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Reddit_SLC/r/seduction30/07/14 05:04 PM
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Thanks. I follow the majority of this. This is kind of unique situation because this is a girl I nexted trying to get me back. So it's someone I'm closer with than normal. She's super hot but super crazy. I'm trying to balance the fact that I might hook up with her again, but I obviously don't want to end up texting all day about stupid stuff. Also, it might help if I mentioned this is occurring over snapchat text. Which means we both can tell when the other has read the message and once that ha…
/r/seduction30/07/14 08:38 PM
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Why can't you just answer the question!?! - another one
/r/seduction30/07/14 08:31 PM
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This might be my next step. The problem is it is a little bit of an odd situation. It's a girl I nexted that is trying desperately to get me back. She's super hot but super insane. So I haven't totally ruled out hooking up with her again, so I don't want to completely ignore her. However, I certainly don't want to be texting her all day or giving her a bunch of attention either.
/r/seduction30/07/14 08:25 PM
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It's not that. It's what it leads to. It leads to more and more bullshit. I don't want to hear her whine all fucking day by text. Anyone with good game and decent text game knows texting all fucking day = not a good thing.
/r/seduction30/07/14 05:11 PM
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Different situations. She was out looking to flirt with guys and you were out looking to flirt with girls. Worked out perfect. Now you text her about lunch or something and it's not that interesting. Completely different situation from being at a party, bar, etc. I would suggest 2 things: Escalate more at the party, bar, etc. When you text her, continue your flirting personality. Use something you talked about that night. Continue a joke, light making fun of her, etc. Something that will make he…
/r/seduction03/06/14 12:49 AM
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Uh, no offense but you do indeed sound very much like a virgin. This has zero effect. None. No one goes around with the reputation of being "big" or "small" even. Sluts don't go around searching for the biggest dick to get laid with. It might be a positive, but it's not something that is going to help you much at all to get girls into bed.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 02:59 AM
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You can't call "dibs" on a girl. Guys that do this are insecure dorks. If this is a close friend, talk to him and tell him that it's open game and whoever she likes more, she'll go with. You're not just going to give him open rights to this chick.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 02:50 AM
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If you're already this open with the chick where you are blowing your load all over her, you should obviously be comfortable enough to talk to her. Just tell her that this bothers you and to stop it
/r/askTRP27/03/14 02:48 AM
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Ignore it or just say "Of course. Lots of girls want me. Doesn't mean a thing"
/r/askTRP27/03/14 02:39 AM
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This doesn't matter at all. Zero. None. Think about it. How does having a big dick increase your social status or SMV? It doesn't. If you don't suck in bed, it probably won't hurt (ha) when you are with a woman. However, it will have just about no effect at all on your social status, SMV or "Game". This is all completely different.
/r/askTRP27/03/14 02:38 AM
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This. Don't say anything.
/r/askTRP26/03/14 04:08 AM
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Have any friends in town? Use their place. Here is what you do: Invite her out to drink or whatever at a bar/club Have her meet you to pre-game and drink beforehand at your buddies place. Ideally there is a few guys and girls there pregaming and drinking All head to the bar together. This is where you start to up your game and get pretty flirty with her. Everyone goes back to your buddies place for drinking/"after party" Here is where you bone her. GL
/r/askTRP26/03/14 04:04 AM
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On a somewhat serious note, I think there is a decent chance that she is actually allowed to do whatever she wants in her marriage. As in, she might have permission to "cheat" or "do what she wants". Either way, take her to pound town. What are you waiting for?
/r/askTRP26/03/14 04:02 AM
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Jesus man, she clearly wants you. Fucking do it already. Do it for mankind.
/r/askTRP26/03/14 04:01 AM
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Defend yourself with your actions. Laugh off her accusations and explain how into you she was. Make it clear that she was all over you and you just obliged. Make this clear through your actions as well by NOT being creepy with all the women there. Make it clear that they come to you. This will get the women there seeing the obvious truth, that this girl is full of shit and was all over you.
/r/askTRP26/03/14 03:59 AM
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Treat her like the child that she is. "Really? You're going to pull this shit? Well, I've been hanging out with you for a reason but there is another chick who reallly wanted to hang out tonight. Maybe I should give her a call.." If shit doesn't change at that point, seriously give that chick a call and have her come over. This crazy chick will learn very fast that she can either have sex with you, or she can't have you at all.
/r/askTRP02/03/14 11:21 AM
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Obviously a huge range. I would bet in the low 20's. You have to take Reddit's general demographic into account first, which is young males, and then makes that would gravitate to TRP. Usually those in the 18-30 range would be my guess.
/r/askTRP02/03/14 11:17 AM
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The difference is the women. You are doing your experiment on a hook-up app, on the internet. No offense but internet hook-up apps and real life are drastically, drastically different. I agree with your second paragraph. You're not very likely to snag 10's unless you are rich/famous/a 10 yourself. My point is more around how game is more important than looks (although looks and self-improvement are important, no doubt).
/r/seduction21/02/14 05:27 AM
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Game isn't used to "not fuck up with women". This is where you are completely wrong. You see game as something to "not fuck up", whereas your seduction game is to seduce the women you want not just to "not fuck up"
/r/seduction21/02/14 05:24 AM
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I completely disagree with this. I'm not saying your average 5 that doesn't work out, take care of himself, etc is going to bag a 9. However, it wouldn't surprise me if a 5 that takes care of himself, has great game and confidence could snag a 9, honestly. Obviously the better looking the guy, the easier it becomes. But if you were to give me a 6 with great game and confidence or an 8/9 with average terrible guy game, I would bet on the 6 to get with the HB9 any day.
/r/seduction21/02/14 05:07 AM
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Completely agree with this. Looks matter. However, game matters FAR more.
/r/seduction21/02/14 04:49 AM
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I completely disagree with your first part. This is what a lot of men believe and it is completely false. A 5, doesn't need to get into body building, have freakishly low body fat, 6 pack etc. Game can do sooooo much more than this. I'm sure others will be able to back me up here when they say, I know many average looking guys, including myself, that get laid far, far more with better looking women then my great looking friends. Game is huge and far more important than looks. I'm not saying look…
/r/seduction21/02/14 04:48 AM
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You're at University. This makes it super easy. You have women practically everywhere. Dining halls. Campus. Dorms. Campus sporting events. Classes. Parties. You will never again in your entire life have so many accessible hot young women. The possibilities are endless. You don't have a car? So what? What does this matter? I'm assuming you think that you can't take them out somewhere. So what? Take them to your dorm and get laid. Watch a movie. Play a drinking game. Hang out on campus. If you ge…
/r/seduction21/02/14 04:32 AM
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A couple points you need to consider: Looks matter in a sense. If you are a 10, you obviously have a massive advantage over an average 5. HOWEVER, 90% of guys fall in the 5-7 range. Who do you think has the advantage in this situation? A 5-7 with great game will get laid infinitely more with infinitely hotter women than a 5-7 with bad/no game. Tinder is NOT representative of the general population of women. This is very important. Tinder is used largely for hooking up. The girls on Tinder tend t…
/r/seduction21/02/14 04:29 AM
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Nothing in-depth or important. The weather, what you're doing this weekend, etc.
/r/askTRP21/02/14 04:07 AM
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Are you 13? This post makes it seem like it..
/r/askTRP21/02/14 04:07 AM
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Pfffft. I'm much better looking
/r/askTRP21/02/14 04:06 AM
1

