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[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
That right there is a blessing in disguise, you treat her as a friend and move the fuck on, seems like shes caring more baggage than meets the eyes. She is really nice though, so stay friends, but please for your own sake, don't attempt with this girl anymore, only friendship, try with another girl.
[–]RadiatedNut09 -4 points-3 points-2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Would you say its a bad idea to become friends and maybe down line see if it gains traction towards something more.
[–][deleted] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move on and don't attempt again, if the opportunity EVER comes back, you will know and she will sign
[–]Firelight-Firenight 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No.
Do not do this.
The unspoken expectation/desire is something they can pick up on and it feels super skeevy and disingenuous.
This is where the creepy “nice guy” vibes start. The “why wont she screw me, im such a nice guy” attitude starts. especially after an extended period of time where nothing happens.
Cut your losses and move on.
No, move on.
[–]joastislife 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Move on dude she isnt interested. Ive gotten hit with these paragraphs of doom and went for it. Unsuprisingly she wasnt interested.
[–]stonesixspeed 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get to know her more as friends and see where it goes. No point in rushing something if both people are not equally ready
[–]RadiatedNut09 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
See thats what I wanted to happen anyway. I asked her previously if she wanted to hang out some time nothing else. Like the day she sent me this I was going to ask her to go to the zoo. Cause that felt like a good place to feel her out and get to know her.
[–]NewGuy45247 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nah man, time to move on there are many more fish in the sea
[–]LobsterFarmerGiles 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd start texting at least 3 times a day everyday.
[–]FreeManagement 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's over, move on. she sees u as a "friend" and nothing more. she doesn't find you sexually appealing. at least she took the time to write a thoughtful message to let you down easy
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