced predominately in… | /r/MensRights | 30/05/13 12:39 PM |
| -10 | The Double Standard I have the hardest time withWhy? He was right. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/13 11:17 AM |
| 24 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!"I can read palms..." | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Beach game advice?Can you find an older brother or something to score you a 24? | /r/seduction | 25/05/13 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Beach game advice?Since the only advice actually being offered here is to have an attractive upper body, perhaps I'll throw my advice into the ring: bonfires. If I'm looking to game a little bit at the beach, I wait until a nice night, load a backpack with beers, and start strolling with a buddy. We find a beach fire going on, open as usual, toss out a free beer or two and you're in. Also, hit the bars around the beach and invite them to your super exclusive VIP-only super classy beach fire afterparty. | /r/seduction | 24/05/13 11:27 AM |
| 5 | Ways to meet women in the summer without hitting up bars or clubs?shit haha. which episode? I've seen every one, this line didn't ring any bells. | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 09:55 AM |
| 8 | Ways to meet women in the summer without hitting up bars or clubs?what show is this from? | /r/seduction | 23/05/13 09:42 AM |
| 6 | haro seddit... need help on this unique shit test...Alright lemme break it down for you. Is this how you text normally? "Imagine what would soulja boy say :0??" What? It seems, although I don't actually have much Soulja Boy knowledge, that this was a long setup to the "I'm going to be doing you on thursday night bit, that might have actually been cool and sexy, except when push came to shove, you wrote this: "Youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu ;P" These texts are filled with invented emoticons that are overly reminiscent of a 15 year old girl. Seriously, what u… | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 10:41 AM |
| 7 | I was wondering how you guys felt about not actually wanting to sleep with most girls you meet, however not being against the idea.Jesus mate. I was coming here to post a similar thread, to see what everyone thought. I'm moving continents in three weeks, and I feel like I'm just gaming chicks for the hell of it. I had a girl come over today, not because I was particularly interested, but because I could. I would have had sex with her if she wanted to, but I just didn't have any particular desire to show my interest because, well, any interest that I had would have been fake interest anyways. When I do actually have a strong… | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Why You're Not Actually Flirting When You Think You AreFunny that this would appear at the top of the page just after I pretty much blew a day2 for this exact reason. Great article. | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 06:30 PM |
| 1 | FR droppin the ball.Haha just reminded me of my own story: girl i worked with was leaving a christmas party and said "well im getting a cab, do you wanna share one?" while standing about a foot from my face. Needless to say I missed every sign and got my own damn cab. It was pretty bad when I realized the next day what I'd missed. Shake it off man. Sometimes these things happen, and we fuck up. Just make sure to excise this one next time, and make a kiss and more happen. | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 11:22 AM |
| 0 | This has been working for me.What is with the apprehension towards bringing girls back to your parents house? If you're in high school its essentially expected by the girl that you live with your parents, and so does she, and if she's cool with it what's the problem? Just tell your parents that you have an active sex life and they will respect that. I live with my dad still, and he just knows that if i've closed my bedroom door that there's a lady in there, and for him to just be cool. The most he's ever said is "so <redact… | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 11:18 AM |
| 7 | Seddit Abroad: How do you Approach in a Foreign Country?Learn the language, and use the language as a springboard - ask the girls to sit down and give you some lessons, i've used that many times! Other than that, use it as a chance to slooooow down your speaking and to use simple language - always a good thing in seduction to be straightforward. | /r/seduction | 20/05/13 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Lighting the fire: why camping is one of the best date ideas.E ngage physically | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Something that accidentally humbled and HELPED me.today, OP was not a very cool guy. | /r/seduction | 11/05/13 02:43 PM |
| 4 | Story about how I met a cute french girl in another provinceC'est une bonne histoire, l'accent quebecois est très sexy, j'espére déplacer au Montreal en deux ans! | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 12:25 PM |
| 1 | A quick guide to clubbingThis is the exact stuff that I came to seddit to stop having to do. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 08:38 PM |
| 1 | I need to get out of oneitis and f-close my HB9 prom dateI dunno, she might have wanted a prom date. I'm not saying she's not into you, but I am saying that you need to try to escalate soon, or else thewhole thing will be dead. Escalation, in this sense, would just be demonstrating your interest through your actions (not text messages) and to continue pushing the relationship and gettin you two closer and more intimate, i guess. | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I need to get out of oneitis and f-close my HB9 prom dateIf she wont come over, it sounds like you're her text friend. She can shamelessly flirt and string you along, but when push comes to shove she won't do anything. Again, you're gonna need to escalate BEFORE this little prom thing. | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 01:09 PM |
| 1 | I need to get out of oneitis and f-close my HB9 prom dateIf prom is a month away, you better damn well try to escalate before prom. If this girl is how you make her sound, you probably will have a harder time going from 0 to f-close all in one night, so you would be best to introduce a kiss, some physical contact, some fooling around early. Like, tonight early. First step, IMO, would be to get her out tonight. Send her a text telling her to come over to your place/get coffee/go to dinner whatever. Send it now, and try to set up a date for tonight. Pro… | /r/seduction | 04/05/13 10:50 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Super Exciting Facebook Story (lie), Plus a Life Lesson For the Noobs (not lie)Beautiful. If this question ever comes up, I'm stealing your line. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 08:26 PM |
| 4 | So take all this stuff you know now back to yourself in high-school. What would you do different and how would you do it?I would have worked on my inner game, and probably learned how to convey my interest through my actions, which was a totally foreign concept to me. I look back at all the situations where I could have stepped up and probably gotten the girl, and some confidence would have really helped me. | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Dear seddit, what do you wish you had known earlier on your journey of becoming successful/a PUA?Hahaha yeah, i mean i too am a whole different brand of fun when I've been drinking. I have even worse game when stoned. I become a catatonic zombie who is unable to process social interactions. Its actually screwed me out of getting laid on more than one occasion. | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 08:29 AM |
| 3 | Dear seddit, what do you wish you had known earlier on your journey of becoming successful/a PUA?disagree. the only time I seem to have any success is when I'm sober. my drunk game sucks. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 10:01 AM |
| 15 | Tonight I went out and did what I previously thought impossiblefuck you dude. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 09:59 AM |
| 4 | I'm the one who flakes...Don't start messing around willy nilly with anti-anxiety meds. I can vouch for their effectiveness as a medical tool, but I would never advise taking them to improve confidence. If you really think you need them, go see a doc and do it the right way. If you're anxious a lot, I definitely recommend that. I used to be really nervous about asking. If it was asking to hang out, asking what a girl was planning for the weekend, etc. I would get really nervous, too the point where I didn't even want to… | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 06:07 PM |
| 21 | A little pre-date hack that has been working well for me. What are some that work well for you?Interestingly enough, I clean my room. I get kinda frazzled during the week putting in long study/writing/research hours, so by thursday night its a bit of a sty if I haven't had a date that week. Cleaning it and putting it into some semblance of order and getting some booze out 1) helps me anticipate bringing a female back, putting me in a confident state to invite someone back and 2) gets me moving around a little bit. Seems insignificant, but its what I do. | /r/seduction | 26/04/13 06:02 PM |
| 2 | How to throw a fun party, and how being a good host helps your gamereally? I've thrown multiple that are great times, but I never hook up. Tips for your own party? | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 11:57 PM |
| 0 | What is going through your head when you are talking to a girl?Are you drinkning when you go out? Whenever I drink or use any substances, I can't stop thinking about if I sound drastically impaired or not. | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 09:47 PM |