This. A 7-year relationship is definitely not a plate.
/r/askTRP21/02/14 04:00 AM
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This seems very weird to me. Frats recruit year round and are usually very eager to recruit another member. Try just asking one of them directly next time instead of beating around the bush
/r/askTRP17/02/14 03:10 AM
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It sounds like your priorities should be: Find a job - put most of your effort into this one Start going out
/r/seduction14/02/14 03:01 AM
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It sounds like you don't want to live alone; so why are you resigned to this fate? Find some roommates. Friends of a friend. Ask on FB/social networks. Ever heard of craigslist? roommates.com? Tons of people on there looking for roommates just like you. Find a place that looks awesome or get one yourself and recruit yourself some roommates. The positives to this are that: You get to pick who you live with. Have a few people over or visit a few places for the best fit. New friend group/new friend…
/r/seduction14/02/14 02:59 AM
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Lift. Get good grades. Practice makes perfect. Confidence.
/r/askTRP14/02/14 02:50 AM
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Again, is this relationship important to you? It doesn't sound like it's that important. You'll likely regret holding back. Go for it man. You live this lift for you.
/r/askTRP13/02/14 06:23 AM
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You need to be very careful in this situation for one primary reason: 1. She was working and selling you something. Be very careful in this situation. They are often trained to be extremely friendly and helpful regardless of if they get commission or not.
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:56 AM
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Your talking should be flirting from the very beginning really. Keep everything flirty and set the tone that way. You want her to see you that way immediately. What you don't want is her to see you as a friend or just a "friendly guy" that suddenly transitions into trying to finger bang her.
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:44 AM
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If you really don't give a fuck and just want to bone these chicks, I would just continue with the "Why haven't we had sex yet?" line. It is a pretty interesting social experiment. Keep experimenting and see what works and what doesn't after that. Your opener should be seen as sexual/funny by the girls, so continue this. Make a joke/direct sexual comment again very soon. Check out the line I suggested above
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:41 AM
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"I'm a regular comedian. But really though, let's do this. 11pm my place? I've got Beauty and the Beast in the DVD player and I'm ready to roll" EDIT: Added the "11PM my place?" comment in there. This makes it so she can easily give you a direct yes instead of a "oh maybe" or "oh yeah sometime" type bullshit response.
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:40 AM
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This completely depends on your respect/friendship with this "friend/acquaintance". It sounds to me like you don't know him that well and he isn't a close friend. If this is the case, go for it. The only reason you shouldn't is if you value this dude's friendship more than boning this girl.
/r/askTRP13/02/14 03:38 AM
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I've been here, many, many times. Honestly, being in a fraternity when they are in a sorority is not all that relevant. I've had tons of success with sorority women when I wasn't and when I was in a fraternity. I suspect you are exaggerating a bit on how they ONLY go to frat parties, but if this is the case, I think you've answered your own questions. The social hierarchy at this school runs through the greek system. Join it and dominate. No sense trying to fight it when half the school is greek…
/r/askTRP13/02/14 03:36 AM
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This really should be in the FAQ because it gets asked here at least daily. You need a linear progression. A typical progression goes something like this talking>flirting>heavier flirting/kino>touching/kino>some sort of isolation or escalation>making out>heavier making out>touching>more sexual touching>clothes come off>fingering>sex
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:28 AM
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I hope you know that that guys post was complete bullshit... Nevertheless, it does introduce some interesting concepts. To be honest, Tinder girls are incredibly easy. Like, make sure you wear a condom easy. I would definitely be more direct. No need to beat around the push and take them on fancy dates. Flirt with them, escalate, get them over your place and get to work.
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:26 AM
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Alcohol Edit: But really, a linear progress. Talking>Flirting>Heavier flirting>Kino>Touching>Kiss. You should be alone or at least sort of alone. Example, at dinner at a restaurant or something is not a good spot. Dropping her off after a date or in your house/room is.
/r/seduction13/02/14 03:23 AM
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"Come to this after party" "Oh, you like [insert whatever movie/thing she likes], me too! We should go watch it!" Give them a somewhat plausible excuse to continue having fun that isn't super creepy and you should be golden.
/r/seduction09/02/14 09:24 PM
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lol, I actually agree with this. I misinterpreted this thread. I agree with OP
/r/seduction08/02/14 05:18 AM
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My advice would be two things: Practice. Seriously, this is the most underrated advice on seddit. Nothing here means anything if you don't practice it. No one is perfect their first time or even few times. Maybe you are taking it too fast. Use a solid progression and don't just go from making out>trying to fuck the shit out of her. You need to progress through all the steps. This is how chicks work.
/r/seduction08/02/14 04:13 AM
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Escalation ideas for a club: Isolate by leading everyone to another bar/club/food. Suggest she or your crew go to * insert whatever bomb ass food place nearby * Once you have escalated a bit, suggest an after-party/another bar club/drinks at your place/beerpong/kings cup/whatever drinking game at your buddies place or your place. This gives the chick a good excuse to go with you and helps further isolate and escalate. This is a pretty reliable process that I have followed countless times and wor…
/r/seduction08/02/14 04:10 AM
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It needs to be a steady escalation going from making out>touching>sexual touching etc. If you are just making out for 10 minutes, that is probably too long and I don't blame you for being bored. Try just pulling back. Don't just sit there and makeout with her for forever. It sounds like your situations may be going like this: Makeout for way too long. Chick does the usual LMR and you give in and just keep making out, because you enjoy this more than nothing. After way too long making out, chick …
/r/seduction08/02/14 04:05 AM
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EDIT: I think I misinterpreted this thread. I thought when you said "get back" you meant like to your place, not get that one back that you have oneitis for..
/r/seduction08/02/14 04:01 AM
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You nailed it and know your issue. These girls simply aren't attracted enough to you. The "I don't want to take things to fast" that they are all saying is simply an excuse. Also, if a chick invites you to her place for beers, you "heavily make out" with one on the first date, these should be pretty much be slam dunks. You are definitely messing up at some point. It's hard to say with limited details exactly what your problem is. Could be looks, bad at escalating, too needy/desperate, lack of pr…
/r/seduction08/02/14 03:56 AM
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No. There is a different from being "too nice" and being a "jerk". Don't confuse the two.
/r/seduction08/02/14 03:35 AM
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You've been seeing him for three weeks and have only got a peck on the cheek? You need to ESCALATE. Some ideas: You need to get him to a more comfortable location where you can PHYSICALLY ESCALATE. Ideally, your place or even his. You apparently like movies. How about a movie at your place? That way you can escalate with a lot more kino and being physical. Are nerves or shyness an issue? Might help to get a few drinks before or after going out. Or even a few glasses of fine or beers at your plac…
/r/seduction08/02/14 03:33 AM
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If you're not sure, you probably do have oneitis. To answer your questions: Yes. You will find mixed opinions on this but you can definitely be "just friends" with a girl. You need to not be friend zoned and be a beta bitch however. How you decide is this: Would you be friends with this chick because you geuinely like her AS AS A FRIEND and don't want anything more or anything sexual? If so, then yes, you can be friends. You need to decide this for yourself. Do you like her? Do you want to be wi…
/r/seduction08/02/14 03:28 AM
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"You're not going to invite me in?" and laugh and smile while looking at her. Simple as that.
/r/seduction08/02/14 03:21 AM
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Don't overthink it man. And honestly, making out doesn't turn me on much either. It's the thought of what comes next that turns me on.
/r/seduction15/01/14 05:04 AM
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From what I can tell, you're a pretty high value dude. Why are you still with this chick? Move the fuck on man. You deserve much better Edit: Read both entire threads. I realize this is your wife that you obviously love very much. Step one is to address the hormone issues. Have that shit removed ASAP. No hormone shit messing with her. Then give it a bit with your studying and applying TRP and her counseling. If nothing has changed in 6 months, I move on.
/r/askTRP15/01/14 04:53 AM
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First of all, I don't play 21 questions with girls. You don't just "ask" a bunch of questions to find these things out. However, what I think you are getting at is what qualities you would want in a girl to sleep with her or to have a LTR. For me, it is basically this; to sleep with her: Above a 6 Not a massive whore/STDs/etc Not one of my roommates or close friends GFs or exes (maybe 4=how much work I have to put in to get it in) LTR is quite a bit more but the basic ones fall into these catego…
/r/askTRP15/01/14 04:49 AM
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You're doing just fine. This chick is completely misreading the situation, obviously. And her friends are just rolling with it to make her feel better. I don't see any need to address it on your part. If someone else brings it up, just tell them flat out the truth, again. No need to beat around the bush or put it nicely. Be a man. Tell them you're not interested. Seriously. And let that be that
/r/askTRP15/01/14 04:43 AM
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To me, there is no "asshole" or "nice guy". You do what you want and what you believe in. I'm nice, but I'm not a passive, manipulative "nice guy".
/r/seduction15/01/14 03:37 AM
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Does anyone see going over there as being an obvious trap? Or being pretty blue pill? Also, another part of the reason I didn't go was because when nexting a chick or making her want you more, you need to be distant and not there for her every need
/r/askTRP14/01/14 06:12 PM
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Right? I was on my way home. So it wasn't too out of the way but it was almost 10pm and I had to get some shit done and get to sleep
/r/askTRP14/01/14 06:11 PM
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That's what I was thinking and while I played it off jokingly. Obviously I don't just want to go meet them for no reason, like to kill a spider or be trapped into talking with this chick that I nexted. If something was going to happen, I would definitely go over there.
/r/askTRP14/01/14 06:10 PM
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Haha why this is great to imagine, I highly doubt this would be the case. I know both chicks pretty well
/r/askTRP14/01/14 06:09 PM
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I'm well aware how long people have been fucking. I am saying that in general, if you are new to this, go out and bag some chick and bang her in your backseat the first night you meet her, generally, not always, that chick probably isn't very high value. That is probably why OP doesn't feel so good about himself. If he went out and bagged a 9 and a great chick, OP would be on cloud 9 right now. Let's be honest here
/r/seduction14/01/14 05:36 AM
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No offense, but it sounds like it was too easy. Most attractive women aren't going to let you f-close them in the back seat of a car on their first date. Do you like this girl? Are you attracted to her?
/r/seduction10/01/14 03:39 AM
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It sounds to me like your biggest problem is confidence. "I feel like my lack of sexual or romantic experience screams out." What? A chick will have no clue if you don't tell them. You need to work on your confidence. Lack of sexual or romantic experience shouldn't be a problem. Fake it until you make it. Just act like you've had some experience that would be normal for your age and go about your business.
/r/seduction10/01/14 03:37 AM
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Surely you have a lunchroom? Occasional events after work? Christmas or summer parties or celebrations? Team building events? Use these opportunities to build some rapport and then try to get them outside of work. Lunch, dinner, coffee, bars, whatever.
/r/seduction10/01/14 03:35 AM
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So you've tried it a couple times, sure, but I still don't believe your 100 girl story. Exaggeration. Your lack of proof in this thread should be proof enough to everyone here
/r/seduction08/01/14 03:51 AM
1

I agree with puaCurveBall. It sounds to me like you should be the one moving on to someone better.
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:36 AM
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Just smile and continue on with your conversation. No need to be awkward or creepy by trying to get her back to your place immediately.
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:31 AM
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If this is all true, you really should put this data together. A good stats guy could pour through this and develop the sickest stats/infographics you've ever seen haha
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:16 AM
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3 questions: How many of these girls did you turn into fuck buddies? Any? Or were you more addicted to the chase in getting a new girl? How hot were these women? Any above 7? After the opening line, then what? Did it take much game after that or were they pretty much down to come over and fuck?
/r/seduction07/01/14 04:10 AM
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Frame it in a different way. Say that you want to "help children" or some shit like that. Women will get all emotional and love that shit. Also, I really doubt that it is your job title that is stopping women from sleeping with you. I mean, if everything else is great, this shouldn't be a problem. If you do think this is such a huge weakness in your game, start practicing better ways of framing it like I mentioned above.
/r/askTRP05/01/14 08:16 AM
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This and what others have said. You are at an inherit disadvantage because of your height. This makes TRP and seduction advice even MORE important to you. Guys that are 5-6 with great game get laid more than guys that are 7-9s with no game. If you perfect TRP and your seduction skills, you will more than make up for your height. If you have no TRP and seduction skills, you won't do well.
/r/askTRP05/01/14 08:12 AM
1

What are you protecting her from by "helping her not feel so shitty"? Nothing. You're being real. Keep it up
/r/askTRP05/01/14 08:10 AM
2

Completely agree with the "man the fuck up" part. You are far too beta. It sounds like you practically are re-friendzoning yourself after you briefly made it out of it. Man up man and do it again!
/r/askTRP05/01/14 08:07 AM
2

Uh, why? Isn't round 2 the goal here?
/r/askTRP05/01/14 08:06 AM
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You sound like you lack confidence man. "I feel like every time I ask her to come out for drinks now, she's going to perceive it as, "he's trying to get me drunk to screw me, again". So what? You like to go out for drinks and you would like this awesome girl to join you. You are worrying far too much about perception here. Also, keep flirting with her. You mentioned that she talked about having sex with you. She obviously has the confidence to joke about. Joke and flirt with her back about it!
/r/askTRP05/01/14 08:05 AM
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It sounds to me like you want to be FWB with this girl despite the fact that it sounds like you are in love with her... is this correct? Anyway, I don't really believe you but if you want to be FWB, here is how you do it: Once you've had sex the first time, towards the end say "We should do this again sometime, yeah?" and she will almost always respond with "definitely!". Then mention it again in the morning. Now you have set it up completely in her mind. Now just keep flirting with her, go drin…
/r/askTRP05/01/14 08:02 AM
2

While I applaud your detailed, well-defined plan, in order for it to succeed, you may want to narrow it down a bit. Maybe 5 core SMART goals. See http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/SMART_criteria. This will help make sure you achieve them instead of it merely being a wishlist.
/r/askTRP05/01/14 07:54 AM
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+1 to this. If you come off as very attractive to the entire group, they will be fighting for you. Even if the girl you are after isn't completely into you, she will gladly jump on you before one of her friends does. "Seducing" or making her friends like you is key.
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:51 AM
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Or too drunk. There is drinking at clubs where you're from, right?
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:48 AM
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A few options here ranked in the best order that you should pursue them: Do you not have any friends in that town? Make some friends there. Then you have an easy place to go back to. It's also far less threatening to a woman when you invite her back to chill with you and a small crew. Once you have isolated from the club to a small crew, it should be very easy to escalate and isolate from there. Go to her place. If things escalate enough, just tell her you live a long ass way away, about an hour…
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:48 AM
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1st of all, and this needs to be said, don't bring any of these up yourself. You are anticipating that they may come up, but they may not as well. You mentioned the chick has a sexual history. I wouldn't be surprised if you were just a fuck buddy in her eyes. Also, many girls are too afraid to bring these up. The point is, don't ever mention them and you will probably be just fine. If you feel the conversation drifting towards them, immediately change the subject or distract her. If for some rea…
/r/askTRP05/01/14 07:36 AM
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Dude, 10 years from now you are going to look at this post or this situation you were in and think you are a complete idiot. This girl is clearly down, probably thinks about it all the time, is very confident in herself and you are just being too much of a pansy to do anything about it. Man the fuck up here. You sound like you have very little, if any confidence. You are in a great situation here man! Now grab your balls and make your move!
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:29 AM
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Agreed. Like I said in my post, if you can't get women in college, especially at a college/fraternity party, you are really going to struggle with getting women for the rest of your life.
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:24 AM
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College is a pure gold mine, especially fraternities. I killed it in college. I was in a fraternity my last year. Fraternities can be a huge help to the majority of guys. Your image is very important. My recommendation is to be friendly and outgoing and work on your game every time. If girls see you as someone that is alpha and always doing well with women, it will snowball and you will kill it with women. Here are some tips off the top of my head (but I'm sure you will discover many, many more)…
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:23 AM
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/r/Fitness. Lucky for you, being skinny is something that you can change. Hit up the gym and follow a good routine. Start eating significantly more. Not only will this improve your self confidence, but it will likely improve your health and self-esteem as well.
/r/seduction05/01/14 07:08 AM
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You're going for the wrong women. It is pretty common for hammered women to make sexual offers and for sluts to make sexual offers when sober. You need to start gaming and selecting women that meet your tastes. Not just waiting for the sluts to come your way.
/r/seduction31/12/13 08:46 PM
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lol. Honestly man, it sounds like you lack game. It sounds like your game is pretty bad and you have just been relying on being physically attractive to have women come to you. Read up man. You'll learn a lot.
/r/seduction31/12/13 07:25 PM
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This. But it needs to be said that you should put in the effort before midnight. Waiting until 11:55 to look for a New Years Kiss may not end so well. Have a few prospects and some flirting/kino going before midnight and you are set.
/r/seduction31/12/13 06:52 PM
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You are friend zoning yourself already man. Start escalating flirting and kino ASAP. Also, "telling her how you feel" is terrible! No, no no! You don't want to tell her. You want to show her. Do this by using steadily escalating flirting and kino until you start kissing her.
/r/seduction31/12/13 06:45 PM
1

Honestly, it sounds like you are well on your way to getting deep in the friend zone. However! Tonight is the night! You can finally try to get out or you can put the nail in your coffin. Read up. You will want to escalate heavily with flirting and kino so that when it is near midnight, the kiss is almost a given. Then just pull her in and say "Be my first kiss of 2014?" and kiss her.
/r/seduction31/12/13 06:42 PM
1

