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fudgetablet · 2020-03-22T08:46:42+00:00

I think it's just luck. Luck that she is talkative and will actually contribute to the convo and come up with new topics, as well as luck that you have things in common and a similar sense of humour and stuff

With some girls, you open and before you know it you're in a super engaging convo and it keeps branching off into different subjects and you feel like it could go on forever, and with other girls, as soon as you've asked name, age, job, what you do for fun, it's like the convo has 100% ran dry and you're out of ideas. And she isn't helping either lol

JarsOfJewels · 2020-03-22T07:49:51+00:00

I have had this happen so many times. I’ve found what helps is finding a common ground or something that you’re both into and this can spark all sorts of new conversations.

Otherwise, I’ve found that just asking random questions helps to spark conversation. I think the most important thing is that the conversation is coming from both parties. I have met way too many girls who rely on the dude to make conversation. Good luck man!

maljo24 · 2020-03-22T09:27:21+00:00

Ask questions and her answers will generate more questions. Some people are easier to talk to than others. My wife does 99% of the talking so its easy.

jkgamez1566 · 2020-03-22T10:14:47+00:00

The problem is texting. U use up all ur conversation ammo on texting or calling, so when it comes to real life convos, u have nothing to talk about. Texting/calling should mostly be used for meet ups. You can introduce a topic on text but then expand on it when u talk to her irl.

BrexFlexx · 2020-03-22T12:54:47+00:00

You’re lucky you’ve met her in person. I won’t see a girl for at least 1 or 2 months now

depressed_potatobag · 2020-03-22T10:41:44+00:00

Ask about her hobbies. Her interests, like tv shows, music, favorite colors, dreams and career ambitions, fantasies ( not sexual tho. Reserve them for later ;) ). Maybe ask about her schooling, what cartoons she used to watch as a child or what books she used to read. Feel free to tell about your own tastes and maybe, share some relatable memes about the same topic. Atleast in my case, she liked memes. And everytime I pickup a good meme, she talks about it for about an hour or two. Yours might be different, but you got the point right ?

All this sounds stupid but actually works. Best way to keep the other person talking is to make them talk about themselves. But at the same time, respect their privacy and don't send riscy texts too soon. Take your time and strike when the time is ripe. ATB

ZidaneLoire · 2020-03-22T12:25:31+00:00

Go out with girls who you have stuff in common with?

If she can't keep up the conversation and you're the one who has to keep up with things to say, maybe you should just next her. It's not your job to provide entertainment. You're not her escort. Sometimes it's just not a good match, no matter how hot she is.

A great match would be not having enough time to tall about all the things you have to talk about.

writen_firmly_ · 2020-03-22T07:10:06+00:00

Start reading interesting literature, if you're into a book it gives you a ton to talk about.

quinnmcd · 2020-03-22T13:26:09+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like:

How do I approach?
How do I get a number?
How do I talk to girls at college?
How/When do I kiss a girl?
Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

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