indirect vs direct.

First things first, i gotta say i had a great response from my first reddit post. It didn’t even get that many up votes, but i was surprised by the email. So now, I wanted to mention a few special topics that i was going to address this one is about

the so called direct vs indirect.

some guys it seems in their post don’t understand the implications of direct or indirect game.. it usually happens when they’re out and about trying to recite the nights newest lines and instead they get little drunk and start approaching.

lets clear up the distinctions and hopefully the intelligent and seeking of you will begin to see more clearly. These are tools in your options.

i think something so simple yet again becomes entirely complicated, like running into a spider web becomes messier and messier as they try to peel it off.

the direct path is possible IF she is has the capable of reacting to that positively. The problem is you don’t know for sure, and you’ll get rejected trying to find out. She’ll let you know if she’s down to get fucked fast, whether your direct or not. If she’s horny, she’ll always let you know. From then on out you might just have to make a few jokes about eating pussy and you’ll both be surprised how fast you find yourself inside of her. The direct method is great and it’s fun, if and only if it works. Im not one of these guys that likes failure, or rationalizes it as “fun.” If you think failing is fun, wait until you start winning. You’re going to be like “wow, I thought i knew what fun was, but i didn’t have a fucking clue. lol

bc their method is without tact, and it is dependent upon the fact that leading up to you seeing her, something happened before hand. it could have been her thoughts, or something she saw, or a song that made her really horny. and you offer her some dick and then she’s about it. but its inefficient to search for it like that.

And this style only post pones you until she is hot and horny and If she also liked you and kept you around with the full realization that she was going to get horny later anyway.

What if you have no chance? what if your not the typical good looking guy she goes for?

the indirect path allows you to get information with which to build a strong case for yourself. lol you don’t tell her that you are looking for love, or marriage, or a girlfriend, or a fast fuckor even the answers to your homework. Why does she need to know and why do you have to have that agenda? Building is much more proactive. And with a more indirect approach you can build something with more height and volume and meaning.

Especially in a social network peer setting. in a club situation, you seem to lack an agenda when you’re already with other women. This might give her a moment to think about you, and she has questions, such as what its like to fuck you. Imagine that, she’s thinking about fucking before you do. And she’s thinking about doing it with you. giving her that space is part of understanding something most guys don’t understand, even if they come to forum to learn about it. its fucking crazy how people miss it.

if you have personal question and your looking for a deeper understanding you can email me at [email protected]

~Recipricating