This. Just end it before she does, usually it is pretty brief if you are in a public environment. Then just smile and resume what you were talking about.
/r/seduction31/12/13 06:39 PM
1

I always walk/wander around. This generally serves me well. However, there have been a few times where I will run into people I know that are with some hot women that I begin chatting with and I tend to just wander off distracted by others I might recognize. So there are good and bads I guess.
/r/seduction31/12/13 06:38 PM
11

These responses are way too beta. Just fucking ask her. Here, I'll help you: "Just us or are you inviting people?"
/r/seduction31/12/13 06:37 PM
1

"I'm not ready for a relationship" is just code for letting you down easy. You need to figure out the true reason that you are being dumped after just one month. If I had to guess your problem, you are probably being far too needy and desperate. You are likely coming off as very low value and/or too much/creepy and you are turning them off. Obviously this is just a wild guess based on your post. Give us some more details and we might be able to diagnose why you keep getting dumped.
/r/seduction31/12/13 05:43 AM
2

Yes. In person game certainly isn't nearly as common nowadays. Especially with strangers but it depends on the circumstances. If you are just approaching out of the blue, during the day, in a setting that typically isn't very social like say a train station or something, most girls will be very suspicious at first. Make her laugh and be funny and you will ease the tension. Obviously, if you are approaching in a more social setting or at night, the girl will be more open.
/r/seduction31/12/13 05:40 AM
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2 things: Yes. Assuming you are talking about girls that are friends of friends or have some ability to see your Facebook at some point, this is a pretty good low value indicator to many women. If you have few friends, few pictures, no pictures with women and your interests are World of Warcraft, obviously your value goes down. If you are referring to game with girls that you don't know personally already or without access to your Facebook, this has no effect at all. They will have no idea what …
/r/seduction31/12/13 05:38 AM
1

NP. It works surprisingly well. No need to fool around with weird lines or potentially awkward moves.
/r/seduction30/12/13 07:28 AM
2

Probably not the best timing on your part, but responding to a text isn't difficult, regardless of if you have finals going on. I wouldn't "next" her yet but be patient. Wait for her to text you. When this happens, it puts you in control. If you text her again, you will appear very needy/desperate and this isn't attractive to anyone. In fact, it is one of the most common and biggest turn-offs for women.
/r/seduction30/12/13 07:27 AM
2

I don't exactly agree with this. If you are close with a girl and clearly about to have sex, then I guess it isn't too bad to tell her, but if it was me, I wouldn't bother. OP is making it sound like this is a fairly common question he gets. The answer is that he doesn't need to tell anyone that he's a virgin.
/r/seduction30/12/13 07:25 AM
2

Good points. Looks like you are understanding it well
/r/seduction30/12/13 03:01 AM
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You don't. Why do you need to explain this to a woman? Why do they need to know? They don't. No need to think up lame excuses and clever responses. They don't need to know the answer to this. Either that or just lie. I don't see a reason to tell a girl that you are a virgin, even if you are.
/r/seduction30/12/13 03:00 AM
9

"Come here". Then pull her in close and kiss her. This is perfect for a number of reasons. It is bold and alpha. You take the lead, pull her in and kiss her. She knows it is coming when you say come here and pull her in. She isn't being taken by complete surprise No need for cheesy moves or lines. Just when the time is right and flirting/kino is at a max, just say "come here", pull her in close and kiss her This has never failed me and girls love it.
/r/seduction30/12/13 02:58 AM
2

"I then texted her two days later "lets get coffee" the day before her final and got no response." "Should I regard the lack of response as a red flag?" Yes. This is a big red flag. You have now texted her twice with no response and your second text clearly needed a response. Texting her a third time with no response is off the charts on the needy meter. Don't do it. Be patient. Wait for her to text you.
/r/seduction30/12/13 02:56 AM
1

Can you go out somewhere? Bar, club, dinner and drinks? Social circles is the easiest one. Hang out with more people. Have a better social life. Friends of friends, random girls when going out, etc.
/r/seduction28/12/13 07:39 PM
1

In my experience, go with the date but don't be over the top. Make it clear that she has to win you. She has to make YOU want to hook up with her, etc. Make her put in the effort. Don't schedule another date or hangout or whatever unless she suggests something. Make her work for it.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 07:37 PM
0

Briefly read the post but I agree with this 100%. Having women friends is a positive thing. Don't let everyone fool you with the nonsense about how you shouldn't have any. I have "friendzoned" plenty of girls and have plenty of friends that are women. It works out great for me and is a huge plus in picking up women.
/r/seduction28/12/13 08:08 AM
2

My god, you have described one of my situations almost exactly. We have a very similar background as well. We could probably offer each other some tips. In my situation, I have nexted this chick twice and she has "nexted" me once where we literally go 5-9 months without pretty much any contact before starting up again. If I had to guess the cause of my problem and yours, it is that she is playing the same fucking game we are and she's pretty damn good at it too. Not to mention just as stubborn i…
/r/askTRP28/12/13 08:00 AM
4

While I would normally agree with you, I think in this situation, she is just playing the exact same fucking game you are. I've been here and posted more in my reply.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 07:59 AM
2

Two things: Why would you show a woman TRP? TRP is a philosophy to me but it isn't something that I would show to women. They won't/don't get it. It's mostly women not accepting it. They don't think it is true -- despite the fact that it is. They still believe that guys should treat them like a special snowflake and soon their prince charming will waltz in and take them away.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 07:51 AM
1

Change the subject. You can stick to your guns but you don't need or want to get into an argument about religion or politics with a chick that you are trying to bone that night.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 07:49 AM
1

Tell her no. Simple as that. Stand up for yourself man.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 07:40 AM
1

Practice, practice, and then practice some more
/r/askTRP28/12/13 07:39 AM
4

Good advice here
/r/seduction27/12/13 06:01 AM
1

It may have worked out for now, but you have still appeared desperate and needy. Not an ideal situation to be in. Change things up, now and you may still have a chance.
/r/askTRP27/12/13 05:54 AM
3

Definitely move. Being independent is a huge plus in your life and a massive plus when dealing with women. Do it. Stop just talking to them for months. You are friendzoning yourself. You need to start escalating. Here is what I posted in another thread that may give you some ideas and help you to start escalating with these women. "Two main issues here. I've done this quite a few times and like to think I have some pretty tried and true methods. 1 = Flirting escalation 2 = Physical escalation (e…
/r/seduction27/12/13 05:43 AM
1

Just ask them to "Guess" or think up something clever like "maybe if you're good, I'll tell you later ;)" What do you mean by "intimate"? Are you fucking all of these girls? Also, why are you "dating" 6-8 girls at once? Stop dating them. This seems like a colossal waste of time and money. Just start fucking them. Turn some into fuck buddies, get rid of others, escalate further with ones that you are interested in.
/r/seduction27/12/13 05:39 AM
1

No. This is perfectly fine. What are you doing wrong? You are boosting her self-esteem and practicing your game at the same time. Win win.
/r/seduction27/12/13 05:36 AM
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This.
/r/seduction27/12/13 05:35 AM
1

No doubt. I agree with that for sure. I just think to blame everything on yourself is illogical. There are some things that you just can't control. With that said, 90%+ you can control and that is what you should focus on.
/r/askTRP27/12/13 02:04 AM
2

You seem to be coming off to them as a "rich guy" quite often. Why is this? How do you demonstrate financial value or being rich at your average bar? Just how you dress/wardrobe or is it something else?
/r/askTRP26/12/13 07:15 PM
1

Disagree. Do your research but you can't do a full background check on a chick early on. Not all chicks act completely crazy/bi-polar or even tell you if they are until you are in fairly deep.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 07:11 PM
1

Read up. For this situation, just take it easy. If she takes forever to respond, so be it. Don't let it bother you. Continue living your life
/r/askTRP26/12/13 06:46 AM
3

Sure. I think you come off as much higher value when you are with a group. If that group involves females, that is even better. From a general onlooker perspective, I just think your value is far higher in that situation. You also come off as less threatening and less creepy to women. It makes things really easy. Also, there isn't just one of you. So if you are with a crew, chances are that many of you will be talking to different people. This is ideal because you will be introduced to many peop…
/r/askTRP26/12/13 06:43 AM
1

lol, that link got deleted but they were shitting on the poor dude for no reason. Here was my comment (won't post now because it is deleted) I guess I will be the only one here to stand up and say that I don't think you have done anything wrong. 1 is completely normal. 2 is completely normal. You should have got mad. It is not normal/acceptable for your girlfriend to be over some dude's apartment, alone, very often and until 1AM and forgetting things over there, especially when you don't know th…
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:43 AM
2

Smile when you do it. Use eye contact. Body language and practice are the two keys IMO.
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:03 AM
3

So you start out with a chick and find out she is bi-polar. This is our fault? This seems like it would fall into the 10% for me.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:39 AM
3

No offense man but you have done the complete opposite of what this forum suggests. The complete opposite. You are being needy and desperate and chicks can sense that shit from a mile a way. "Well, I made contact since to keep the momentum going" - This is bad. Don't do this. Just wait for her to get back to you. This is key. Waiting is by far the hardest part about internet/text game. "I was straight up and left it in her hands" - Again, this is terrible. You don't want to be "straight up". You…
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:36 AM
2

This is very needy and desperate. Not attractive at all
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:31 AM
1

A good way to think about it when starting out is to put her in your shoes. Ideally, you want THEM to be the one coming after YOU.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:27 AM
4

Some people love it. I always find it harder and not as enjoyable. It is much harder to approach women when you are alone IMO. When you have a decent crew, it is much easier. Women see you as less creepy and less threatening. When you are just a dude riding solo, it makes this much more difficult in my experience. I'm not saying that I never do it or to never do it, but it isn't the ideal way IMO.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:26 AM
1

Wait wat. What is this post about? That you've been trapped by a low value girl?
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:23 AM
0

Seal the deal already. You will only regret not doing it. What is the problem? You value her more as an employee than your dream girl? I don't get it. Employees are replaceable if worst comes to worst. Go for it. Also, I don't really understand all the "lose my alpha/red pill" for her stuff. What are you talking about exactly? And for my curiosity, how old are you?
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:20 AM
1

This is normal man. All normal so far. 90% of girls are very reluctant to admit they masturbate and/or do dirty things. A lot of what she will say is likely bullshit. It is your job to see through it and open her up to your liking.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:16 AM
1

Most girls are shy about taking nudes and think vaginas are ugly. This is normal man. You have to open her up a bit.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:15 AM
1

It depends on a lot of things. Is this clearly a date or is it vague? Are you doing date shit or are you just drinking at a bar? If it is clearly a date, go for it and direct her inside. If it is more casual, I wouldn't bother, especially if you aren't experienced/confident doing this.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:13 AM
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Don't. Especially if she likes the "hard to get routine". You are essentially doing the opposite. Be more distant with her. Get her to come after you. Then make your move
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:11 AM
1

This is indeed a stupid ass question. This shit does not matter at all and you don't sound like you are that far from average. It sounds like what you are lacking is confidence. You need to practice more and you will gain it.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:08 AM
5

I disagree with this. I think the 90% figure is pretty accurate. There is at least 10% of crazy woman shit that you can't control. It is the reason you have to next many women.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:06 AM
1

This. Eventually you will find someone better. It won't be right away. It might take some time, but enjoy the journey.
/r/askTRP26/12/13 04:05 AM
1

For me, that helps. When I have short hair, I definitely look a few years younger. I also try to keep at least a little stubble. You can keep it well trimmed. I trim it up about once a week.
/r/seduction26/12/13 04:00 AM
1

This is perfectly fine if not ideal. You live your life, you have passions and things you like to do and in some of your free time, you fill it with women. You don't have to spend ALL of that remaining free time with the same woman. Don't smother her or obsess over her. Otherwise, you are being just the right amount of independent.
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:58 AM
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Joke back. Honestly, IMO, it is far better to be witty and make fun of her back then it is to wilt down. It's a shit test. The girl wants to see you mess with her, not agree with her.
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:40 AM
1

Honestly, I think it is just dumb luck that you've hooked up with a bunch of people in relationships. It's not your fault. I doubt there is anything you are doing to attract this type of people. Keep going out. Surely you will begin hooking up with mostly single people in time
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:38 AM
1

Like the second one a lot. Will have to use that
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:35 AM
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Ha. I'm with you with that. Young girls are easier too
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:35 AM
1