| 4 | I'm in a difficult position when it comes to picking up women. My story is inside and I'd like some advice please.I wrote a post about living at home a while back. IF you can change it, change it, but if you are stuck at home, learn to make it work for you: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/115itl/guide_to_living_with_your_parents/ | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Times where you've AFC'd out hard?every time i read it I half laugh and half want to kill myself haha. if you want a serious barometer of your game, go back through your fb messages...its been a profound experiment. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 12:15 PM |
| 7 | Times where you've AFC'd out hard?oh god I'm reliving it make the pain stop | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 08:00 PM |
| 5 | Times where you've AFC'd out hard?First serious girl I wanted to have sex with after finding Seddit. She just breaks up with her boyfriend, and I used to work with her. Texts me all the time, long flirty conversations. She invites me to her Christmas party (at the place I used to work at) and we go out drinking afterwards. I remain a loyal lapdog for most of the evening as she talks to everyone who will listen about how she misses her boyfriend so much. I sit quietly and don't say much. Drive her home, awkwardly put my hand on h… | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Times where you've AFC'd out hard?Have been in a (failed) one before. They feel like great ways to break out of boredom in a relationship without having to actually face the fact that you're bored. As a guy you are often blinded by the fact that you think you will be faced with a wall of pussy. In reality, you're too sedentary from the relationship that you get no girls, and your relationship falls apart. Or at least that was me. | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:47 PM |
| 5 | "I have to go find my friends?" how do you respondI try to pre-empt this. Grinding and pure raw sex appeal really isn't my strong point, so I usually try to pre-empt this by getting her off the dance floor. Wait until a song ends, then take her to the bar and grab a drink. I usually go with water, because if you get a drink every time you pull this, you might get way too drunk over the course of the night. If she's going to find her friends, its sometimes a sign that she's not interested and that you haven't built enough attraction/investment. … | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:39 PM |
| 3 | "I have to go find my friends?" how do you respondits generally all that dancing has become over the past 10 years. | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 07:36 PM |
| 10 | What are you doing before you make out?This was in my house. The day got weirder - I eventually got her back to my bedroom. I'm just about to start taking her clothes off, when my landlord shows up and has a showing for potential renters. Not knowing what to do I let the girl take a nap in my bed for an hour while I talked to my landlord and the renters, who blabbered on incessantly for quite some time. Needless to say, unless she wants to come over tonight I'm closing the book on that one and chocking it up as a funny story, which i… | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 05:31 PM |
| 17 | What are you doing before you make out?strangest event recently: flirting with a girl, she starts tickling me (which I fucking hate, but its about the biggest IOI you can get) so I figure then was the time to pull the old ticking to making out move. It has literally never failed me, but this time she must have shifted last second, because I landed on her cheek somewhere. It was awkward, but she didn't really move away, or towards the kiss. I had to back out briefly before moving her chin towards mine with my hand. It was awkward. She… | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 05:18 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of James Marshall's style?They are questions that follow an original. E.g. "What do you study at school?" "biology" "Oh ya? Why biology?" and then that just gets girls to invest more in conversation with deeper discussion | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 12:37 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of James Marshall's style?What James Marshall is good at is tapping into his natural energy level and directing that towards seduction, rather than trying to apply any real 'game' methods. That said, some of his advice about how to get girls to invest in the conversation is great. My favourite is how he advices asking "challenging" questions after an interview style question to thread conversation. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Where pick up lines come from...That was honestly the dumbest video i've ever seen. | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 05:19 PM |
| 8 | How to get everyone in the room naked by applying one-on-one seduction techniques to mixed gender groupsJesus, just the write up turned me on. Can we sidebar this one under 'Group Seduction'? In a way this is self-serving as well as excellent at creating a sexual tension explosion. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 08:30 PM |
| 1 | 2 years back I wasn´t a AFC, Now I´m a fucking loserYou left the element that you thought was giving you success - America. REmind yourself that what you were doing well in the US is the same thing you need to do well in Germany. Hell, I've been on exchange for the past month and have used it to really improve myself, and im even more excited to take what I've learned and improved on here back to my home turf. | /r/seduction | 28/02/13 03:46 PM |
| 11 | How do I start a conversation?In your situation: "hey, i know you from <club>. What's going on?" and sit down next to/across from her. In all other situations where you know the girl superficially: "hey, are you/do you/have you/ were you <however you know her>?" <answer> "Oh cool, how've you been?" and sit down/stay around her. If you don't know her: "Hey interesting lady, what's going on?" And sit down/stand near her | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Seducing Spanish girls on their home turf?studying abroad in England, where a lot of spanish girls go. I echo this sentiment completely. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Man, I Became an AFC again last night...I did something to that effect last night. Luckily enough for me I'm heading on a 3 day vacation with a school group to amsterdam with her, so escalating should be incredibly easy, should I decide to pursue her. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 09:23 PM |
| 4 | Man, I Became an AFC again last night...haha yeah i get it. I'm not totally sure how to read the girl pushing me so hard, but frankly I'm not too concerned, because i know if I start to worry about it I'll slip back into oneitis, and I really don't wanna do that. It is offputting, because it feels like I have to conform my game to become something flashy and impressive, which for myself is the complete opposite of how I operate - it was as if I was expected to have this big fireworks show just to get a number. And once I was expected … | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 08:42 PM |
| 14 | Man, I Became an AFC again last night...ha...i had a little spot of oneitis for her earlier in the year, but she's been toying around hooking up with my good mate. I've moved on from her, its all good. Although some of her behaviour recently made me think that she might want me...hmm. | /r/seduction | 27/02/13 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Need help about closing...Jesus, its almost as if I made this post... Having the same problem as you, I can escalate to a kiss no problem, but after that I seem lost. In for further advice. | /r/seduction | 20/02/13 11:55 AM |
| 2 | Just "failed" So Terribly, Still FeelsGooMan.jpgsame - I may steal it ;) | /r/seduction | 13/02/13 07:13 PM |
| -1 | [FR] Met girl from OkCupid for a casual date, f-closed her roomate. WTFyou're an idiot, please leave. we don't judge here. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 07:46 PM |
| 0 | How to transition from making out to sex?gives her too much of an opportunity to start doubting herself. You should assume that she does want you to get a condom, and not introduce doubt into the equation. This way will activate that part of her brain that says "this is too fast, i need to put the brakes on" and so on. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Hey bros, good job on these fuck closes!yeah, i almost always follow up if I think the girl is cool. MY problem is when I get the day2, I'm not establishing a strong sexual frame, or I'm inadvertantly friendzoning the girl. Case in point, i got a number of a cute American girl, but when we hung out I was way too casual and friendly. We're extremely close friends now, but I passed up a chance for a sexual relationship. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Hey bros, good job on these fuck closes!its nice to see all this, especially as a guy who is on a streak of # and K-closes, but who is having a hard time moving past that. when will it be mein turn? srs though, good work by everyone here. | /r/seduction | 08/02/13 06:30 PM |
| 2 | The Friend Zone Myth.The classic case of friendzone is more to do with how guys friendzone the girl than the other way around. I have many a time broken out of the friendzone, it just takes a little bit of tact and time sometimes. In fact, I tend to enjoy that period that most guys think is friendzoned - its in reality a period where people are investing in each other and figuring each other out, and it can be really great to build a foundation here that leads to intense romance. | /r/seduction | 05/02/13 02:24 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Week 2: International Exchange. Countless Approches, Numbers, and a Massive Cockblock.haha thanks man. Coming on exchange was sort of a big thing for me...ive never lived outside of home and never been thrown into a situation where I don't know anyone before. Part of what I wanted to do through coming out was conquer AA, which i had done before but for about 6 months prior to leaving, had just been totally dominated by. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Week 2: International Exchange. Countless Approches, Numbers, and a Massive Cockblock.Honestly my friend, I have no clue. I just tried to pacify them by agreeing but still asserting my own agency over the situation. Its tough. People like that suck. | /r/seduction | 02/02/13 05:00 PM |
