Making out tips

kdelamont · 2014-01-14T23:20:28+00:00

Be slower than you think you need to be, use tongue sparingly but not rarely, don't be afraid to kiss the neck/ears, don't be afraid to grab a litle hair, and use your hands and the rest of your body to bring you two closer together physically.

freshairr · 2014-01-14T23:31:04+00:00

I've had a girl who was a terrible kisser and the one advice I can give you kiss with your lips, not with your mouth.

It shouldn't be aggressive (not yet :P) nor wet. If you have to wipe your mouth after kissing, you're doing it too widely and using your mouth.

sntmrdg · 2014-01-15T05:00:27+00:00

Hmmm, I been a pretty good kisser even since my first kiss. My advice is get a cupcake, and with both your lips "kiss" the frosting off of it. As far as tongue, I mimic the her and it works out fine. If we get more passionate I'll initiate tongue. Remember not to slob all over her.

When you are making out, tease her, go for the kiss, but don't do it, and wait for her reaction and then surprise kiss her. Kiss her from the cheek to her lips. Bite her ear a little. Use your hands wisely, pull her in, pull her head in. Just have fun with her haha.

Reddit_SLC · 2014-01-15T05:04:17+00:00

Don't overthink it man. And honestly, making out doesn't turn me on much either. It's the thought of what comes next that turns me on.

HitboxOfASnail · 2014-01-15T05:11:02+00:00

Copy whatever she does

nugsnotdrugs91 · 2014-01-15T07:26:20+00:00

I've been told on multiple occasions that I'm a good kisser. I can't say this is the best technique, but its worked for me for the past 5 years (I'm 22).

Kissing is just as much of a mind game as it is a physical act. Get to know this concept and apply it to every aspect of your love life.

Make eye contact, pause for a moment, lean in while closing your eyes. She will follow your lead.

As you're about to kiss, just brush her lips lightly with your's and sneak a kiss on the cheek.

Work down to her collar bone (keep it moist, but no slug trails)

Now pause pull back, make eye contact to build anticipation, hold here for a moment.

Lean in again, and just give her a soft, slow peck, and react to her response.

A good basic rule of thumb is that after the peck, one of your lips should be between her's.

On tongue: A little goes a long way. Stay away from the gums and teeth. You can play with her tongue, the roof of her mouth and the space beneath the tongue. Wait for her to initiate with her tongue (unless too much time goes by, then just go for it.)

One of my favorite techniques is flicking my tongue to the roof of her mouth, lightly and quickly stroking it, and retracting (kind of like a lizard...but sexier)

The roof of the mouth is a neglected erogenous zone with a ton of nerve endings (that's why we get brain freeze), and is typically very sensitive to unanticipated touch.

This technique will let her know that tongue is OK, but it won't create the pressure of "Holy shit, I feel like my soul could be sucked out through my mouth dementor-style at any moment."

Plus it feels amazing when done and timed correctly.

It'll take some practice so don't be afraid to make mistakes with random girls. Just consider it practice.

These are just basics, but once you've figured out the basics, everything else will come naturally. Don't think about it, just trust your instinct.

Title	Making out tips
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Date	January 14, 2014 11:06 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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