I look a few years younger than I am as well. Things I use for help: Warddrobe Size/Weight Body hair - I think this is key and probably the biggest key. Not just facial hair, but the hair on the top of your head as well. Some guys look much older or younger if they grow their hair out. Also, are you sure that you can't grow any facial hair at all? Sometimes even a 5 o'clock shadow helps. I had a few that I will have to remember but I would use variations of what you already stated.
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:33 AM
2

This. You need to live your own life. I would probably get a place nearby so you can still help out when needed. Also, you could look into getting her a caretaker or putting her into an old person's home. Sounds mean at first but it could be better for the both of you.
/r/seduction26/12/13 03:27 AM
2

/r/Fitness
/r/becomeaman22/12/13 08:19 AM
1

The side bar
/r/askTRP22/12/13 03:38 AM
1

Exactly what I was saying in my comments above..
/r/seduction22/12/13 12:17 AM
2

This. I've dealt with a bipolar chick as well. They are awesomeeeeeee on the highs. Like perfect. Hard not to get oneitis. But god damn they are fucking insane otherwise. Not worth it.
/r/askTRP21/12/13 09:29 PM
1

Shots, ask to play beer pong, is there a keg/beer/liquor? Get some and offer some to others. No alcohol? Bring some and offer some to others. So many good opportunities here.
/r/seduction21/12/13 09:04 PM
2

No, I do not. I said thanks for the free material but it is misleading to act like it is just some kind gift. The gift is MARKETING. The purpose is to get more traffic and make more money on the paid products. Similar tactics to coupons or a free ice cream cone at McDonald's or something.
/r/seduction21/12/13 08:53 PM
2

You have a perfect situation. This should be easy. Just make sure to escalate with her rapidly. Here is a post I made in another thread that might help: "Two main issues here. I've done this quite a few times and like to think I have some pretty tried and true methods. 1 = Flirting escalation 2 = Physical escalation (escalation to physical contact, kissing, etc.) Flirting escalation - You need some strong flirting and there are many ways to do this depending on which situation you are in. Any fo…
/r/askTRP21/12/13 08:12 PM
4

"..but a freak in the sheets"
/r/askTRP21/12/13 08:10 PM
8

Yes, it is possible, but most women are terrible at it. There are sluts that sleep with a ton of people, "good girls", and then the closet sluts. Usually the ones the jump from boyfriend to boyfriend and are constantly getting sexual pleasure. They aren't really seen as "sluts" in most people's eyes because they aren't jumping from dude to dude. They are jumping from boyfriend to boyfriend.
/r/askTRP21/12/13 08:09 PM
0

Not saying that at all. It is just a little misleading to act like you are doing this out of the kindness of your heart. This is a form of marketing for him. Again, I thanked him for the free material but let's be real about what this is.
/r/seduction21/12/13 07:05 PM
0

I don't see what you are asking. You are doing just fine. You're both in a happy, healthy, normal relationship. Keep it up.
/r/askTRP21/12/13 08:16 AM
2

Practice. Just keep practicing. Just like anything else, you will improve. I think you know what you did wrong. You said it yourself here "With the other girls, I acted naturally and made constant jokes and even acted confident when my confidence level in general just all around sucks balls."
/r/seduction21/12/13 08:13 AM
1

I wouldn't advise it. Sooo many guys do this and it is just painfully transparent to any good looking girl. Not to mention it is very unoriginal and lazy. I've heard plenty of hot women talk about it and even make fun of the guys and call them creepers. I would wait until you've at least seen her around IRL.
/r/seduction21/12/13 08:11 AM
1

As a successful website owner, there is no way this is the truth. I almost guarantee he is already profiting from it. This is just driving more traffic to profit further. Seriously, pull the wool from over your eyes here.
/r/seduction21/12/13 08:08 AM
0

.. OP is referring to students. Hence my comment about college age chicks..
/r/seduction21/12/13 08:06 AM
1

That sucks man. For everyone reading, THE solution is to never get yourself in that situation. HOWEVER, now that you are here I think the optimal play is to just wait to tell them until you are quite close. Ideally by that time, you can have a respectable conversation about both of your options and come to a conclusion that works for both of you.
/r/askTRP21/12/13 02:48 AM
2

Two things: Some women are well aware and pretty good at gaming. She probably knows that she shouldn't come whining back and that if she waits you out, you will be the one that comes whining back. Guess what? She was right. If she was such a quality woman, you should have been more careful about just nexting her and going silent. Looks like you've put yourself in almost a lose/lose situation here. I would wait it out or drop very sly hints here. How long has she been "radio silent" and how long …
/r/askTRP21/12/13 02:46 AM
1

Keep them shorter and more concise and don't tell her your feelings over text. Otherwise, they aren't bad. For example, your second text should have been just "Really? You think that's all I feel about you? Or are you looking for the easy way out because you cheated..? " Third text should have been just the first line "Truth be told I was planning on ringing you tonight drunk with romantic intentions and what not."
/r/askTRP21/12/13 02:41 AM
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Thanks for the free material. However I think it may be a little misleading to say that you aren't doing this for money. I think the real reason you are doing this is to get people signed up to your mailing list. This site looks designed similarly to many other websites and that is how they work. Once you get a large user/subscriber base, revenue starts to come from selling products and/or a combination of advertising.
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:33 AM
1

I agree with everything you just said except the last line. Certainly though, despite what she says, she wants him absolutely dedicated to his highest purpose.
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:30 AM
0

Heh, I actually tend to disagree a bit. I mean, the holidays certainly aren't a bad time to pick up chicks, and probably better than the previous few weeks, but I think BY FAR the best time to pick up chicks for students is the first few weeks of fall semester. It isn't even close. Tons of new chicks moving out for the first time, tons of chicks desperately trying to make friends in their new environment, tons of chicks that don't know anybody, plus it is summer/fall and everyone is out and abou…
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:28 AM
1

This. Solid advice and highly recommended
/r/seduction21/12/13 02:22 AM
3

First of all, you need to clarify a few things. What do you mean by "hanging out"? And why has he brought her a handwritten note and some fuirts?
/r/askTRP20/12/13 06:23 AM
3

Start to be more distant. You need to eventually turn the tables to where she is one wondering why you have slowly become more distant. The problem is that you are always there and super easy. She has the control and the power. You need to make her a little nervous. Slowly withdraw a little bit, be a little more distant, but don't give a reason or make a huge deal out of it. Keep this up for a little while and soon she will be begging for you.
/r/askTRP20/12/13 06:10 AM
1

Suggest an alternative. Coffee instead of going to a bar. Almost the same environment.
/r/askTRP20/12/13 06:07 AM
3

Haha this is pure gold. Perfect response right here
/r/askTRP20/12/13 05:55 AM
1

SHIT TEST! Don't dwell on it. Keep it quick. "Didn't work out" "Not the one" etc. And then change the subject or put it back on her.
/r/askTRP20/12/13 05:55 AM
11

Something cocky/funny is clearly the right answer here. "Yes. I can tell you're thinking about me!" "Yes. I didn't know girls were so attracted to me!" Etc, etc. There are literally thousands of awesome responses you could use here.
/r/askTRP20/12/13 05:54 AM
2

Depends. He probably just lied to not break your heart because of your oneitis. Is he a good bro friend? If yes, then keep him. If he is a shitty one or expendable, get rid of him.
/r/askTRP20/12/13 05:53 AM
2

Why are you "dating" these girls? It sounds like you are looking for more of hookups or more casual relationships. Stop "dating them" and getting tied down. Start hooking up with them and making it more casual.
/r/seduction20/12/13 05:51 AM
2

It all depends on the situation but I have found myself in this situation numerous times. I have a few very good looking friends physically and I do better than them about 8/10 times. Honestly, if they had my game, they would be absolutely killing it.
/r/seduction20/12/13 05:49 AM
1

This. While calling is obviously preferred, nowadays there are a ton of people who pretty much don't use the phone or just think it is weird. You have to develop both texting and calling skills and use each where appropriate.
/r/seduction20/12/13 05:47 AM
1

Yes. The consensus is to not go nuts and delete her from all your social networks, etc. Just ignore it and move on with your life being your awesome self. Also, it obviously depends on what you mean by "not responding or barely responding". Some guys get super needy and try to hit up a chick constantly. This is a huge fail. Assuming you have done everything else right, just ignore her. She may notice your awesome life and come to you. If she does, win. If not, you've moved on. Win win.
/r/seduction20/12/13 05:46 AM
1

IMO, in this instance, this is more than a shit test. It is flat out rejection.
/r/seduction20/12/13 05:43 AM
1

You're young. Get a lock on your room! This is essential. Lock your room whenever you leave or are not within view of it. Honestly, this should be essential for anyone living in young, college type rooming situations.
/r/askTRP20/12/13 12:26 AM
2

This. This. This. This is what I say every time a thread like this gets brought up. Blocking them and going way overboard just shows that you are insecure and pathetic in her eyes. This shit is see through. I've heard about it from chicks many times. Don't do it. Just don't talk to them and go on being awesome. This works farrrr better. If anything, she will see how awesome you are and get jealous/attempt to get with you. Blocking them just makes you look like an insecure little bitch.
/r/seduction17/12/13 03:19 AM
1

It can happen, but you need be very careful and deliberate with your actions. People don't go to the gym to get hit on and it happens to hot girls all the time. Classes are the obvious ones. If she doesn't go to classes, it helps if you have more in common. Do you use the same weights? Same machines? Workout at the same time every day? This helps a lot and you can make small talk very easily.
/r/seduction17/12/13 03:16 AM
16

You'll hate to hear this and I'm not trying to be rude by what I am about to say, just brutally honest. You need to hear it. This is your fault and you did it to yourself. This is what happens when you keep driving yourself further down the friend zone hole. You didn't even tell your friend.. why not? Man up man! You should have told your friend and you should have escalated with this chick way before. This is pretty much a classic friend zone/oneitis story and things like this happen all the ti…
/r/seduction17/12/13 03:13 AM
1

A few things: How old/young do you look? Do you look like you're in your 30's? Do you look like you're in your early 20's? This matters. Be outgoing. Honestly, college is a complete gold mine. Nowhere in the world will you find so much easy, hot young women. GO FOR IT. Study in the library or with classmates a lot. Is your grad major something there is a lot of chicks in? Take advantage of it if it is. Go to the sporting events. Is your school a big football or basketball school? Use that. They …
/r/seduction15/12/13 01:51 AM
2

Honestly, you're not doing it right. You can be a little more red pill without ruining your relationship. It sounds like you are pretty much ruining it. Take it down a level.
/r/askTRP15/12/13 01:48 AM
1

I think it is fine either way. People will respect all that you have overcome. Believe it or not, chicks actually dig this and will connect with you more on an emotional level. With that said, I generally agree with the general consensus that you should make everything just seem natural. Read the 48 Laws of Power. There is a lot in there about this concept.
/r/askTRP15/12/13 01:42 AM
3

This. Parties are usually better opportunities. Don't get your hoes up about bars if you've never been before.
/r/seduction14/12/13 09:45 PM
1

Honestly, meeting them in person works well. Otherwise I like the idea of your local sub.
/r/seduction14/12/13 04:19 AM
1

Nice post. Like the emphasis on practice at the end
/r/seduction14/12/13 04:16 AM
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I think you played it fine. Just bad luck really. You could have been a beta bitch with that dude and you probably still would have been waiting for your girl but fuck that.
/r/seduction14/12/13 04:12 AM
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I agree with your friend. When I've pulled shit like this in the past, my smarter chicks (one's with as much game as I do) always call me on it. They know exactly why you were there, even if it was on accident. They won't believe that shit if you just happen to show up there. If on the other hand, you text her and say "Hey, just got out of the movie. You still at so and so bar?", then this is perfectly fine. Actually, this is probably the preferred method. Just showing up is fucking weird and co…
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:57 AM
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Comedic timing is definitely more important. Also, speaking slower and more deliberate is generally a good technique, but not always. If you do great speaking your normal way, just continue. No need to mess up success.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:54 AM
1

This. A lot of OPs post made me cringe as well. If you want this to work, I've given you the technique.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:52 AM
1