| 10 | Consistent issues making the move, even after 4-5 datesHonestly, this is what I do whenever I think I should make a move. I play this gif in my head: http://i1214.photobucket.com/albums/cc482/Monsterr707/do-it-phaggot.gif Just go for it man! You'll feel way more confident making the move if you've done it before. Remember, there are few things as exhilirating in the world than making your move. Embrace it! | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 10:35 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Went out solo in Budapest, Hungary...Awesome dude! I'm in the UK as well, and I've been interested in heading out for a weekend to Budapest and other places out in Eastern Europe. As for the FR - good stuff! I'm still wrapping my head around going out solo gaming, I find i get to introspective and introverted when I do go out, even just to places like coffee shops and stuff. So its nice to see guys like you who manage to get into a social mood. Any tips for developing this when you're out by yourself? As for the Brunette - can't be… | /r/seduction | 29/01/13 10:20 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 1/28/13 (please upvote - zero karma)I'm brand new in a town - is it too try-hard to try to coax invites from people who are better connected in the area? I'm used to having a network of friends who I see every single day back home, so not having that is troubling. At the same time, I'm not very good at inviting girls out even when I don't intend on escalating with them. I feel like my requests come across as date-y, but in this weird beta way where tehy think I'm trying to get with them. Example: "Hey, I'm headed over to xx to do … | /r/seduction | 28/01/13 08:08 PM |
| 6 | Hey guys! In my honest opinion all pickup artists are bullshit. I got laid tonight by a 10/10 five years older than me - here's how I did it.This is the least helpful post i've seen in weeks. Thanks a bunch, OP. | /r/seduction | 25/01/13 10:41 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Being straight forward and going for OneitisI came in here expecting a thread like "I was forward and kiss closed my oneitis woooo" having been there and done that, it was the worst decision I've made over the past 3 months...not because I didnt enjoy the kiss, but because my oneitis feelings of caring meant that I didn't escalate all the way to give her mind blowing sex...meaning that any chance I had was utterly gone forever. So good on you for handling this like an absolute fuckin' bro. | /r/seduction | 24/01/13 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Euro game questionsfunny I should run into you here haha, I'm the UK exchange guy. the language barrier as an excuse to kino was fantastic advice! OP, follow this! Worked like a charm last night! | /r/seduction | 23/01/13 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Tips for sarging solo?disagree. I think its ok to just be out there at some points. Just own it. Just wanting to be out and social is purpose in and of itself. | /r/seduction | 22/01/13 11:17 AM |
| 2 | [FR] [3rd post] Hey guys, AFC here. Another night of failure.Dude, game is fun. I enjoy playing it just as much as I enjoy winning it. Enjoy the journey, not just the endgoal. | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 10:41 PM |
| 64 | [FR] [3rd post] Hey guys, AFC here. Another night of failure.Your problem is not that you are failing - its that you are defining failure as anything but getting laid. Honestly, its something I can relate to when I got out of my LTR. You are used to nights out with your girl ending in passionate sex and a guaranteed close. You don't have to put in a tonne of effort because, well, she's your girlfriend and you know exactly how to turn her on, and she is easily turned on by you. When you first get back out there, it can seem odd that single girls don't beha… | /r/seduction | 06/01/13 04:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Sometimes, it just isn't there. Or, "learning that its ok to let go of an outcome".I agree completely about the movie. I had suggested hanging out, and she actually suggested the movie as something she wanted to do. I didn't necessarily want to fight her on that, so that's what we did. As well, we are both living at home - homes with multi5ple siblings, parents, etc at the moment, which made logistics a litle difficult. | /r/seduction | 04/01/13 03:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pulling a date by being the best conversationalist, not necessarily the fastest escalater.I'll post after the date tonight! I did come down with a bitch of a cold, so hopefully I will be able to pull myself together to get my game up by tonight. The girl wants to do a movie date, so I dunno how I feel about that though. Will update! | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 06:50 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Pulling a date by being the best conversationalist, not necessarily the fastest escalater.True, I probably could have done more escalation while conversing. Like I said in the post, however, she laid out a roadmap of her own seduction that didn't necessarily seem to include physical kino escalation. I felt that I could build comfort and rapport through conversation, and kino, while a nice addition, was not necessary to get to a point where I've go a day2 | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 05:47 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Pulling a date by being the best conversationalist, not necessarily the fastest escalater.Agreed. Part of it was logistics as well; we both live at home, and I had family and a bunch of friends at my place that night, and she was there with her sister and friends. It wasn't necessarily the greatest night for a ONS. That said, SupALupRT has a point in that I probably COULD have taken things much further physically if I had escalated. What counts, however, is that she is interested and, if logistics work out, I should be able to close after our meetup tomorrow. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 05:45 PM |
| 1 | A question about the 3-second ruleSometimes "Hi" is enough. After saying hi, or making some small comment on the surroundings, asking her how she is, et cetera, it is often better to just shut up than to try to fill every single silence all the time. | /r/seduction | 31/12/12 03:29 PM |
| -100 | On AA: "Just approach! What's the worst that can happen?" This. A field report, sort of.Seriously, what the hell? What I got out of this is that the barista probably didn't help things. I would be willing to bet he conversed with the girl, said something like "oh, you just met that guy and he came here with you? LOL what a creeper, he's probably some creepy rapist, if you want we could call the cops on him..." Either that or the girl is a psychopath. | /r/seduction | 29/12/12 10:39 PM |
| 6 | Julian Pickup Manifesto. From opening to closing.bookmarked. great video, love julien's stuff. | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 04:07 PM |
| 2 | How to approach random girlsas much as I agree and this is a good approach, i don't think its great advice. For newbies, something a little more structured is required. it takes a lot of confidence to go with "hi i'm..." which is easier once you've done some routines | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 05:06 AM |
| 0 | How to approach random girlshonestly, i haven't found one. It swings between people who use ridiculous openers (good in their own way) and people who go direct (as I mentioned). A lot of it is just thinking about how you come off to a girl - you want to aim for "is aware of what he's doing" rather than "is totally confused" - even if you don't have the greatest opener, its still better than seeming unconfident. | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 04:53 AM |
| 2 | How to approach random girlsThe opener that I use sometimes, and it takes some balls, is to walk over and say "hey pretty/interesting/lovely lady/girl" - these adjectives work well I think, because they establish a non-friendzone frame from square one, and are playful. They aren't like "hello, beautiful goddess of the winter" or something dramatic like that. Girls will sometiimes be a little hesitant, so I follow it up with "i saw you over there and wanted to come say hello. I'm kdelamont." Bingo, you're in. | /r/seduction | 25/12/12 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Freaking out man?Did you actually close her that night? | /r/seduction | 23/12/12 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Holiday Pickup - ME IN SANTA COSTUME PICKING UP HOT GIRLS (VIDEO)honestly, when i started watching i was thinking "whats this twat doing, that'll never work" but then i kept watching, and some of it was pretty fucking sick. | /r/seduction | 15/12/12 10:11 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Met a girl on the street. Three days later I had her in bed. Four days after that she told me she loved me...goddamnit, everything that is successful about this FR is what is completely wrong with my game, because I want to be pulling in this exact fashion. god damn man, god damn. for what its worth, i actually agree with you on the point of not sleeping with women in relationships. I have buddies who will sleep with anything with a pulse, because they think its JUST sex and some other guy will get it, when in reality its inviting yourself into the messed up shit that other people have. but also, i sti… | /r/seduction | 14/12/12 06:07 AM |
