I'm hesitant on approaching because I dont know how to initiate a conversation. How do I fix that?

Slab2001 · 2021-03-13T18:17:00+00:00

Bro I won’t lie this tactic is 3/3 for me. When you get within like 10-feet of the girl, wave at her and then approach. It kills the awkwardness and gives her 3-5 seconds to be intrigued by you without even saying a word

Crypt0JAy · 2021-03-13T16:43:29+00:00

"Hey I'm Jay what's your name? ". Say it loud so she's actually hears you. Make sure they are standing still when approaching them. Otherwise use context , are you in line to pay something ? A brand she's wearing is a good convo point. Look her in the eyes and don't be scared of rejection. Why ? You don't know them !

ldc2626 · 2021-03-13T19:56:03+00:00

Theres no rules.

If you are confident and not saying something outrageous, it’ll be fine.

I have little experience publicly picking up but I do speak with randoms out of the blue. Women won’t psychoanalyze what you’re saying and have always been nice after my initial interaction

revente · 2021-03-13T16:52:35+00:00

Yeah, too formal and too indecisive. Go with "Hi my name is ...". It's important to break the touch barrier by shaking hands (may be hard thanks to covid tho).

viggerydoo · 2021-03-13T16:37:16+00:00

Yeah, you have to make it about her first. Something like "Hi, I just saw you walk by and thought you look nice so I had to come and say hello".

VFiorella · 2021-03-14T12:05:46+00:00

Mmmm, it’s not bad to ask what she is doing or look at what she’s doing before talk to her and then talk something related to that.

Title	I'm hesitant on approaching because I dont know how to initiate a conversation. How do I fix that?
Author	Taurusamazing92
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	March 13, 2021 3:31 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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