Just stop. Seriously. You have gone way overboard on the neediness/clinginess scale and it is terribly obvious to her. This is not attractive to women. You want to know what this does to women (and men for that matter)? It makes them use you. It is a completely normal human reaction. You have showed yourself as being terribly easy. You will be there at a moments whim to wipe the shit off her ass and she knows this. She is making you chase her and it is working. You want advice that will actually…
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:50 AM
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Been there with my first as I think most everyone has and here is how you do it: 1) MOVE THE FUCK ON 2) What do you enjoy doing? Start doing it. Now 3) Find other chicks and start getting with them. Trust me on this. This is the one that truly made me move on and now you've got the experience and the balls to actually do it.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:45 AM
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Also, double lol that you are in love with this chick. Listen man, I understand that you are probably pretty young, this is your first love, your first fuck, etc. but this girl is a whore plain and simple. Case closed. Congratulations, you fucked a hot whore. When you look back on your life, you will realize how small and unimportant this girl was. You will inevitably have many more women and many more women that you like and fall in love with much more than this whore.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:44 AM
2

LOL. Are you serious about the 30 dudes part? I hope you get tested.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:43 AM
1

Family is slightly different IMO. You want to be red pill and be a man in everything you do. However, you don't want to start WW3 over a pissing contest with your 28 year old sister for the better bed. This is not red pill. You can try negotiating something reasonable like switching years. Otherwise, just ignore it and accept it. Once you are financially independent (and a true man in that sense), you will no longer have to put up with any of that bullshit.
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:26 AM
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I don't think you ended it by being the bigger man, you ended it by being a god damn woman and ignoring them. When you were practically doing their work, you should have spoke up and said this (Big mistake, mistake #1). This would have ended the situation right there. If you somehow ended up further down the line when Q tells you to stop being a cunt, you should have been a man and told him to go fuck himself (Mistake #2). As a man, you shouldn't take that shit from anyone. Completely ignoring t…
/r/askTRP14/12/13 03:23 AM
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I completely disagree with this. I think this is far too vague. It is like opening with "Hi" or "What's up". It is a terrible text opener. If you have already hooked up with her or established her as some sort of fuck buddy, then this is perfectly fine, however, if this is an opener trying to get with a girl, I think this is terrible.
/r/seduction14/12/13 02:32 AM
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You can have the deeper conversations later, once you're past the initial stages and have built some rapport. Definitely save it for then. Having deeper conversations too early is a recipe for disaster.
/r/seduction14/12/13 02:27 AM
1

I suspect the "girls I've never seen before and I want to get to know" part is where your problem lies. It sounds like your game just isn't good enough right now to just go up to random girls and get something going. You need to establish something before that makes them interested in what you are saying to them. It can be a number of different things. They may notice how you interact with others like the group you are with, how other girls give you lots of attention, how you are the center of t…
/r/seduction14/12/13 12:00 AM
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"texted her yesterday to see how she was doing, and had a good conversation, but now I want to ask her out" Don't text her to "see how she is doing". This is not good. One easy way is to just use her name or some variation of it. Examples that I like: Get the conversation going immediately. When you are getting her number, text her so you have an established conversation. Even just saying her name or yours is fine. This establishes some phone conversation for her to continue later or you to cont…
/r/seduction13/12/13 11:55 PM
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Completely depends on the relationship and relationship level. When I saw the title, I thought "don't buy anything for just a new relationship". Then I read your post where you mentioned GF and my thoughts changed. I would say something like this: New fling/kind of relationship/few dates: Nothing besides maybe "Merry Christmas [Insert name here]" Newly dating/very new relationship (exclusive): Small gift/date Steady dating/relationship: Solid gift and good date Obviously what you get and what ki…
/r/seduction13/12/13 11:27 PM
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Give her at least a day or two to hit you up now that she knows you are single. This is ideal. Now that she knows you are single, you want her to come chasing after you. Throw some bait out there if necessary. If you don't get anything, send her an easy invite a couple days later. Hey, "I'm going to be at such and such bar or club tonight with my buddies, you should stop by". If she shows, that was easy. If not, wait for her to contact/start chasing you.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 04:03 AM
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TRP is about the truth. Not about if women are superior or inferior. It is about believing the truth. The truth is that being a blue piller and treating women how most of us have been taught is incorrect. It is not the way to get women, it is not the way women ultimately want to be treated and it is not the way to live your life as a man. TRP is about realizing the truth and how it affects everything in your life.
/r/askTRP13/12/13 04:01 AM
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I would probably change your "Well, whatever you'd like to call it is fine by me" (too beta) to something like (laughing) "Yeah, duh! And who doesn't like coffee!?". This is a way to lightly make fun of her while making it clear that this is a date. Generally, you played it fine, especially for your first attempt. Also, unless you've already worked towards putting yourself in the friendzone or something, I wouldn't worry too much about her comment "Well I'd love to get coffee with you! Assuming …
/r/seduction13/12/13 01:08 AM
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Having a sort of mental road map for kino escalation is a good idea. Keep in mind that every situation is different and not everyone will follow any map, but generally, most will follow a similiar mold. Physical escalation - You need to keep escalating steadily. It sounds like you had some physical interaction - but not enough and didn't continuously escalate to the kissing point. Did you ever stop to get drinks? Go the bathroom? Go together. Ask her if she wants to go get drinks. Then you will …
/r/seduction13/12/13 12:56 AM
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I think this is normal. Everyone's state - including women, is different when they are out at a bar on Saturday night vs in school/office. This is natural. However, you don't want an EXTREME difference. What you don't want is your cocky/funny/awesome self to be killing it out on Saturday night, and then be really awkward and weird when you see her Monday morning. That doesn't mean that you have to be your same self from Saturday night, certainly not, but you should try to maintain at least some …
/r/seduction13/12/13 12:46 AM
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While you played it okay I guess, you did so for the wrong reason. You don't just turn down a hot girl that you are interested in so you don't "appear desperate". Joke with her and schedule it for later that day or some other day that works for you. What were you planning on doing next? Opening out of the blue? Praying she asks again? I don't see where you are going with this. You need to plan further ahead. What you should have done is joked with her and planned something for either later that …
/r/seduction13/12/13 12:43 AM
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Yes, you are usually espected to open and show interest. I would say 90% of the time, this is the case. It sounds like you are failing to get them interested. Basically, you aren't attractive to them for some reason. Not necessarily physical, but you are failing at some point. Also, what is your approach? Are you just approaching these girls out of the blue or have you had some sort of rapport or interaction before? As for blunt answers, yes that is generally a good sign that you have failed so …
/r/seduction13/12/13 12:36 AM
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This is me partly as well except for the guys not liking me part. Honestly, I could care less if SOME dudes don't like me. I think it is perfectly fine/normal, maybe even optimal to have some dudes jealous or not liking you. I am extremely competitive. The "high" I get from chasing a chick and succeeding is just too much. I absolutely cannot stand losing and going home solo or not getting that girl drives me absolutely nuts. Honestly, I don't know a great answer to it and I'm not really even sur…
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:51 AM
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This. Social awareness pretty much summarizes this post and mine. Basically, even two minutes is an eternity with a stranger. You need to build more rapport and be in a different setting for this type of story telling to work.
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:46 AM
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2 things: Know your audience - where/who is your audience? A typical bar chick isn't interesting in hearing a story longer than 3 minutes. You need to make it quick and funny/interesting and keep escalating. No one wants to listen to some long ass story, no matter how great it is in these situations. Either shorten them or save them for better time. Timing - when are you telling these stories? I wouldn't use even a 2 minute story unless I've built some rapport and I know there is some serious in…
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:45 AM
1

You already know the answer. It sounds like you are using basic bar game at a chaotic club. This is wrong. Bar game and club game are two different beasts. Generally at a club, dancing, body language, physical features matter more. There isn't nearly as much talking, especially small talk and typical bar gaming.
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:41 AM
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Definitely. There are tons of groupies for even the smallest bands. Chicks LOVE singers/guitar players. They see it as almost an accomplishment to get with them. Use typical game, but use your role as the singer/guitar player to your advantage. After you're done playing, certainly girls will recognize you. Use this to your advantage.
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:39 AM
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Definitely ignore some texts. You don't have to "politely end the conversation" either. This is being far too beta and is possibly even worse than responding all damn day. You don't have to say anything. IF she asks why, you can tell her "was busy with [insert awesome and/or important thing you do here". It sounds like your text game isn't very good, but it doesn't sound like it is complete shit either. I really doubt this is where you are losing them although it probably isn't helping. You need…
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:37 AM
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Practice, practice, practice. I think your FR is proof how much practice matters. You said every time it became easier and you clearly improved with each opportunity. Nice work.
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:30 AM
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The answer is because of the very different circumstances. At night, everyone is drinking, it's dark, there's music, everyone is there for a reason: TO HAVE FUN AND MEET PEOPLE. This is very different than how people are during the day. Most people are quite a bit more quiet and reserved and usually have a purpose for what they are doing that doesn't include massive amounts of alcohol and fun. Obviously it is easier and you will be more confident in the night scenario. The solution is practice, …
/r/seduction12/12/13 05:26 AM
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This. This is great advice and I agree. Well said.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 05:23 AM
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It's pretty much the same thing as any other girl. Be your same awesome/cocky/alpha self. Don't be a beta friend zone bitch. She knows a few things about you? Great. That doesn't change a lot. Proceed with your normal game and normal self.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 05:21 AM
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Hmmmm this actually does change things. I'm wondering how close this "like" is. If it's just a puppy dog crush or something, say nothing. If you've actually hooked up before or at least been physical, then proceed with my original comment.
/r/askTRP12/12/13 05:19 AM
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Just keep being your same kick-ass self and she will come to you. You can bait her a little, but don't go after her aggressively. Keep being an alpha and being awesome and she will come to you. At this point, you will have all the control, she will like you much more and you will get much more action.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 04:19 AM
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While I am all for being Alpha and not doing Beta shit, I think doing something nice for her while she is really sick and even asking her how is she is feeling is just fine. I draw the difference if you are turning into her little bitch or she is always sick or something, but if this is a rare occasion and she is REALLY sick (not just some really lame cough or something), I see no problem texting her.
/r/askTRP11/12/13 04:04 AM
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I've been in these situations numerous times and the best way is to be extremely vague and noncommittal. Change the subject when it is brought up. If you just flat out tell her right up front that you don't want to be exclusive and would see someone else if the opportunity arose, you are likely going to piss her off and either A) Send her packing B) Send her fucking other dudes on the side The ideal play that I usually use is what I said above. Just keep it extremely vague and noncommittal. You …
/r/askTRP11/12/13 03:54 AM
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Sounds like you were friendzoned. Hard. You're doing the right thing if you want to get out. Keep it up. Be distant to her. I would eventually let her come visit if she keeps insisting. But make she that she really insists and practically begs and remain relatively vague/distant. Then when she does visit, ACT DIFFERENT than you have in the past. You need to be attractive to her and not her friendzone bitch. If you trust that your game has actually improved and you will be able to make a move dur…
/r/askTRP11/12/13 03:50 AM
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It's about making YOURSELF more attractive to women. I think you are thinking about this wrong. If a girl got more fit/better looking, you would certainly be more interested, right? So if you improve your seduction game with women, you get similar results.
/r/seduction11/12/13 02:26 AM
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No need for a possibly rude comment. Just change the topic. Simple as that. Think like a kid with ADHD. Just start talking about something else. It is usually easy to do relating to what you are talking about to. Just use a smaller detail or tangent that may be slightly related and talk about that. Even completely changing the topic works, especially when it is something about the other person or something the other person is interested in. People LOVE talking about themselves or things they are…
/r/seduction10/12/13 08:26 PM
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Now that you are familiar with all the basics, do you want to know what will help you more than anything? Practice. Practice, refine your methods and techniques, get more comfortable, then practice some more. Keep reading and refining your game and practice more. Compare "The Game" to a sport. You could be an expert on basketball on paper, but you need to apply it. Applying that through practice is what truly makes you great.
/r/seduction10/12/13 08:14 PM
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I didn't develop ENOUGH comfort/rapport beforehand, however, according to friends and previous relationships, developing comfort/rapport during the first impression is one of my strong suits. So I doubt that is it. I think you nailed it with this comment. You need to develop ENOUGH comfort/rapport before making the date. Once you have done this, making the logistics of the date is fairly easy. I really think this is where you are failing. You need to nail this part. This is where 90% of the work…
/r/seduction10/12/13 07:40 PM
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48 Laws of Power. Not directly seddit related but soo much crossover and useful things to know in life.
/r/seduction10/12/13 07:37 PM
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You don't. Obviously that's not the response you wanted to hear but this is very difficult for the reasons that most people have already stated.
/r/seduction10/12/13 07:36 PM
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Take it slow and never stop gaming. Think about it logically for a second. If a chick was head over heels for you and wanted you way more than you want her, it makes it super easy for you, boring and not all that attractive. Just treat her like any other chick. Don't put her on a pedestal.
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:15 AM
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Not bad actually. Better than I anticipated from the title
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:13 AM
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I think this is pretty solid advice. Ideally, you will have some chill neighbors (dudes or chicks) that will make some good friends. How big is the apartment complex? Also, keep in mind that you will get a very wide age/status range in an apartment complex.
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:07 AM
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Definitely DON'T text her what you were thinking. You need to get HER attracted to YOU. You want HER to be the one wondering if you are getting distant/cold and wanting YOU. Not the other way around. Your two options should be: A) Leave it alone for at least a few days. Give her some damn space B) Completely ignore until she comes to you
/r/seduction10/12/13 06:04 AM
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Like most everything involving seduction, it depends on the situation. It should be fairly obvious in most cases. Is she with a dude? Do you know her on FB/Instagram? Should be obvious on most of these too. If it's a girl you're just meeting, by all means just fucking ask her. If it's someone you might be interested in, I don't see any problems in FB creeping to get this information. Information is key
/r/seduction10/12/13 05:59 AM
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Practice with as many girls as you can and you will improve. Also, obviously alcohol doesn't hurt, especially when you are inexperienced. Generally escalation needs to go in a slightly increasing manner that should come naturally. The general flow is usually interest>flirting>kissing>heavy making out and light touching>heavy touching.
/r/seduction10/12/13 05:57 AM
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Sitting back and letting her do the work is not a good idea IMO. Almost all girls like a guy that takes charge. Not a wuss that they have to lead.
/r/seduction10/12/13 05:55 AM
2