| 3 | Don't give upQuestion: were you genuinely interested in at least setting up an opportunity for the two of you to get to know each other? Could you have exchanged information, maybe incorporated the guy into your night, all hung out together, etc.? Or were you JUST acting as your friend's shield and vice versa? | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Observations from Another Guy's Failed ApproachAlways good to have the temperature of the room and the people you are talking to. But never get obsessed with it. On a related note, what are your approach techniques in a coffee shop? I hang out there as well a lot of the time, and approaches can sometimes be hard for me to wrap my head around in that environment - do you walk up to the table, call across the shop, or what? | /r/seduction | 12/12/12 03:54 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Successful Cold Approach in Class and Why You Should Read Field Reportscan't argue with that logic. | /r/seduction | 07/12/12 02:58 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Successful Cold Approach in Class and Why You Should Read Field ReportsI agree with this point. In fairness, however, if a girl responds to that by saying its random, she's probably well on her way to saying yes. But yeah, its a pretty good way to pretext the date. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 02:36 PM |
| 54 | [FR] Successful Cold Approach in Class and Why You Should Read Field Reportsenvisioning a rock paper scissors motion... looks a lot like jerking off bro. | /r/seduction | 06/12/12 02:34 PM |
| 3 | the "I just got out of the shower" text messagei find these kinds of comments to be useless - yes, we can all agree that texting is not equatable with face to face, but it is becoming an accepted maxim that to have an active sex life you should be a proficient texter. I think that playful responses help build a rapport - I will text girls with random little conversations like this that mean next to nothing. When I DO see them in person, its as if we are already in the middle of a conversation, and escalating is THAT MUCH EASIER. | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Schools almost out for winter break,I don't have a social circle AT ALL, and I would really like to meet women. Where are some good places to pickup women.I hate to be THAT guy here, but girls don't seem to be your problem - your social issues are your problem. What could you have possibly done to alienate all your friends, including your closest? If it was something you do regularly, are you correcting this behaviour? Do you even yet realize WHY those friends left you? Secondly, I get the sense that you stand in judgement of people who partake in alcohol - do you avoid parties because you don't like the alcohol there? My advice is to start with a… | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 09:52 PM |
| 2 | My old ("beta") mindset is giving me a warped view of attraction.u wot m8 | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 05:01 PM |
| 2 | [FR] I can't come up with a catchy title.textbook. "Let's go outside and chat a bit, if you're a good girl I might just let you be my girlfriend for the next few minutes or so" Loved that, I'll just be stealing that one from you. I hope you don't mind. I've never totally been good at the 20 questions part - I can start the questions, but the transition into sexual questions always confounds me. Is there one or two that you use to bridge the game in that direction? | /r/seduction | 03/12/12 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Any London, Ontario Sedditors out there?London Ontario Sedditor here! Been looking for another londoner on here for the longest time. PM me bro! | /r/seduction | 05/11/12 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Looking For Redditors Who Want To Share SomeYeah, the actual content matters less than the fact that you are talking. I tend to walk around and tell ridiculous stories of things that happen, people I see, etc. | /r/seduction | 22/10/12 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Guide to Living with Your ParentsSouthampton, man! Looking to spend some great nights in London too! | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 10:00 PM |
| 3 | Guide to Living with Your Parentsbeautiful! | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Guide to Living with Your ParentsI'm not a rap or hip-hop fan really, but these are two albums I DO enjoy form the genre. I'm a musical libertarian, but I still wouldn't advise playing 50cent or other such things with a girl in tow. haha. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Guide to Living with Your ParentsI take any preconceived notions of "seductive" music, and throw them out. Seriously, play something good: nothing that is too top-40 ish, nothing that is too mainstream, but nothing that is so indie that it makes you seem pretentious. Play something that shows that you have an active interest in music. For you, I'm gonna give you my go-to lists based on what type of music you're feeling: Indie-Folk: Kathleen Edwards' Voyageur, or Bahamas "Barchords" albums Rock: Anything by the Black Keys, prefe… | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Guide to Living with Your ParentsAgain, the best option I can see is to just start re-framing your relationship with them, as well as framing yourself as a modern male who partakes in sex from time to time in a responsible manner. The best assurance you can give them is that you are being responsible and have everything under control i.e. no diseases or kids. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 01:26 AM |
| 4 | Guide to Living with Your ParentsI would certainly think about leaving. Not for matters of seduction, but because that feels like a toxic relationship and environment. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Guide to Living with Your Parentsbut you missed the point. Not everyone can just "move out and learn to be independent". Sometimes situations necessitate living at home for a stretch; as well, it takes some time to get out of the house. Your comment wasn't self motivated, it was putting down everyone here who might need the help. As I have before. | /r/seduction | 09/10/12 12:01 AM |
| 6 | Guide to Living with Your Parentsyour dad sounds like a douche. I'd say that its reason enough to seriously look at moving out somehow. Or maybe try demonstrating that you are a contributing member to the house, and he will see you as less of a mooch. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Guide to Living with Your ParentsWhy did they tell you to use a hotel? | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Guide to Living with Your ParentsI'd say the place to start is with your cousin/brother. Assuming they aren't asexual, they're into sex of some type, and could in the forseeable future bring partners of their own home. I'm sure they'd like some of their own privacy. As for the parents, go with what I put forth here. In fact, do that with everyone in your house. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 11:58 PM |
| 6 | Guide to Living with Your ParentsWhat 5 people are they? (Brothers, sisters, parents, etc.) | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Guide to Living with Your Parentsthis is fair. Always keep the possibility of your place in mind. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 11:20 PM |
| 19 | Guide to Living with Your ParentsWell yes and no. I'm suggesting in no way that you normalize the situation (unless that's something you wanna do, I'm not gonna judge). It's aimed at anyone who is weary of the fact that they live at home. This will suit people around 18-19 very well, and learning to game well in that age while you are more or less forced to live at home will serve you very well. That said, I'm 20 and living at home until January; I have friends who are 22 and living at home. This COULD be for the guys who lose … | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 08:57 PM |
| 2 | When you're called out on "booty-calling"precisely what I did. She was jsut having a bit of a moment for some reason, it was dealt with. | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 08:04 PM |
| 3 | Girl friendsMY two best friends are girls. True, they very infrequently offer good advice on picking up girls, but one of them being a suuuuper-high-maintenance girly girl type, I find that it helped me get over that "oh=em-gee don't say anything to offend the dainty lady" mentality. Since being aound her, easily offend able (in a very superficial "i cant believe you just said that" kinda way), I can pretty much say any ridiculous thing to girls. And being able to b comfortable saying anything brings your s… | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for being dominant in a group conversation?Upvote for...that dutch daygame guy...reference! | /r/seduction | 30/09/12 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Not sure how to go about this tomorrow..My favourite move - wait until you're standing up with her - lead her somewhere, lean up against a wall to talk, ec. - look her dead in the eyes and move right in for the kiss. Chances are she knew it was going to happen the girl wants this to happen. I like to back up against a wall, start takin dem clothes off! | /r/seduction | 28/09/12 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Partially an [FR], partially "I need you to pep-talk me out of oneitis", and partially a lesson I learned this week.Man, thank you. We dated briefly - one of those whirlwind relationships that takes off faster than you can really control. It was a scenario where I was looking for something casual, and suddenly she's sleeping over 3 nights out of the week and I felt completely suffocated. It was that which I couldn't handle, not so much her. This fact has been driving at me recently, unfortunately. | /r/seduction | 26/09/12 04:56 PM |
