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SublimeScholar · 2018-01-09T04:23:23+00:00

Sounds like you have sexual anxiety. Perfectly normal. You just have to slow down and not let yourself get too excited. Alcohol can makes getting a boner more difficult too, keep that in mind.

Logistics of going back to her place- be honest about living an hour away. If you’ve been making out and she wants to have sex with you, she’ll let you come over. If you both live far away... rough, but it might work.

Also, some women get off on the idea of taking a guy’s virginity. My first did. I hooked up with her several times before fucking her; I was “picky” since I wanted my first time to be good. She was understanding, and, well, really wanted my virginity. I’m glad I had sex with a woman I was comfortable with, had no problem getting it up, felt more connected to her.

Sounds like you’re doing well. Good luck, but I don’t think you’ll need it.

TSLOMF · 2018-01-09T17:25:44+00:00

First off, if you can get a girl to kiss you then you’re halfway there. You just have to seal the deal.

Now, let’s be real here: there’s no magic words that you could say to a girl to get her to your place or you to Hers, it’s really the confidence you convey when it’s time to close out the convo.

I’ve noticed that When I get close to sealing the deal, my confidence boosts. When your confidence boosts, you can say anything and it’ll sound sexy (ok not ANYTHING but you get the gist). True, logistics aren’t in your favor, so that’s why your confidence would shine in this situation. Don’t ask but assume in your mind that this is gonna get shifted to her place since your place is farther than what you’d both want to drive if her place is indeed closer. The words will naturally follow if you have the conviction to back it up 🤷🏿‍♂️ with a little practice you’ll pin it down in no time! Keep going!

2018-01-09T08:00:53+00:00

A kiss is not a close as you have found out, so quit thinking that you have "sealed the deal" with merely a phone number or a kiss.

Did you get to know the girl, can you even remember anything of what she said in your convo? Did you even care? It sounds like you're too stuck in your own head and can't come out.

A man that can "perform on cue" in the bedroom is a man that can get into "guy mode" on demand and forget about all his insecurities and focus on the serious business of lovemaking.

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