This applies to almost everyone and with everything. Practice.
/r/seduction09/12/13 04:14 AM
1

You don't need a house or a car but you should look stable/reliable. An apartment or shared house is perfectly fine and normal. Keep it clean and normal looking. Try to get some sort of car or have her meet at your place if you can.
/r/seduction09/12/13 04:10 AM
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I disagree with this advice. I think you simply choose a date and time. If she is unavailable this date and time, she will let you know. Then ask her when she is available and you pick a new date and time. This is much more alpha and in control IMO. Giving her even a few options is too beta IMO.
/r/seduction09/12/13 04:08 AM
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If she is down so far, she is at least a little bit interested. Escalate and see how your date goes and you will be able to confirm which way she is now leaning. Also, when she flakes like that, you should have made firm plans. As in where/what time you were meeting. If you just leave it open, it is really easy for her to get nervous and flake out
/r/seduction09/12/13 03:55 AM
1

Move on. This is a regular thing for this type of chick.
/r/seduction08/12/13 03:52 AM
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"Come here". Pull her in close and kiss her. Honestly, it's that simple. Don't overthink it.
/r/seduction08/12/13 03:35 AM
6

This is a classic shit test.
/r/seduction08/12/13 03:14 AM
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So let me get this straight. You found a random chick online, chatted with her, now she is offering to drive and have sex with you? Is this correct? Are you sure she isn't a dude/400lb cow? Have you just been catfished? No offense man, but generally decent looking girls don't talk to random guys online and agree to drive to them and have sex with them.
/r/seduction08/12/13 02:58 AM
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I'm aware and fairly good at deflecting shit tests. I'm more concerned about a response if you have to give one. For example, during a game of Truth or Dare or some other drunken shenanigans you agreed to play.
/r/seduction08/12/13 02:03 AM
1

To help us answer, how old are you and how old is she?
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:52 AM
2

No offense, but after an online chat she is offering to have sex with you? Am I understanding this right?
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:49 AM
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Yes. My typical answer is crafted around the girl. For example, if it's a good girl who suspects you might be a man whore, i lower my number. If it's a girl who has been around a bit, I might tell the truth or even add to it.
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:46 AM
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My typical response is about 2 more than I expect her number to be (or know her number to be), ideally, I would deflect the question, distract her, or get hers first, but let's say you are playing some sort of game where you can't really deflect this, like Truth or Dare and there is no way out of it. Let's say you are playing in front of a small group with a chick that is a solid 9 and has at least some interest. What is your play here?
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:27 AM
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1) As it seems like you know, you might have a high percentage of getting numbers, you will likely have a low percentage of responses just because of how little you know about each other. 2) No response would generally indicate you should move on, IMO. Like I said in number 1, I think your response rate isn't going to be that high. Maybe 50% with these kind of tactics. I don't think the tactics themselves are terrible, but just be aware that girls may not respond based on your approach and how l…
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:11 AM
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While I see what you're saying, this shouldn't stop you. I know soooo many girls that date losers. People that are far worse than yourself. Not to mention, all you have to do is go to college. Suddenly, you are a student again and everything is acceptable
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:09 AM
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Obviously I agree with this. Honestly, it's one thing if you are hitting on one of your friends girlfriends, but some random dudes GF? That's where I draw the line. If I don't know them, they are fair game. It's not my responsibility. It's hers and his. If I do know them, the rules are different.
/r/seduction08/12/13 01:04 AM
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No offense, but that sounds like an excuse to me. You don't like to date girls for fun/sex? Are you human? Who doesn't like sex? 25/male here. I've had numerous great opportunities lately, but I just won't settle for any girl. She has to be special and meet all the things that I like. I usually know pretty early on if they are girlfriend material or not. If not, I try to just turn them into FWB.
/r/seduction07/12/13 07:15 PM
1

This. Proceed slower than usual and pay a lot of attention to IOIs. It can definitely be done, but proceed with more caution than usual and make sure you aren't misinterpreting what is going on.
/r/seduction07/12/13 07:12 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction07/12/13 07:11 PM
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2 things. 1) How did you meet these girls? Were they actually interested or was it just a quick "see how many quick numbers I can get on the way to work" thing? This matters a ton with their potential responses. 2) Regarding calling or texting, age is how I determine it. Calling a lot and not texting much is weird to pretty much anyone under 25. And the reverse is true for pretty much anyone over 30. I use this as my guide. Older=generally calling is a better idea. Younger=generally texting is a…
/r/seduction07/12/13 07:10 PM
1

Don't text her the next day. That just reeks of desperation. Hit her up during the next week about something going on that weekend that you are going to (party, sporting event, whatever) and see if she wants to go. Then escalate from there.
/r/seduction07/12/13 07:08 PM
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Disagree with most of the comments. It is not your responsibility to care about some random dude's feelings. That's his and his girlfriend's problem. Proceed with flirting, kino, escalation like you would any other chick. If she mentions her boyfriend, just play it off, laugh, and move on with your escalation.
/r/seduction07/12/13 07:03 PM
3

Stop telling bad jokes? Seems obvious, but if your audience isn't laughing it's not working. You need some self awareness here. Know your audience.
/r/seduction07/12/13 05:39 AM
5

Live your own life. Be awesome. If she is jealous of that, she'll come back. If not, her loss.
/r/seduction07/12/13 05:36 AM
2

You have to practice. It doesn't just come to you instantly. Did MJ become so good at basketball by trying once? Uhhh, no. Keep practicing man. It sounds like you had ONE girl give you HER number, were your usual self and are now giving up. Don't give up! This takes practice, just like anything else in this world.
/r/seduction07/12/13 05:35 AM
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Make some friends. Seriously. Going out by yourself is weird.
/r/seduction07/12/13 05:33 AM
1

Confidence. This is the biggest one IMO. Practice and fake it until you make it. Confidence is huge and cannot be understated. Also, use the obvious ones if you are going out/drinking. If you're going to bars or clubs, drink some alcohol and energy drinks with some music going. Never fails to get me going
/r/seduction06/12/13 04:49 AM
1

I'm more concerned about getting with that kind of volatile girl (one that might have been raped, still loved her rapist bf, kissed you while crying about it, etc.). If that kind of shit happened when you barely knew her, just wait for the kind of shenanigans that might happen if you get involved with her. Keeping HER in the friendzone is probably a good idea. See if you can get to know her friends for sure.
/r/seduction06/12/13 04:45 AM
1

Continue living your life. You are not there as her therapist or buddy to chat with when she is bored. I've had plenty of girls like this. Continue living your life and if you have some time here and there, you can reply briefly (and keep your texts brief as well). Be your usual alpha/funny/cocky self, but texting is not chat time. Save it for in person. You can respond a few times, but if it's any more than that or she is texting you all day, stop responding at some point. If she freaks out or …
/r/seduction06/12/13 04:42 AM
1

While it is a unique situation, the point HappyJerk is trying to make is that you should almost never be a therapist to women. That is the quickest route to the friendzone. Also, yeah, bring it up in your conversation. You're sure to have plenty of time and conversation to ask.
/r/seduction06/12/13 04:36 AM
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Without sounding like a douche here, I wouldn't get involved with a girl that was supposedly date raped by her BF that she still loved, cried about it to you and kissed you and may or may not still be with him. Huge red flags go up about all of this to me. Just a really weird situation and not something that I would get involved with TBH. About Facebook: I really don't advise being one of those people without a Facebook. I know people like you and they are always disconnected from what is going …
/r/seduction06/12/13 04:34 AM
1

Step 1: You are not a boring person. Saying that in your title fails yourself. You need to practice your social skills. Begin with small talk with strangers. Work your way up. Read the FAQ in this sub and posts here. It has a ton of good information for improving your social skills
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:33 AM
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Regarding her BF status, get on FB. Why are you not on Facebook? This is absolutely vital information to know how to base your approach. Not being on FB is basically putting yourself on a knowledge island. Also, how much of a "date" is this? Did you invite her? She invite you? Small group? Big group? Picking her up? Etc.
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:30 AM
9

Love? What. This is just playful flirting you weirdo
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:22 AM
2

Start small. Achieve little things. Slowly build on this an achieve bigger and bigger goals. It will make you very happy and change this mindset.
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:19 AM
1

Viagra? This is a weird question. Sound like one you should ask your doctor instead of reddit
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:18 AM
1

This question has zero background to it. We can't give you a good answer to these vague questions
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:16 AM
1

Use the 3 second rule. Just count to 3 and do it! Every. Single. Time.
/r/seduction04/12/13 08:36 AM
2

I agree with number 2 and it's a good way to escalate. A good routine would be: 1) Arrive at bar and meet hot girl and begin escalating 2) Ask her to go to another close by bar with you and your crew (not threatening or creepy at all, but still escalates and isolates a bit) 3) Invite her back to the after party at your house for some beer pong or whatever it is she likes. Make it clear your entire crew is going there, guys and girls. This further escalates and isolates. At this point, you have b…
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:57 PM
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Seriously. Do it. If you need any help, let me know. Never again in your entire life will you be in such a perfect situation for getting women. BONUS: They are all young and in their prime as well
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:54 PM
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1) If she is being an asshole, surely, stand up for yourself. But don't make a scene. Don't make it anything that would make you look bad. Try to deal with it later if possible. 2) Agreed here 3 and 4) - most of what you are saying here is true in a traditional sense and in your normal dealing with her. What we are saying, is that it changes slightly when around her family or friends. You need to impress them. Period. You can't have them in her ear constantly about how much of a terrible person …
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:11 PM
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Obviously, put your self first. I agree with that. I am not saying to go out of your way to make sure they like you. I am just saying that when you are around her friends and family, make sure you do your best to impress them. Don't say negative shit around them or make yourself look like a douche. If you have something really negative you have to say to her, hold it until later. Otherwise, they will be in her ear about it later. I sort of disagree with the Dad BF analogy. She is liking you ther…
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:07 PM
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Just completely ignoring it and moving on is the best option. She may text you later or run into you later and be super apologetic. If this happens, just tease her about it, but act like you weren't that upset about it. Don't let her know that it really upset you.
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:26 AM
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Just stop. The hardest part about texting is waiting. Keep it brief. Be cocky/funny/alpha. Use it very briefly and to plan logistics. That's it. You're not her emotional playtoy
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:24 AM
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This. Double wrap it my friend
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 07:17 AM
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Usually girls don't truly like a beta. They'll put up with him, but they don't truly respect him. Also, play the odds. 95% of women prefer an alpha and a lot of others claim they don't, only because they got stuck with a beta. I'll take my chances being an alpha
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 07:16 AM
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So underrated. Chicks always have their friends and family in their ears about the dudes they are seeing. They have a huge influence on them
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:11 AM
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Keep it brief. Texting is not reddit. Texting is not writing a novel. Be cocky, funny, use it for logistics and not much else.
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:09 AM
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Depends. Do you normally communicate through this medium? If so, go for it. Otherwise, texting and phone calls are usually preferable.
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:08 AM
1