| 3 | This Subreddit has focused too much on Inner-Game stuff? Well, so have I. Time to get my technique in order. Or, "Campus Game Help"I'm at UWO in London, ON. I would absolutely love it if someone was also from there! | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 07:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm a fan of daygame but recently visited a bar one evening. I left confused, thinking, Why do people try to socialize in places that are too loud to socialize?I'm from London, near by! Seriously, we need to get a Southern Ontario group together soon. | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Some blonde chick on day game: What do you guys think?Fuck the more I watch this the more I hate eerything about this girl. | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Some blonde chick on day game: What do you guys think?that fake laugh at 2:00... yeah.... makes some good points, but nothing new. written by a guy. Even uses some daygame terms: "instant date" made me laugh | /r/seduction | 20/09/12 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Hey guys, i'm a virgin and pretty anti-social, i need some helpThere's a great video thats been going around here the last few days with Tyler from RSD where he talks about losing your ego, and that is how one should lose outcome dependence: stop worrying about how many women you get with. when you do pull a woman in whatever situation, don't rush to LTR her OR one-n-done her. Keep her on the line for a little while. Apart from having a great time with her, it will up your confidence and start to show you what outcome independence should feel like. As this … | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Girl here, I believe some guy is using advice from this subreddit. Can someone give me some insight?but what would you prefer? LEt me guess, weak behaviour that feels a lot like a romantic comedy, and lets you dictate the pace? | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Girl here, I believe some guy is using advice from this subreddit. Can someone give me some insight?I have this sneaking suspicion that although you say you don't want any games, you just dont want any games that you are not controlling. Let's face it, you seem to think that all we do here is put on an act: wrong. What we do is try to find the patterns that stop men and women from getting together, and work to get around them. One such pattern, for example, is the fact that women LOVE to text and be flakey. If they have some text-love going, a lot of girls are ok with that. (Source: I have a b… | /r/seduction | 18/09/12 04:13 AM |
| 22 | The Big Compliance Test Listhttp://i.imgur.com/l2sJi.gif | /r/seduction | 14/09/12 09:52 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with getting a girl in a bad climate? (I'll explain).Sounds to me like its a cesspool of pent up teen sexuality. I'd say that you'll probably hit a wall of awkwardness as the girls just revert to what they are used to, but as soon as you be a man and work through that you're golden. You'll be hanging with the girls, they'll be calling you to hangout and, if you are properly escalating, you will be hooking up with them soon. | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Facebook openers.http://i.imgur.com/BVzQk.gif | /r/seduction | 13/09/12 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Quick QuestionI'd put a little more emotion in to it. MAybe something like "Hey lovely lady, I'm at ______, come show your face." | /r/seduction | 08/09/12 05:43 PM |
| 2 | I'm realizing maybe its time to get some non AFC friends. Nothing substantial here, just a little story.I have tried to show him material, he resists it, calling it 'douchy' | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 03:59 PM |
| 4 | I'm realizing maybe its time to get some non AFC friends. Nothing substantial here, just a little story.You're right, I do lack friends who really get me. I always have, and likely will for some time. To be fair, he is not my only friend. He is just one friend like this. I have others who I have better relationships with. No need to get snippy and judgmental. | /r/seduction | 05/09/12 05:19 AM |
| 1 | I haven't had my own group of "boys" (friend circle of guys that I'm close to, not kids) since early high school...any advice?dude. I know that feel. I'm surrounded by them on a daily basis in my group of childhood friends, and I just can't take it when they are AFC-ish, especially when they try to convince me that they are awesome and have their shit together. Does it bug you just to be around them sometimes? | /r/seduction | 04/09/12 04:00 AM |
| 2 | I just spent an hour defending direct game to a buddy of mine. He raised a few points that I want seddit's input on.sat back, criticized, and then left the bar. | /r/seduction | 03/09/12 01:30 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A party I knew no-one. Alpha, k-close, multiple #-closesI like eggs and hot sauce. But great FR. I nodded approvingly when you said you could have escalated, but would rather drink koolaid and climb trees with her. Damnit, I think even I have a fucking oneitis crush on you now. ;) | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 08:21 PM |
| 1 | I just spent an hour defending direct game to a buddy of mine. He raised a few points that I want seddit's input on.he deleted his comment, but do you remember what he said? | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:58 PM |
| 2 | I just spent an hour defending direct game to a buddy of mine. He raised a few points that I want seddit's input on.I see where you're coming from, but I disagree to a certain extent. Mine was a club opener - you have to work pretty hard to cut through the shields girls have, and even harder to stand out. Direct game puts it all on the table, in a way. It says "I could come over here and give you some bullshit about the room, or something about your drink, but instead of needing to use a wedge to break through your shields, I'm going to take it head on and smash right through it." The direct approach last nig… | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:56 PM |
| 2 | I just spent an hour defending direct game to a buddy of mine. He raised a few points that I want seddit's input on.Haha, I was thinking the same thing too: he definitely seemed to have some neg theory game in mind, which to me seems a little outdated. He has thrown around the term "alpha" a little bit, which leads me to believe this even more. Of course everything with direct is a little bit more nuanced in terms of body language and vibe. e just didn't seem able to comprehend that it was possible to compliment a girl without seeking validation. To be fair, this is only something I'm coming around to recentl… | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:45 PM |
| 1 | I just spent an hour defending direct game to a buddy of mine. He raised a few points that I want seddit's input on.? | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:22 PM |
| 1 | I just spent an hour defending direct game to a buddy of mine. He raised a few points that I want seddit's input on.Thanks man. I won't lie, it sort of made me call everything into question, especially because I love direct game. It made me feel a bit unsure about myself and my approach, but I think I just let him get into my head with it. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:18 PM |
| 1 | I just spent an hour defending direct game to a buddy of mine. He raised a few points that I want seddit's input on.what do you mean it's standard PUA stuff actually? | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:16 PM |
| 2 | I just spent an hour defending direct game to a buddy of mine. He raised a few points that I want seddit's input on.thank you sir. It sort of does - I could sense that undercurrent of the whole thing. He was upset because I've never seen him approach a girl even once, and I called him on that, saying "well a direct approach is better than no approach at all dude." | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:15 PM |
| 1 | I just spent an hour defending direct game to a buddy of mine. He raised a few points that I want seddit's input on.I agree. I was straight with her in this case: I just wanted to talk to her because, well, I thought she looked good. I probably could have worded it differently of course, and I will try some more wordings. But yeah, I think its a little bit ridiculous to do what my friend suggests and approach with concealment. His exact words: "if I was to approach a girl I would probably just go and make fun of her." Why do it like that? Makes no sense to me really. | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get multiple women in college without drinking/going to frat parties?Girls in classes you have are great - not only will they be walking somewhere after class (valuable time to game), but they will often just be around campus. For example, if you are hanging out in the library, there is a good chance that if you have said girl's number you could shoot her a text to see if she's at the library, and then go sit and work/game with her. Or text them with "hey, im at the library, coffee break in 5? i'll be at the cafe" Other than that, if you see them less frequently … | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to get multiple women in college without drinking/going to frat parties?I'm with you on this man. I prefer a slower, more subtle game than seems to be practiced in frat parties and clubs with lots of alcohol. I hang out at my school's bar a lot - I'm friends with all the employees there, I usually score free coffee from the cafe, cheap drinks, etc. and often just chat with employees, customers, friends of employees, etc. Alternatively, join the shit out of some awesome clubs, related to your academic interests. I'm in the History Society, and I return to this school… | /r/seduction | 02/09/12 07:38 AM |
| 1 | I want to become a sex god.are you training for a marathon or something? | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 11:32 PM |
