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[–]Seddit_Only 57 points58 points59 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've read tons if post about conversations. This one actually says something different, and can be useful. Thanks!
[–]BonvivantNamedDom 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And, did they help you? Did you change your conversational behaviour?
[–]Seddit_Only 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Indeed they did.
[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Clear and concise points made... this actually helps, even in regular conversations. I would wnst more examples on point one if possible; just general ones.
[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Now this is a good post, straight to the point and actually had new ideas.
[–]eric_shen 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Who are you man you've been posting solid content for like weeks now
[–]BonvivantNamedDom 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How do you work on vocal projection? I know that is one of my sticky points, but I can't try around and see the reactions, cause I dont even know how to say things differently? I am not talking monotone.
[–]Ezarra 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bookmarked this, thank you very much. I've been trying to figure out how some people can allow for silence. I always feel like o have to fill every moment with conversation but I've seen people in the past so comfortable with each other that they talk for hours but leave moments of silence in between. I've been trying to get to that point for awhile.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reason 6) she met someone else
[–]wickedsur 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good job,
One thing I do to avoid the boring essence is to be daring. I usually go out to dance which facilitates this for me, but lately I've been doing out outside of the dance floor. If I sense welcoming behavior on their body language, I smile, get close and touch their shoulder or hand. They find that extremely bold and interesting. Last week I was pulling a lady towards my body and she immediately put her phone away and gave me all her attention. My friend tried some of my principles and almost got slapped. I think we cannot fake confidence it has to be real and when we own who we are, the boring will go out the window and we will become much more interesting.
[–]TheJoeyJoeJoe 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok ok ok, if there's one thing I've learned about Reddit, it's that you get downvoted to fuck for linking to any website that isn't Reddit. But I count like half a dozen commenters who have asked for tips on how to be a more engaging speaker. So here goes...
Here's a video that my business partner and I made called The Epic Story-Telling Challenge. It features everything we know about how to speak in a way that makes people want to fucking listen.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good advice, something I’ve been doing for years to be interesting
[–]McFlurry6 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
here's ur internet point.
[–]someone0794 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Im a number 5 no matter how interesting my stories are
Point 5 also applies to professional life. Working on having a vivid and warm voice can get you very far.
[–]vincent365 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How do I improve my speaking voice? I sometimes stutter and I feel like people aren't interested.
[–]Wickedflex 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Post got deleted. Anybody got a link?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Here you go.
[–]Wickedflex 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You must have a lot of time on your hands.
[–]BonvivantNamedDom 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Removed? Why?
[–]shaqalicious 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's a great life tip about leaving the present tense.
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