Clarify where you are gaming them. Are you gaming them in person but you secretly know they are in a relationship because of FB? Or are you trying to game them on FB while they are "in a relationship"?
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:06 AM
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This. You explain this in words much better than I can
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:04 AM
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How sure are you of this? Seems like it could be a solid shit test to me. Could be her tongue, another body part that looks like a vag, etc. She is likely just shit testing you to see how you would respond to a chick snapping you her vag. Just ignore it completely. Act like it never happened. If she brings it up, make a joke out of it.
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:03 AM
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SnapSave or Phantom on jailbreak is a huge help - FYI others and in the future OP
/r/seduction03/12/13 07:01 AM
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Agreed with this. 95% of the time when the girl tries it, it is the fat chick she is trying to set you up with or a chick that is obviously single for a good reason. When a guy tries it, the girl is almost always very attractive.
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:58 AM
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Depends on what type of "friend" this girl is. TBH, unless she is super cool, in my experience, most chicks aren't down to set you up with their friends, despite what they might say. They generally consider you their property almost, even if they are just your friend, and don't like giving you out to their other friends. Just ask your friend to invite her to something you are all doing and then do the rest of the work yourself. That is usually your best approach IMO but it depends on what type o…
/r/seduction03/12/13 06:03 AM
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Seems pretty clear she's into you. I wouldn't text her in the morning though. If anything, wait until tomorrow night. If she complains or asks why just say you were busy with [insert something important here].
/r/seduction03/12/13 05:28 AM
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I don't mean to brag, but I was a MASTER of college game. I really wish I was still in college. I graduated 2 years ago but man, complete gold mine. Go nuts. Regarding your 3 questions: Why are you going to clubs where people grind and what not if you want to talk to a girl and not dance with random sluts? Try going to a regular bar then Find a way to get her back there. There are sooo many good ones. By far the ones that worked the best for me in college were because I would always have the pre…
/r/seduction03/12/13 05:26 AM
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Sounds like she was flirting with you pretty hard IMO. What was the situation? Make her laugh again and see what happens. Try to escalate it
/r/seduction03/12/13 05:12 AM
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Escalate and flirt with her prior. Tease her, joke with her, etc. Then you should know clearly if she is into you or not. It sounds like she is IMO, but flirt with her more. Then when a situation comes up like this, it is easy. In this situation I would have: Grabbed the biggest blanket I could find and thrown it over both of you. Then if she got close like that, just grab her hand, cuddle her or whatever. Also, girls aren't stupid. Even 19 year old chicks. They know if they are that close to yo…
/r/seduction03/12/13 05:08 AM
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This is generally the advice because 95% of guys fall into the category of the exact same shit. Nothing has changed and neither has her attraction to you.
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:58 AM
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I don't think a second try is out of the question. Repeated tries with the same results are out of the question. Only in special circumstances should you try again. Have you made huge strides in yourself or your game to make yourself MORE attractive. If so, go for it. If you just come back with the exact same shit, she still won't be attracted to you, just like before, and you are just wasting time and destroying your self confidence.
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:57 AM
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You can use both. Use solid eye contact when you are having conversation or are about to. Use cat-string theory in between or when you are making her seek your attention.
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:50 AM
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Depends. Anything by itself doesn't tell you a ton. You need to expand on the situation a lot more. Give us more details and the background. If this is the only detail, I would assume she is into you, but she could also be a really good friend, really comfortable etc. More details
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:49 AM
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Do you need a very obviously feminine soap/shampoo? Just keep a standard unisex shampoo/soap that smells good. Could even have a womanly smell to it. Then there will be no questions, she can wash, and she'll smell good for you.
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:47 AM
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Confidence. Can't overstate this enough. How do you get confidence? 1) Practice 2) Be confident in yourself: A) Be confident in your body B) Be confident in your appearance/fashion 3) Fake it until you make it 4) Practice, practice, practice
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:45 AM
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Not only that, and most guys don't realize this, but a girl's friends and family are a HUGE influence on her life. Impressing her friends and family will make her like you more. Honestly, you can't overemphasize this. Winning with her friends and family is huge. They have a HUGE influence on her opinion of you. If all her friends love you, and she doesn't, she will still like you. If all her friends love you and so does she, your value goes up even more. I've seen instances where a girl breaks u…
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:41 AM
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Depends on the age range TBH. Generally I use this: Older: Call Younger: Text TBH, young people find calling often too forward and weird. You're very likely to just have them not answer and let it go to voicemail. Older people are Generally the opposite and prefer phonecalls over texts.
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:35 AM
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You are starting to get it.. You only live once. Who are you living for? Yourself or random chick's opinions?
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:34 AM
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See my above comment. You don't need to go into details. You are the one in charge here and YOU are the one steering the conversation. Give her a brief description that sounds great "PhD Fellow" and leave it at that. Then joke with her about the details. Will make her laugh instead of boring her
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:30 AM
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I wouldn't say you're boring or ever put yourself down TBH
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:29 AM
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I don't think you are seeing this correctly. You are a PHD FELLOW. Emphasize that. Girls dig smart guys. Seriously. You don't have to explain it to them and bore them to death. In fact, it sounds like that is where you are failing. It's not your job that is at fault here. It is how YOU are explaining the details to them. Here is my advice: Just say "I'm a PhD fellow". And when they inevitably ask for more details, just say something cocky/clever/funny without delving into details about what you …
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:28 AM
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Great way to look at it. I've was in somewhat similar shoes 5 years ago (but no kids), and I look back like I must have been insane for even contemplating letting her back in my life or wasting any time on her at all. For what it's worth, once I got back in the game, I absolutely killed it. Had some of the best experiences of my life and am still having them. No doubt you'll be the same. Also, thanks for the gold sir! First time getting reddit gold; really appreciate it!
/r/seduction03/12/13 04:16 AM
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Wow. That's shitty man. Good thing you dumped her ass. Keep to your guns. You don't want that kind of person in your life. Also, sounds like you are way higher value and can do better but I think you know that. Now go kill it!
/r/seduction03/12/13 02:50 AM
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Sure. Shows you as pathetic IMO. Constantly removing people that you get in petty fights with or next, is childish IMO. It shows that you care a ton, regardless of if you really do or not. TRP/Alpha would be to just not give a fuck Shows you are so mad about her that you will delete her from your social media accounts Makes you look childish to everyone else that notices this (not just you and her) It is far more effective to just ignore her. Removing her accounts is showing that you do indeed c…
/r/askTRP02/12/13 08:13 PM
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Agreed. This is a very good response
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:37 PM
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I completely disagree with this. It shows you as the needy, desperate one who goes to the length of removing her from all your accounts, etc. Just move the fuck on and ignore it. If you can't mentally stand to have her there, hide all her updates so you never see anything from her. If she sees your updates and shit, so what? She gets to see how awesome you are and what she missed out on. I have seen many real life examples of this and the girls always laugh and gossip about how someone removed t…
/r/askTRP02/12/13 06:31 PM
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Just send her a snap of whatever like you would anyone else. Give it a few tries and see if she ever reciprocates. This is a pretty innocent thing that a lot of people send to everyone. So it could be pretty meaningless, but if she responds back, you have a good in. Ideally, you would run into her at a bar/club/concert/show/whatever and reinitiate from there.
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:57 AM
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This. Texting isn't for storytelling or long messages. Keep it short and based on logistics and be cocky/funny. Otherwise, don't text her. Just wait until you see her in person. Save it. Waiting is the hardest part about text game.
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:47 AM
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Fake it until you make it. Kissless virgin? 40 year old virgin? So? Who cares. It's what you act like that matters. Act like someone that has been there and done that. The chick is going to have no clue that you are a kissless virgin, trust me.
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:45 AM
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Uhm, work on these things? None of these things are a genetic death sentence. They are all things that you can change. No offense, but you sound just resigned to failure. Get a part time job to get a little bit of money. Buy a cheap car so you can get around. Have enough cash for a little spending money and a decent wardrobe. This is all doable as many people have done it. Good luck man!
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:42 AM
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Desperate/creepy. Not to mention this kind of thing can very often be a fake profile. If you -really- want to, maybe do your homework and see if you can hang out at a same party or the same event and see if you can get introduced to her naturally that way. Otherwise, don't bother.
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:40 AM
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The game doesn't just end IMO. "The game" is played throughout your entire life. I'm not suggesting cheesy lines and tactics should be used throughout your entire relationship, but you need to keep romancing her and keep her wanting you. If you just turn over into a complete beta, what women is going to really want you over an alpha? Not many. So while you should perhaps lower your game when in a LTR, don't ever eliminate it
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:37 AM
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Should have done it back then. The big mistake was obviously waiting. Snapchats can be used pretty widely as in, people often send them to their entire list. Maybe try initiating something that way? Otherwise, running into her in person would be the perfect way to re-initiate. I'm not suggesting you stalk her, but if you happen to run into her at a party, concert, sporting event, etc, that would be ideal I don't think texting/calling her is the way to go. Too creepy after too much time has passe…
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:32 AM
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Cut her off. Let her vent for a bit and then quickly change the subject. If you have to joke with her/lightly tease her or be cocky/funny, do it. Make it known that you aren't down to hear her rants or problems constantly by taking control of the conversation. As soon as she realizes that you are okay with her ranting, you will quickly become someone she rants to and you are then on the fast track to the friendzone
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:25 AM
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Also, just for fun, read this article from The Onion http://www.theonion.com/articles/but-if-we-started-dating-it-would-ruin-our-friends,11473/. So funny yet soo true
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:31 AM
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This is wrong. She clearly friendzoned you and you went along with it, pushing yourself further in the friendzone. NEVER get in the friendzone. If you REALLY want to attempt to get out (and honestly, it's not worth it and I doubt she will ever see you as more in the long run), start treating her like someone you are interested in and NOT a friend. Don't respond to her talk of other dudes and other bullshit that is friendzoning you. Start acting cocky/funny/flirty with her ASAP and start escalati…
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:29 AM
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No offense man, but read up. A lot of what you are saying is seduction 101. There are literally millions of chicks out there. You have what is known around here as a severe case of oneitis.
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:27 AM
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So you are basically saying you were friendzoned and want to get out? You want to know the best way to get out of the friend zone? Don't get in it
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:14 AM
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Bostonsboy306 nailed it. Just ignore her. No need to delete her from FB and all that nonsense. It just makes you look needy, desperate and pathetic. Just ignore her and give her very little attention unless you she is clearly booty calling you late at night.
/r/askTRP02/12/13 01:51 AM
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Classic shit test. Women do this shit all the time. Just let it go and wait for her to contact you. If you do contact her, keep it brief, be cocky/funny. Whatever you do, do not send her big long texts and have important conversations or act super needy and ask why you aren't texting
/r/seduction02/12/13 01:33 AM
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Ignore it. Classic oneitis. If she likes you as much as you said she did, she will get in contact with you again. If not, keep dating other chicks. Who knows, maybe you will have a similiar situation (or even better) with a new chick
/r/seduction02/12/13 01:31 AM
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Agree completely. Sounds like you handled it well. I would just act like nothing happened and it doesn't embarrass you at all. Sounds like it might still workout well. Get with those other chicks and use those connections.
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:58 PM
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Keep being sarcastic. Reply with an even more sarcastic comment if you are indeed being sarcastic. If you're not, reply with something with more of a serious tone.
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:55 PM
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No. If anything, it has enlightened me even more to the game being played around me. I don't have to play it, sure, but then I will just become a pawn to the game being played around me. I would prefer to be a master of that game.
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:53 PM
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As far as I see it, you've ended it and made yourself clear. Now just move on. I don't even see a reason to meet up with her in person TBH.
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:49 PM
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You are way overthinking this and freaking yourself out. Maybe she is playing games or maybe she is just busy with her family. Either way, ignore it. Act like she isn't and just be yourself. However, STOP responding with huge long paragraphs and worrying about it. Make it more brief. Make HER the one that is worrying about you, not the other way around. Sounds almost like you are giving her too much control/power. It should be the other way around
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:40 PM
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I think there is a fine line with being touchy. However, I think where it is drawn is based on attraction. If a girl is clearly into you, -She wants you to be more physical.- I try to keep this in mind whenever I am in a similar situation as you.
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:35 PM
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I don't necessarily mean to protect her from him, but from everyone. Surely there was a large crowd, etc. Lead her through the crowd. Make sure she doesn't get lost, trapped, can see well, etc. Sounds almost cheesy but there is something almost biological about this that girls will appreciate. I've been in a similar situation and been told a few times how "safe" or "comfortable" I made them feel. Sounds like she very clearly wanted you and even gave you second chances, but you blew it like you s…
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:31 PM
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I'll look into it. Thanks
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:17 PM
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I agree. I'm not saying to -ONLY- focus on the things you admire in a woman, but that there are qualities in just about every woman that you can like and admire. Stop looking for a girl that is "perfect" in every aspect and start practicing getting laid with ones that do have a lot of good qualities. The better you get at this, the easier it will be to get those "perfect" girls when they do come around. And who knows, in the process one of those girls that has a lot of good qualities could becom…
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:16 PM
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I don't like either response. Just brush it off and/or make her laugh but don't sound like a complete asshole either. Try to bring up something you had previously discussed. For example, if she accused you of being a player or worried that you will get with other girls while she is away, just say "Nah, I'll be too busy with alll those other girls ;)". Or something cocky/funny along the same lines. Whatever you do, DO NOT: *Be beta and pathetic and say yess!! i'll miss you so much! blah blah
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:14 PM
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I wouldn't advise it. Maybe once or twice prior to your date. Make her laugh, confirm details, etc. No need to try and have some long awkward conversation prior to your first date
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:09 PM
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Disagree. This is super lame and something every guy seems to do but doesn't work well for text game at all. What is she going to say? Be funny, cocky, alpha. If you have to text her, joke with her briefly. Don't be lame and try to start awkward conversation pre-date
/r/seduction01/12/13 11:08 PM
2