| 0 | I'm a girl, and I think some of the PUA techniques are bad news. Hear me out.The way I see the neg: it really is one of the first pua tricks that everyone learns, and we learn it when we're young. How? We tease each other. Think about how 13 year olds flirt - they tease and make fun, and all that jazz, because we understand on a subconsious level that there is little insulting going on here, and it is all playful teasing. We know this not on the surface, but below it - we read between the lines here. | /r/seduction | 18/08/12 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do all my direct daygame interactions fall through as opposed to situational?High risk/ high reward. Sure, situational is easier, but it suggests something a little less...sexual, something less than what you intend. A lot of the Daygame guys (Yad, Sasha, etc.) seem to advocate the direct approach as a way of breaking down aand cutting through a girls' shields. What I think OP is probably doing wrong is failing to get the sets to stick - it's probably got a lot to do with what he is saying directly after his direct opener. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 05:49 AM |
| 3 | How do I deal with the unattractive friend?agreed. It's unfortunate that this sub seems to be getting filled with bad jokes and lot of legitimate people getting downvoted when their FR isn't penthouse material. | /r/seduction | 14/08/12 05:31 AM |
| 1 | OK, so lets talk dancing and American girls.I get it. But realistically, a good kiss in my opinion should start face to face. I find face to face a little bit more intimate and sexual to begin with than a back to front situation. I'm not saying it can't work, but if you can turn them around you have a waaay easier shot. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 07:07 PM |
| 1 | OK, so lets talk dancing and American girls.I once had a girl I was seeing tell me this: "If you're dancing, and I make eye contact with you, that's the signal that we will, inevitably, make out." So just do it after some eye contact. | /r/seduction | 12/08/12 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Experienced PUAs of Seddit: NOBODY has been able to help me with this; I keep pulling girls home to my bed but... no sexy time.beautifully put. Jesus, your RES score beside your name is at like, plus 40. I haven't even upvoted myself that many times. | /r/seduction | 11/08/12 01:10 AM |
| 1 | I've noticed people have stopped posting to he Seddit 100 Set Challenge.I'm down as well. Love it. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 02:22 PM |
| 1 | I've noticed people have stopped posting to he Seddit 100 Set Challenge.i actually like the idea of head to head - almost like having a wing online to force you to open some sets. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 04:24 AM |
| 1 | What to Do When You Aren't Finding women?Its a little of both in the dry spell - it's not that its a dry spell of women, I'm just looking to expand my sexual social network, as it were. My specific point here, is how to find women in the day - its daygame that I like most, but I'm haivng a hard time working on it because I don't seem to come across many women. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 02:18 AM |
| 1 | What to Do When You Aren't Finding women?I will sort of have to disagree with you on this one...I've actually got a FWB going right now, as well as a few girls who I can call for a drink and a hookup or so. What I want, however, is to find these girls elsewhere than through my social circles that already exist - in short, I think I want to introduce new girls into my social web quickly, rather than have them become FWB after already having them in my friend groups. | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 02:07 AM |
| 2 | What to Do When You Aren't Finding women?true. To be fair, this is normally what I do during my days - gyms, coffee shops, etc. with a buddy of mine who's interested in pickup. mostly just shooting the shit around our city, what with both of us being unemployed for the summer months. But I realize that this was the flaw of my day. Not outcome independent! | /r/seduction | 08/08/12 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Asking for advise if anything.I might head over to /r/relationships for this. Seddit isn't really the place to solve this particular problem... But my advice anyways would be to seek out an Austrian/Prussian community in your area and start building a social network around this group - hopefully this will lead you to what you're looking for. Barring that, I might advise doing what YOU want as opposed to what your parents want. | /r/seduction | 07/08/12 01:58 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Hot then cold, or "Escalating things with a colleague".The bible belt thing was brilliant - you turned a running joke sexual in no seconds flat. Very well done on that one. Lynn played it well. I'd say she gets a beer from you next time for helping to facilitate an awesome f-close. All in all, I'd say this is a great FR. Well played, sir! | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:22 PM |
| 0 | Curious lady here: How often do men use "passive aggressive" pick-up techniques? (ex: brushing up against a woman but not saying anything) Are there a lot of passive aggressive pick up techniques?you obviously have not spent any time on this subreddit. People follow patterns. Certain patterns lead to romantic or sexual chemistry. Seddit just tries to reveal these patterns to facilitate the development of sexual and romantic energy. | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:09 PM |
| 5 | 7 things I discovered from Abercrombie & FitchWonderful post. I've been in sales before, and the training is remarkably similar to the things we post and talk about, just coordinated a little differently. I wish I could get a job in retail to practice this stuff all over the place. Unfortunately I'm stuck on a kitchen line. It's not easy to seduce on a kitchen line (except for the cafe girls....i love the cafe girls.) | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 08:05 PM |
| 1 | My oneitis dropped the bomb on me this morning. I have never felt more motivated in my lifeThis post almost got me out of my seat, fist in the air pumping for joy. because I've been exactly where you are - that turning point. And honestly? Day 2 is awesome. There will be downs, don't get me wrong, but if you keep your eye on the prize it will trend upwards. For me it was my exchange to england next year. As soon as I found out, I told myself that I'm getting my shit together before that exchange, and I'm gonna be exactly who and where I want to be when I get there. The women will foll… | /r/seduction | 06/08/12 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.this isnt about medical advice. I saw my doctor today, and she advised going off the meds. This subreddit IS ABOUT ALL THOSE THINGS. it's not just about women. It's about being a better person and developing inner game. | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 04:41 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.you've never spent any time on this subreddit have you? | /r/seduction | 03/08/12 04:29 AM |
| 11 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.at what point did I ever say I was better than anyone else? You have no clue what this subreddit is about, so whatever you THINK I'm getting from it, I'm probably not. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 11:07 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.fuck, I hate the erection part :( I'll be with a girl and then my dicks just like "imma go soft on you bro!" | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 11:05 PM |
| 8 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.not sure what your point is here. I'm talking about inner confidence and changing my life for the better, not just drowning my sorrows in pussy. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.hmm. I'll take this all into note. I did just come back from my doctor's, who I trust, and she set me on this taper track. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.you're right, the cleanliness of my room, as well as the fact that my house still has a land-line (as it is required too, given that it is used for the entry into the apartment building), and the bed that I sleep in, obviously prove that I haven't tackled my depression. Goddamn,. why did I pay for those meds when it was my room all along! You, sir, are a royal douche. I redact the comment where I called your picture funny. Upvote recinded, for what I thought was a tongue in cheek joke that turne… | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.hahahaha. that was funny. but seriously now, my room is a fucking mess, yes. I'm a student living at home for the moment, and I'm staying at my mom's place right now. It's not where I bring women, nor is it the place where I spend much time whatsoever. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.I'm on Effexor. it's a pretty mild one with lower dependancy. Coupled with the fact that its dosage is subtler than most, my tapering is going over the next 2.5 weeks. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 08:26 PM |
| 6 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.Thanks! I have a therapist that helped me with a lot of mindfulness and such, and will continue to do so! | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 08:23 PM |
| 29 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.I've heard increased self confidence and social awareness is good for a person. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 08:22 PM |
| 6 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.not really. I sort of withdrew for a little while, so people sort of new something was up - mostly my girlfriend at the time, which ended shortly after this all hit its low point. the meds aren't really that noticeable, so most people didn't really notice that I was on them, no. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 03:38 PM |
| 10 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.thanks man. Honestly, it was this subreddit that got me to get my shit together. I used to just sulk at home all day when I was off. Now I have the confidence to go out on the town, talk to cool girls and guys, and just enjoy my life! | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 03:06 PM |
