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[–]WIA20XX 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Can you talk to random strangers and just shoot the shit? What's the last chat you had with someone you didn't know?
If you can't small talk with anyone, trying to pull girls is calculus before counting.
[–]generaldream 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I work in retail so I talk to people often but normally just say simple stuff like hi, how are you? Would you like any bags today so I mean I don’t really talk much just a little... I haven’t gone from small talk to what you might call “big talk” in a while.
It may also be that I don’t know what small talk is exactly I may be decent at it but i may have a different definition of it than you may have so what would you consider to be small talk?
[–]tr0930 6 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
What do you want - a long term relationship or just a same day lay?
Plot twist: the answer is the same regardless of what you want.
You have to approach without hesitation and make it sexual early on, otherwise you'll be seen as a timid guy who can't express what he wants.
None of these will help you during lockdown but here are a few of my successful approaches:
1) In London one September, near the river. It was a sunny day and I walked past a girl who gave me a couple second stare. She was hot with a camera, short denim shorts and she was much younger than me (she was 20, I was 35).
I can't even remember what I said but it was something like 'Hi, I'm James' and shook hands with her. I then said something like 'you look like a tourist', asked her about her camera and then said we should get a drink in the outdoor bar nearby.
The content of the conversation was irrelevant, it was all about the eye contact and the cheekiness. I bought her a beer but told her she had to buy the next one. She spent the next hour telling me her life story prompted by my questions, with me keeping it playful, teasing etc. I then moved venue to another bar nearby, by which time we were kissing and then she came back to my hotel room down the road, to "charge her phone". We had some fun that afternoon but no full sex. She was kissing me topless in my hotel bed around 1hr 30 mins after meeting me.
2) Similar place, A girl walked past me with headphones in but smiled so I turned and called her back, said something like 'you can't look at me like that without telling me your name'. Again, took her to a nearby bar, asked her about her life, teased her, we were making out within 30 mins, initiated by me but she was very keen. Was her last day in the country and she was staying far away so nothing else happened.
3) In another city, again made eye contact and just went over and introduced myself. She was on the way to a uni class so we arranged to meet at the same place in 2hrs. We did, got an ice cream, chatted about I can't remember what, and then within an hour we were actually f***ing in her city-centre apartment.
[–]AgreeableHelicopter2 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It seems you're slightly good at escalating but keep in mind. Just because all this happened fid you easily doesn't mean it could happen for OP. Your smv might he way higher than his. And the higher the smv the less game you need.
That's why I said in another post people have to stop giving automatic authority to these tall white/black dating coaches because they don't have any "real" game. Just looks and status.
[–]tr0930 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I get your point. I'm averagely good looking but very tall (6'4). I'm not muscular though.
I tend to only approach girls who give me an IOI like prolonged eye contact or a smile. I think this is a good tactic for beginners - as soon as you get eye contact, or double take, or she smiles at you, that is the time to approach.
Having said that, this is all pointless because you can't get closer than 2m to a stranger for the foreseeable future so the game has completely changed.
[–]catblack8008 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Must be following 1 ,2 rule
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