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[–]drdavidbanner20 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
She agreed to a date, so there's at least some interest already.
How do I test the waters sexually when talking to her without coming across forward and/or creepy?
Furthermore, is it possible to get it on the first date
Sure. Just invite her over after the date. Plan your logistics beforehand.
or should I think in terms of several dates before thinking sexual?
If you don't ask on date one, ask her over for date two. I aim to have sex between dates 1-2, but will wait to date 3 if I like the girl and things are moving in that direction.
[–]jerrybobsmith42069 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Okay I will try some physical escalation, what are some good sex conversation starters? I’m sorry If This sounds stupid, I just have such little experience and was raised in a conservative Christian home that didn’t teach me these things.
Speaking of CC home, I actually still live at home. So sex at my place is a no go...it would have to be my car or her place depending on her living situation which i am not sure of yet.
[–]drdavidbanner20 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Start with talking about relationships and transition into talking about sex.
I actually still live at home.
It's gonna make it tougher, but not impossible. If you still want to try for the first date, just ask if she wants to go drive around. Have a spot in mind and go there. Park, chat, and make a move.
If you wait until the second date, just say something like "Let's do a movie at your place." If her place is a no-go, counter with the drive. Same thing as above.
[–]jerrybobsmith42069 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks! Would a “movie at your place” after coffee be too obvious? Or were you saying try that move and counter with a drive if it’s a no go?
[–]drdavidbanner20 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol you don't have to be covert about wanting to have sex with a woman. Women like to be desired tactfully.
Yeah, asking to do a movie after coffee is fine. She'll know what you're getting at and her answer will reflect this.
[–]bufz221 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Most women will have sex on the first 3 dates if they like the guy and there is no religious hang ups. Invite her back for a movie or something like that but whatever you do don’t expect sex or get mad if it doesn’t get that far. Just be causal
[–]jerrybobsmith42069 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thanks duly noted!
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Thanks for the tips. And I realize that, I was speaking in a general sense.
[–]mr_Tobbor -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
There is no other way to know if she is receptive for sex. Just one. Escalate, touch her, see her reaction. If she does not accept it forget it. She must accept your touching, your escalation, you kiss.
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