| 22 | Seddit, a year ago I was at the low point of my depression. Then I found you guys. This is my last bottle of anti-depressants. Don't let anyone tell you that this won't help you be happier.ahah, yeah, of course. I just set up a plan to taper off today, over the next week and a half or so. This is just the final bottle that I've been on for over a year and a half. | /r/seduction | 02/08/12 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Why so much hate for r/seduction?what people seem to forget, and what you are saying, I think, is that it's got nothing to do with reducing women to any level - it is us saying that there are particular patterns that women subconsciously follow, just as there are for men, that inhibit the development of relationships on the basis that we have trained ourselves to be socially insulated and anxious about meeting new people. | /r/seduction | 01/08/12 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlssome issue though...they will probably say that they want one thing, but really its another that will work. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 01:32 AM |
| -26 | Remember, never take girls' advice on picking up girlsdownvoted for we know. | /r/seduction | 02/07/12 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Does What We Do Change How We Feel?This is what I've been thinking. I'm sort of beginning to date a girl - my first after delving really deeply into inner game specifically after my last break up - and I'm noticing a big difference. To a certain degree its been a little bit unnerving. I've been used to meeting someone and being crazy about them and want to do everything I can to impress them and get that back, but this time I feel oddly content, but without that emotional rollercoaster swing to the upside. It's almost as if I'm s… | /r/seduction | 19/06/12 10:20 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone else ever been called out w/ seddit terms?you are forgetting the all-important fact that all sex is basically a man raping the honour and purity of a woman's femininity! sarcasm | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 09:59 PM |
| 21 | Approached more than 50 women, but still no results...Normally I might say this is a bit of a douchey comment, but I think this is something to think about. Not that you need to be overly attractive, but you should work on presenting well. | /r/seduction | 17/06/12 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Am I responsible for my friend?thanks man. This seems to be exactly what I think is going on, all things considered. Which is sort of unfortunate, because I've been trying to show him some of the ropes of pickup and such, but also good I think, for he's going to need some of these realizations. | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Different Techniques for How Long You've Known a GirlI see where you're coming from. I think it works both ways, to a certain degree. Interaction, to a certain degree, should inherently involve some kino. I think coupled with conversation, the small scale, incidental kino - like the taps on the arm to get attention, the brushing of feet, etc. - stand on their own to help create the foundational attraction. It's after this, when the tension and attraction already exists, that deliberate and more obvious kino has maximum effect by qualifying the ten… | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Different Techniques for How Long You've Known a Girlthanks man. I think of mastering kino sort of like snowboarding - sure, a lot of douchebags can go out there and touch a girl and follow escalation ladders and such, but it takes a hell of a long time and a lot of practicing (and failing) to learn the subtleties of it and to get good at it. | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 04:18 PM |
| 9 | Different Techniques for How Long You've Known a GirlKino is one of the most misunderstood topics on here I think. Stuff like the Vin DiCarlo escalation ladder perpetuate the myth (in my mind) that you can just escalate kino all the way to sex, which I think is a bit of a misnomer. The sexual tension must be there for the kino to have maximum effect. Now, this is sort of paradoxical because kino makes for extreme sexual tension: I personally find that I don't really deliberately seek to escalate the kino until their is a well-established level of … | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 03:26 PM |
| 2 | So any failure stories out there?it was obvious sarcasm / a stupid line. Had she been paying attention and had I got her attention, I think it would have come across as genuinely humourous. | /r/seduction | 16/06/12 02:56 PM |
| 9 | So any failure stories out there?Yesterday, I approached a girl buying a tie at the department store. I jokingly said "that tie is too hard to tie. You should just buy a clip on, I hear they're all the rage today." with a big smile on my face. Needless to say, she wasn't listening and responded with "huh?" | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 07:31 PM |
| 7 | [FR] S-Closed a girlLOUD NOISES | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 08:33 PM |
| 14 | [FR] S-Closed a girlI like this. Enough feeling a little like a failure after having a good conversation, good open, etc. but not going for the number. | /r/seduction | 14/06/12 01:13 PM |
| 2 | I cheated on my ex-girlfriend. How do I approach this with girls I could potentially date?Everything posted before me is good. Read it all. Let it sink in. All I can provide is three words: Learn from it. | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Music, Seddit?I don't think it really matters too much, given a few points: It's generally not a polarizing music - I'm thinking heavy metal, Justin Bieber, dubstep, etc. - music that is referred to as "love it or hate it" kind of stuff. It's music that you like for the right reasons. You are able to display that it is something you enjoy, and you have the ability to share it with other people. That being said, throwing on Dylan would get me to do dirty things to you. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Question for seddit: How do you get rid of cockblocks/competition?I would usually just acknowledge him and disarm what he's trying to do. Usually a "hey man, what's up?" and a high five will do the trick. | /r/seduction | 12/06/12 09:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First ever K-close and #-close. What on earth do I do now?! P.S. I F***ing love Sedditno worries man! I agree, clubbing is sometimes a little easy to fall back on canned material. Which isn't necessarily bad; sometimes an observational opener can fall flat on its face if you aren't loud enough, jumble a word or two, or something flies over their head. One time i tried to open a girl who was tucked away in the corner with "you don't look too happy all holed up in the corner over here..." but what I imagine she might of heard was "you...hole...here" because she did not receive anyt… | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 11:09 PM |
| 3 | [FR] First ever K-close and #-close. What on earth do I do now?! P.S. I F***ing love SedditNice work man. I liked it. Myself, I've never felt really comfortable running routines - this has its positives and negatives, as does running the routines themselves. It was nice to see a story where it works well; maybe I will put some more thought into trying a few out. I think the only area for improvement would be to not nag her about coming back with you or going back to her place. In some regards, it could come off as needy and desperate. I think you might be better to try to get her to g… | /r/seduction | 07/06/12 01:33 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Unintentional day game kind of #-closeI was reading this intensely. By the end, imagining it was myself, I was like http://i.imgur.com/FTaTA.gif | /r/seduction | 04/06/12 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, thank you :DJust don't be like the guy who posted about how the girl he just started dating was the absolute love of his life! Good work. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Thanks, Seddit. I mean this.for me it seemed to work easily. We were talking about bars around town, and telling stories, and I just went into a discussion about how spinning girls is the best dance move ever for getting makeouts - sounding cocky like an asshole quite intentionally, but I segued into demonstrating and talking all about how I would (and could) seduce her in a bar. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 06:36 AM |
| 3 | Thanks, Seddit. I mean this.I used to be part of the "text only to set up dates" thing. But as a university student that can be hard, especially in a fast-paced dating environment. I would wait until I had something decently interesting to text her, and then held it until I knew she was in the library studying or something where she would respond regularly (i.e. not in class) and would just go from there. Waiting isn't worth it, all things considered. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 06:32 AM |
| 6 | Thanks, Seddit. I mean this.Thanks. One of the great things about this, really, is that I started reading seddit as a way to rebuild my self confidence after a bad break up - I know that should I ever end up in a tough spot like that again, that these ideas are incredibly helpful to help pick yourself back up again. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 01:43 AM |
| 2 | Thanks, Seddit. I mean this.I don't think it is necessarily lofty - I think the basic principles are the same, but with small alterations (tailored to the person) it can work quite fabulously. For example, I knew this girl was into cute-sy romantic things, so I pulled off a few of those, and although it seems cheesy and we laughed about how cheesy it was, it still brings her closer. | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 01:41 AM |
