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[–]somedude9797 6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just knock on her door and ask her out
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ask her out next time you see her, you don’t need her to hold up sign saying “I’m interested” to ask her out if you are interested in her yourself. If she’s interested then she will say yes, as easy as that brother.
[–]lolopolo999 -3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hey bro , the thing is theres no such thing as asking out where i live. Its more on the lines of having a conversation and if you feel that she's into you ,you ask for her social / number, then ask her to hangout
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Out of curiosity, where is this place that doesn’t allow you to ask someone out?
[–]lolopolo999 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I live in asia bro, so yeah. You don't ask out for dates formally here
[–]s_k_gusani_arts 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She perhaps hoped you would. But as you did not approach her and kept delaying, she probably lost faith in you and your balls. Make a move or forget her
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I've experienced that with many girls. Although I haven't talked to any but I've seen the same pattern over and over.
My theory of that is once she's thrown many hints at you showing her interest while you don't do the next step. She ignores you, maybe because she thinks you're not interested and wants to remain in a defensive way as girls usually don't swallow rejection easily. In fact it's hardly in their dictionary.
[–]lolopolo999 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So do i just go ahead no eye contact?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not the best one to take advice from in this matter. Plus I'm a total freak, I'm experiencing the same thing as you with one neighbour. But my approach is eery. I will never ask a girl out. I'm just enjoying the back and forth of the situation. I wish the seduction moment never ends it establishes doubt, fear and pleasure in both sides. You can call it utopia from my side but that's what I enjoy doing.
If I were you I'll ignore her to death (don't do that). It's a burnt card for me. But try ignoring her for a few days and see what happens, girls usually would give you a last hint to see what do you still think of the entire situation
[–]Lycantree 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bro, if you feel she wants to talk to you or has some interest (even it is just friends) just talk to her or you will never know what she wants that is it.
Dont overthink make a move and if she shows interest you will keep in contact, if not well it wont be the first time.
[–]quinnmcd[M] 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]STD_Tyler 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
She figured out you are a pussy that doesn't have the balls to talk to her, so she felt disgusted and lost interest. If you are not planning to approach a girl right away DON'T exchange eye contact.
[–]lolopolo999 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Makes no sense since shes always on thw phone. What am i supposed to do grab it out of her hand? Lol at disgusted. Dont be so radical
[–]STD_Tyler 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes you can approach girls on the phone. If you have a strong presence she will put it down.
And let me repeat, if you keep checking a girl out for days without talking to her, it becomes creepy and disgusting. Like you have no dick. And this problem can be solved by lots of cold approaching, or not checking her out in the first place.
[–]lolopolo999 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
So what do i do now? Say a hi next time?
[–]STD_Tyler 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I don't want to disappoint you, but it is unrecoverable now.
You may try next time, "Hey there, I am your neighbour and It would be rude not to introduce myself"
[–]lolopolo999 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Will say hi next time i see her then
[–]mr_Tobbor -3 points-2 points-1 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't worth an answer. Open a book...
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