Hey seddit i could use some help with my current situation. Alright so im 21 year old male attending school in PA. The semester had just ended and everyone went home from my apartment except for me and two of my housemates. So the week goes by until Thursday where im informed on of my other housemates is coming up with one of our mutual friends (more his friend than mine). Like any typical time some comes up we drink and bullshit and such, but as the night moves on i notice that our mutual friend is touching me and being alittle flirty. During the end one of our drinking games she asks if she wants to watch tv, which i knew was code for lets leave the large group so we can be alone together but the large group follows and we take things upstairs to my room. And success, however while we were laying there recovering she says something along the lines that his can only last the break which im perfectly okay with since long distance relationships arent my thing yet and this was clearly going to be a physical relationship. Flashforward to friday where i went home as did my housemate and the mutual friend, so were back at my housemates home drinking and stuff, i ask for a ride home from the mutual friend but when we get to where i live i dont ask if she wants to come in while getting out instead i wait like half an hour to text her "Yo did you wanna come in" to which she replies "if it hasnt been so late, but its like nearly three." So i cut my loses there on friday, now saturday same set up she gives me a ride home and i say nothing again i even had a back up line in case i didnt want to directly ask her if she wanted to come in but i choked. Now shes going away for christmas for a week and im overthinking things even more. Any advice or tips would be fantastic.