Thanks man. Good to see a fellow Utahn as well
/r/seduction01/12/13 10:17 PM
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It seems like you have a pretty good grasp on what you did wrong and what you should do better next time. The work goes in before that moment when you should kiss her. You should have escalated to the point where she is expecting it and really wanting it and then you just have to go for it. When you're flirting close, just tell her to "come here" and pull her in and kiss her, but you need to get her to this point. Escalate the flirting more. Also, if you don't have a lot of openings for close to…
/r/seduction01/12/13 10:14 PM
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I think you know your main problem. She gave you more than enough opportunities and you didn't take them. Grab your peaches and take them next time. I don't think you need to become a "touchy" person to be successful. You just need to be able to escalate physically and it sounds like you are failing at this step. How are you flirting with her exactly? When are you failing? Are you getting to the point where you should kiss her and you're not exactly sure how? At what point are you failing exactl…
/r/seduction01/12/13 09:32 PM
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Sounds like OP had a one-night stand. What are you trying to do here? Wife up a one nighter?
/r/seduction01/12/13 09:18 PM
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It isn't putting yourself in the friend zone. You are escalating by getting her out of the school situation and into a more personal situation where you can escalate more and eventually get physical. Next her if she isn't responsive to any of this. Doesn't want to study outside of school or study at all. Isn't very responsive talking about stuff outside of studying etc.
/r/seduction01/12/13 08:27 PM
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Do whatever your favorite hobbies are. With that said, I used to game more when I was younger but I don't anymore because I have more responsibilities and put higher priority on my other hobbies that are more important like working out, partying, etc.
/r/seduction01/12/13 08:12 PM
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Just keep escalating. Escalating is key. If you are just making small talk with some chick, it won't be easy to get her back to your place. As far as your questions: *Tactics: games, things that you have talked about, things that your friends are doing, etc. Are you two really competitive about beer pong, darts or something? Invite her back to play some beer pong or darts then. She really likes Finding Nemo or your favorite movie/TV show too? What do you know, you have that at your place that yo…
/r/seduction01/12/13 08:09 PM
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Definitely disagree with this comment. Telling her how you feel right away without any escalation is a huge recipe for disaster. Shows tons of neediness/clinginess/beta and is very unattractive
/r/seduction01/12/13 08:03 PM
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This goes with what I was saying about escalating. Study together somewhere. Start somewhere pretty innocent. Library, coffee shop, etc. Make small talk and go from there. Proceed to studying at one of your places, etc. Once you are at one of these places, gradually make the conversation more about other things than just studying. Like your common interests outside of school. See if you can escalate and make a move there or if you should proceed slower. See if you are going to any of the same ev…
/r/seduction01/12/13 08:01 PM
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You need to ESCALATE. Now that you are acquaintances, escalate that. In class together? In a volunteer group together? Boom, you already have plenty in common. Make small talk with her. Make a joke about something in class or in your group. Have a project together? Similar assignments or terrible teacher? Talk about it. Escalate from there. Possible escalation points for you: 1) Homework - do it together, study together, etc. 2) Common interests - you are both in a volunteer group together. What…
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:59 PM
1

No offense, but stop taking advice from your mom. Girls don't generally give great seduction advice... especially your own mom. Also, you have a perfect intro. You think you might know her! So go say hi and say that! All you have to say is "hey, I'm accountsdown. You look very familiar. Where do I know you from!?". Then go from there. You will never go anywhere if you don't take step 1 and actually talk to them
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:55 PM
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She had sex with you the first time you hung out? Yes, she is clearly "talking" to other guys. You are getting clingy already
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:50 PM
1

It depends on what kind of dinner this is. If it is more casual, kino/escalation is easier. If it is more formal and quiet, it will be more difficult.
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:49 PM
1

Confidence
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:48 PM
1

+1 to what everyone else has said. Grins, half-smiles, smirks work better. Also, use them rarely and in the right situation. When you are flirting with a girl a lot or something, you can throw one in. Winking is just too cheesy. I only use it as a joke tbh, and usually with girls that I am very comfortable with.
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:46 PM
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You said it yourself. Escalate faster and don't let it fade! Why are these fading? Sounds like you have failed at some previous point and then are getting super desperate. That is the key. Don't let it fade. If it has faded a bit for some reason, be funny, be cocky, etc. Don't be desperate and beta with the long paragraphs, double texts, etc. Even guys can smell that kind of desperation from a mile away and it's not attractive to either sex
/r/seduction01/12/13 08:49 AM
2

Real clever buddy. Go write me a novel
/r/seduction01/12/13 08:42 AM
1

When she does this just joke with her and say she is the one with dirty intentions. You just want some food
/r/seduction01/12/13 07:11 AM
0

This.
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:37 AM
1

Uh, this is a really broad question. At what phase is she "into you"? Be more specific.
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:34 AM
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Is this a troll post? If not, aim your sights higher. Go for 8s instead of 7s, 10s instead of 9s, etc. Surely there is not a girl that doesn't do it for you. Aim higher
/r/seduction01/12/13 06:32 AM
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TL;DR. Cliffs plz
/r/seduction01/12/13 05:14 AM
3

Sounds like you are being paranoid to me or you have some pretty odd friends. Or you are really desperate for friends? Just being honest here. In my group of friends, people tend to hook up with new people in the group fairly often, especially when alcohol and parties are involved. This seems pretty common to me and normal. Sounds like you are really desperate to keep them as friends and not screw anything up. Almost seems like you are treading too carefully. It's not like you are trying to bone…
/r/seduction01/12/13 05:07 AM
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How long are you waiting as "friends"? If this is only a short time period, you should still be good to go. You don't get immediately friendzoned. Girls you find attractive and that are attracted to you can move from being just "friends" or acquaintances to boning them pretty easily. Friend zone is generally more reserved for chicks that you have known for quite a long time, that are dating your guy friends, etc. Also, how are you interacting with these chicks? Do you see them at parties, anythi…
/r/seduction01/12/13 01:33 AM
1

Get to parties man!! GOLD MINE. Seriously. Hot young girls that want to get down. Oh, and while you are in the process, you can get drunk and have fun. Win win. Get to know some partiers or at least some party connections and go from there. Pretty soon you'll be introduced to even more parties, women, etc. They will eventually become your friends and you'll meet even more people and women.
/r/seduction01/12/13 01:28 AM
1

Why are you going out on your own? Your friends might not be good wingmen but it sounds like you have a decent amount of girl and guy friends. GO OUT WITH THEM! Seriously. It is soooo much easier to get girls when you are with a crew. Girls will see you as more desirable when you are with other chicks (regardless of if you are boning them or not) and you will generally have more fun. Also, read up and like anything, PRACTICE. You'll get the hang of it sooner than you think
/r/seduction01/12/13 01:24 AM
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I think the obvious answers to this one is to GO ON A DATE THAT YOU CAN ESCALATE AT! You are going to have a hard time no matter what when you are going shopping, to a museum, etc. Honestly, going on a date shopping sounds like you are her bitch and will more likely end in the friend zone instead of the fuck zone. Like wtf man? Come up with a little better dates. Get her over your place before or after and take it from there. Grab a drink before dinner or after or something. Take her to anything…
/r/seduction01/12/13 01:21 AM
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Not regarding the morals of this situation, but you are actually dead wrong on your "by law" part. A person can too consent when they are drunk "by law". As for morals, be drunker than her and don't fuck a girl that is too drunk. Pretty simple really. To OP: Developing a fuck buddy is basically having a one night stand, and then continuing it in the same way. As in, you only see each other to fuck. Sure there might be a little small talk and what not, but you fuck and that's it. Basically repeat…
/r/seduction01/12/13 01:15 AM
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Honestly, I would Google it or search this subreddit because it is way more in depth than I can type right now. A lot of it depends on age but assuming that you are a young person, host parties, be a fun person to hang out with, be someone that knows a lot of people. Not just girls, but guys as well. See what those with high social standing do well and use some of their techniques, etc.
/r/seduction01/12/13 12:54 AM
1

Interesting username..
/r/seduction30/11/13 08:11 AM
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Perfectionist or focusing on a single "perfect" girl syndrome. Look at the things you like and admire in a woman. Almost every girl has at least one quality that you should admire or like. Also, practice getting them all the way. The better you get at it, the easier it will be with those "perfect" girls that you may desire
/r/seduction29/11/13 10:17 PM
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Agreed that it sounds like you may be too needy. Also, this may sound lame but if your social standing is this low, UP YOUR SOCIAL STANDING. If you are a popular, likable guy, it will be much easier to get girls like this. Work on improving your social standing
/r/seduction29/11/13 10:13 PM
1

This is a super wide open question. Ask a more specific question that we can help you with
/r/seduction29/11/13 09:51 PM
2

Just ignore the no response. I would wait a week. You want her to initiate ideally and having her question if she pissed you off with her shenanigans last time would be good. Initiating again or texting her often just comes off as desperate and is not attractive
/r/seduction29/11/13 09:45 PM
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Yeah, will obviously have to play the situation. Some situations/women will be more open to this than others
/r/seduction29/11/13 09:32 PM
2

Seems like she has a bit of game herself. I would ignore the failed kiss and continue on with it. Ideally, she will get in contact with you to schedule your next meet up. If not, set something up in a week or two
/r/seduction29/11/13 09:26 PM
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Disagree. I find it very clever and I think most women will as well. Different from a cheesy pick up line IMO
/r/seduction29/11/13 09:25 PM
1

Agreed. He should have. He did leave though and not overstay which is good.
/r/seduction29/11/13 09:04 PM
2

I think you played everything pretty well, TBH. It sounds like she was messing with you a bit. Just curious, how hot is this girl on the 10 scale? As for your questions: 1) Yes, but I would wait a bit. Get her to question if you are still interested in her or not. Maybe wait a week or two, or better yet, wait and see if she tries to schedule something with you. 2) Completely ignore it 3) I would probably do a mix. Don't completely start over, for sure, but I wouldn't jump right into physical con…
/r/seduction29/11/13 09:01 PM
1

Confidence. Fake it until you make it. Never appear desperate. Appear like you've done this many, many times.
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:50 PM
2

I think this can verge on creepy for some women. Just "inviting her to get more comfy" without prior escalation or when the talk is dying down, is not a great idea IMO. IMO, you need to escalate to this point, not go from talk dying down to "getting more comfy".
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:49 PM
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I like this. Great idea. Shows tons of confidence/alpha. The girl will like it and it should have a very high success %
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:47 PM
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I disagree with this. Too much potential to end awkwardly. I prefer a much more alpha "come here", pull her in close and then kiss her.
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:46 PM
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Two main issues here. I've done this quite a few times and like to think I have some pretty tried and true methods. 1 = Flirting escalation 2 = Physical escalation (escalation to physical contact, kissing, etc.) 1. Flirting escalation - You need some strong flirting and there are many ways to do this depending on which situation you are in. Any form of alcohol is usually good. I also prefer anything competitive or any sort of game. Darts, beer pong, Mario Kart, anything competitive really. Just …
/r/seduction29/11/13 08:45 PM
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