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jordan23042000 · 2018-08-30T07:19:40+00:00

Dont think twice about it. Dont message, game others. If she hits you up go out, always be closing

NeverLace · 2018-08-30T20:18:03+00:00

Conversation went on about 3-4 days

Then, I got my chance and I told her she was beautiful and so I asked her out.

Thats where you fucked up. You entered her frame by giving her validation. She got what she wanted from you. Now you're not that special anymore. That's why she was all over you in the beggining. But you probably showed too much interest for her. That plus the fact that you gave her a cheese compliment made her lose the tingles for you. What I would have done is not to complement her at all, and use as little contact as possible to set up a date. I'd go no contact for a while. If she comes back, go little contact, as for date. If she says no you never contact her again unless she askes you out.

T2271997 · 2018-09-01T07:15:03+00:00

UPDATE. She was just busy. she later messaged she wanted to hang out but must study and have interviews. Friends of hers also told me about her. We'll see what happens. Won't make the same mistake, I'll keep it cool.

One_Insanity · 2018-08-30T10:23:19+00:00

Jordan's got the right idea.

Don't try to understand women when you stand nothing to gain from it and the odds of you actually understanding them are low. As is this case.

If she hits you up, cool. If she doesn't, cool.

I also wouldn't tell girls they're beautiful, they know. It makes you blend in with the other dudes. And as much as we'd like to believe, no matter how into us they may be, it won't be special for them.

Girls feed off of it like a pigeon pecking a button for some corn. She can peck your button all she wants but don't give her that corn.

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