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[–]U4eYeah 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Have you tried the book store. I come across some of my best opportunities at the Barnes & Noble Bookseller cafes in my area.
I recommend setting up your laptop and hanging out for a few hours. Order a few lattes or teas while your there so you don't look weird. wait until a lady sits near you and say: "I could really use a break.... what are you reading/working on?"
if you get shot down no big deal sit back down and try again with some one else after she leaves... do this a few times a week over the course of a few weeks and worst case scenario you end up with a few on the spot dates... maybe a phone number or two.
Good luck
[–]DavidGolani11 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
you're 34 and a virgin, you're hot property for single women in your age range, disease free. Find the local older folks club, they do exist. I've been to a club that everybody there was at least 40-50+ A very different environment indeed, everybody is far more mature and talkative.
[–]CK1-1984 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is pretty depressing, but I appreciate your honesty... I'm not expecting to date a 21-year old, but I never really thought I'd need to consider women aged 40 - 50+! I find most women over 30 are settled down in long term relationships, so I try to focus on the 25-30 age group!
However, as I said above, I'm willing to try anything at this stage, so I probably need to consider older clubs!
[–]Twobithatter 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
you ever try a dating website?? I feel that they work more for older gents who don't have a social circle.
[–]CK1-1984 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, I've never tried a dating website, but I'm willing to try anything at this stage... what dating websites would you recommend?
[–]Twobithatter 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've honestly never tried a dating website, sorry
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