This post is about not giving women any false hopes. I am not that interested in having a girlfriend right now, but I would still want to be intimate with a girl without it getting in the way. I'm in my country's form of High School, to give you a sense.

Example: I'm making out with a girl when she says "[My Name]... Do you like me?" I'm put in the spot. Sure, I like her as a friend, but (due to her doing stupid stuff) I don't really consider her Girlfriendable. I can't Girlfriend a girl I don't take that seriously. Due to me being unable to answer that question in a good way, we broke off.

I want advice on how to avoid this scenario from happening again. Advice on how to project that aura of the kind of guy that women are intimate with but, when asked why, their answer is "it just happened". A lot of my game comes from my strong inner game. I'm gonna start with believing that I AM THAT GUY. But it would help if people could contribute with solid advice about this, and concrete examples of situations where this happened to them. Preferably by guys who are like this, who can explain more about the mindset that they have.

Thanks :)