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[–]Jesus__Skywalker 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why are you trying to be concerned about her boyfriend when you aren't concerned at all? He isn't your problem he's your obstacle. Stop acting like you care about it. You don't. If she is showing you a lot of IOI then escalate flirting with her. Are you touching her while you talk? Touch her arm, hand, back. Just random touches, does she do it back? If she does, next time when you are isolated with her tell her that you're attracted to her. Be more direct than you feel comfortable with. You don't want it to be a gentle conversation, you want to knock her off balance a little bit. See what her reaction is to finding that out and you'll know if you can move forward.
[–]WhatsReddit123456 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Put the ball in her court. Tell her that you like her, but that you are not the type to mess with girls who are in relationships. Either she breaks up with her boyfriend which means she really likes you, or she stays with him and you just misunderstood her feelings for you.
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[–]WhatsReddit123456 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wait till she is single.
[–]Hazeleyedguy14 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Go date
[+]360dirtracer -8 points-7 points-6 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
So I (19M)was working with this girl (24F) a while back. She was funny as hell and I loved spending time just near her. There was just a real connection
Well come to find out she had 3 kids and she lived with her baby daddy. At first I just felt numb, I wasn't sure how to feel but like a brick wall it hit me. If he can't love her the way she wants then I will.
The 3 kids thing though that's another monster I've yet to tackle but my point is it doesn't matter who her dude is take that shit from him you obviously earned it
[–]Thugkale 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You will learn.
[–]360dirtracer 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You wanna explain a little? I can't really understand what 3 kids are like but if you wanna dish out some wisdom I'm listening.
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No it ain't don't fuck with another mans family. Shit is immoral. Don't blame the other guy when you're dead in a ditch.
[–]360dirtracer -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I didn't get to see the above comment but I agree and disagree. The alpha male in me gets up and beats on my chest when we fuck. At the same time he was damn near 40 and couldn't provide, if he could provide for her and the kids I wouldn't feel bad. However imho a real man loves a woman for who she is and not what baggage she brings along.
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