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[–]joshsway 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you are simply afraid of rejection and are rationalizing your fear. Just go for it instead of being afraid.
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Ask yourself how you feel about it. Be honest with yourself. In the future, act accordingly.
[–]Jigeddy 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
That's the thing, when I could make the move I say to myself that I'm not interested, but afterwards I think different.
[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Okay, it sounds like you realize where your fault is. When you look at her, ask yourself how you feel about her. Again, be honest, but also be open with yourself. You'll be amazed how well this works.
I've made the same mistake. A lot of times it seemed like a girl's behavior was what was causing me to be turned off. In reality, I was just rationalizing to compensate for the intimidation of her beauty and my fear of rejection. Accept that the anxiety exists, brush it off like a vulnerable, yet dominant man and approach.
[–]Jigeddy 2 points3 points4 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sounds like a good advice. Will try to remember this for the future! Thanks mate ;)
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