| 8 | Thanks, Seddit. I mean this.Well, I knew that we had one mutual friend (who I later found out was her ex boyfriend), so (when I finally worked up the courage) I went with that and just said "hey, you're xxx right? you know my buddy kyle!" She reacted awkwardly, which I later found out was because her and this guy did not end on good terms. She ended up moving to sit with a friend at the other side of the classroom, but we caught each other glancing over to the other a few times. At the next class we were both there early a… | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Seduction might be getting me in trouble...I was the boyfriend in the situation once. Meet the guy, the boyfriend will feel better. I mean I imagine that's how I would have felt, but instead my girlfriend just slept with you... And now I think he/youinthissituation was gaming her along. So just meet him. | /r/seduction | 04/02/12 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Blushing... good or bad?I had this exact same situation a few weeks back, which sent me into a bit of a research frenzy about the blush. Darwin called it "the most peculiar and most human of all expressions." He theorized that it existed for the purpose of revealing man's innermost feelings involuntarily. Furthermore, he considered it to appear at heightened moments of self-attention and self-awareness. Personally, I think Darwin was more or less correct in his assessment of the blush, but didn't apply it far enough. I… | /r/seduction | 01/02/12 06:03 PM |
| 5 | Guys, the askseddit mods haven't logged on in weeks or months, we need new ones.what about setting up an askseddit chatroom? I mean, most people, if they are asking for advice, want it quickly. I'll occasionally try to be a good guy greg and cruise the new posts to help out, but I feel like sometimes advice would be better given in a chatroom type thing. Is there any possible way we could get a chat function in the sidebar? | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 05:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR] A weekend's Worth of FR.NEXT DAY Today, just firing off a few texts. Since we live in different cities, I'm well aware that there's really not a whole lot that's possible, but hey - she was a majorly cool chick, and if there's one thing that 20 years on this earth have taught me its that you don't just bail on chicks like that without at least a little second day chatting. I fire off a "hey HB7, this is kdelamont from the dance cave last night. Aren't you glad that you forced your number down my throat? HB: "hey kdelam… | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 09:25 PM |
| 3 | [FR] A weekend's Worth of FR.At the Dance Bar At this point I'm in a pretty confident mood, but really haven't had any fantastic successes. So hitting up this bar with my brother (committed relationship) and friends was a good opportunity to turn some results. We get in, grab a few beers, and my friends (guy/girl FWB) go off to dance, leaving me with my brother. Now, my brother is the ultimate AFC - not awkward, but not good at any of this either. He really doesn't dig clubs, and he's in a relationship with a sweet girl who… | /r/seduction | 22/01/12 09:07 PM |
| 1 | A question about kino and escalation...More or less a meet up/first date. We met up, went for coffee, and then continued the night from there. I can pinpoint my failure to escalate as taking place within the coffee shop, however. | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 01:32 PM |
| 1 | A question about kino and escalation...I thank you for your honesty. I agree, I gotta get out and get some attempts in at it. But, it being Sunday night and me feeling like my failure to properly escalate on my friday night date sort of screwed me up, I wanted some theoretical input. This wasn't totally hypothetical, as it was rooted in my own screwups earlier in the weekend. | /r/seduction | 16/01/12 06:00 AM |
| 4 | Got Friendzoned Today...Wonderful attitude from this one! Upvotes for you! | /r/seduction | 15/01/12 02:44 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Reviewing Game Film, or Where I Went WrongI fully concur. I think I struggled to envision the escalation taking place in the situation I was in, and thus was left without small steps to take and a plan to initiate escalation. What would you suggest, given the situation? | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 09:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Reviewing Game Film, or Where I Went WrongThe midnight movie is a big thing on my campus, and it was her favourite flick playing, so the date idea came from there. It was a really situational thing that was more designed for the event than the seduction. I'll be inviting her over to watch movies this week. I agree though, I regretted not making the moves that I should have last night. | /r/seduction | 14/01/12 09:35 PM |
| 3 | Wisdom from Mr.Make-it-rain-bitchthe great sociological concept of "bitches". Popularized by Ernest Renan in his landmark text Bitches Be Crazy | /r/seduction | 13/01/12 06:12 PM |
| 1 | "I have a boyfriend" comebacks.If I suspect its fake? "Oh sweet! What's his name? Do you live wtih him? Where'd he go to school, I knew a [insert fake name]!" Basically try to just catch them in the lie. This can be done delicately to turn it into more conversation, but really if a girl is faking a boyfriend its probably a no-close and I'm just trolling them a bit. Hopefully my positive attitude can turn into grabbing a drink and number close. If he's real? "Oh that's cool! What's his name?" Its not just about fucking women. … | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Forever Alone comes to seddit - Ask Us AnythingSedditor My friend, I too struggle with clinical depression and anxiety. And yes, when I'm having a down day it can be a little hard to get in state. But honestly, on a shit day, nothing turns things around like flirting with a waitress, or a cashier or something and reminding yourself that you are awesome. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Mediocrity of MasturbationI would agree, if the purpose of game was to orgasm. I feel like in the context of women, its about feeling confident and engaging in the sexual dance, if you will. For this reason, unfortunately, I must respectfully disagree. | /r/seduction | 12/01/12 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever taken a break from the game? Intentionally?As far as I can tell, if you think of game as something that goes on and off, you've missed the point of game altogether man. I mean, I'm fairly new here and still developing, but the first thing you must realize that its not about picking up women, its about picking up yourself and bringing women up with that. Its a lifestyle thing, really. Once you realize that, you realize that it isn't about winning or losing with women and its actually about (pardon the douchyness) being a badass motherfuck… | /r/seduction | 11/01/12 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on the Biological Function of the Blushwould you define the blush this way in all situations? | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on the Biological Function of the BlushOh i did. She followed it with a "not that I'm like...creepy or anything..." Which I turned into a "oh, what you've been stalking me? geeze HB8!" or something to that effect. | /r/seduction | 10/01/12 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Bar opener...any comments?I will be honest and say that your rhetoric got me a little lost. If you could maybe boil that down to an opener, then I'd say it'd be a decent one. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 04:40 AM |
| 1 | How would you sedditors approach this?LIO you mean ;) | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 04:15 AM |
| 1 | [FR] #3 Third date with Evesugar cube, I guess... im a little lost too. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Hello Seddit, I am seeking advice…I saw the TLDR first and figured that you were referring to the time Mosby games the coatcheck girl... | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Missed a (rare) booty call because my phone was out of batteries.Aw, dude, I hate the feeling of missing shit because of phone troubles. I can only imagine what it must be like to miss out on action because of it. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 02:43 AM |
| 2 | How can you meet the girls in your classes?first day of a new semester! my favourite day of the year! but seriously, I like the idea of looking good, and sort of laying back. Scan the room, try to get a read on who's who, and maybe go for the after class move. | /r/seduction | 09/01/12 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Missed a number opportunity - do I resort to the facebook add?Well I wouldn't call it a total loss - there is always the chance that she may come join our study group again tomorrow. But, as Lee said, "that's in Gods hands now." I am torn whether to try to go the easy way and facebook add, or roll the dice and hope for a meet up. | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 09:36 PM |
| 1 | First time at your place: what do you cook to impress?My best bet would be something which she can be slightly involved in. I would go either with a slow-cooking stew-type sauce - beef stroganoff, for example - that you can jokingly make her stir, or throw ingredients in or something retarded like that, or I would cook her small, gourmet personal pizzas - something that she can personalize, hypothetically, if you so choose. | /r/seduction | 08/12/11 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Are you in, or are you out?As someone who is just getting into this game... I'm in. Trying to text a girl this weekend? That shit aint easy to be smooth with. | /r/seduction | 30/11/11 07:28 PM |
| 0 | Why Girls Today are Flakier than Ever Before and How to Adapt to Game in the Smartphone Erasweet mother of jesus. THIS MAN IS A SCHOLAR. | /r/seduction | 29/11/11 11:25 PM |
| 2 | mixed messages?yeah, its more the fact that she's pushing me to hook up with other people - can't figure out how that one sits. | /r/seduction | 28/11/11 07:27 PM |
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