DMing her on Insta first time

chakanakoya · 2020-07-30T05:08:47+00:00

If she didn’t follow you back I’d say it’s because she may not be interested and lots of guys are following her. I would say DM her a funny pick up line related to books or cooking or both. Catch her eye somehow and be creative. Something like “I see you can cook ______, what if I told you I could make it twice as good with one hand while reading (book you both like) in the other?”

mcbobcorn · 2020-07-30T08:21:45+00:00

I'm not good at seduction or anything, but I'm good at getting to know people. The first thing to note is that you do NOT DM her out of nowhere, because that makes it seem like you're just horny and they get creeped out.

What you do instead is keep looking at her story, and see if there is anything interesting. For example, she likes to cook right? Let's say she shows off a dish she makes on her story. You reply to that story asking how to make it. Just by doing this, you are able to have a conversation with her, not make your seductive intentions super clear, AND let her know that you have similar interests. Or, if she posts a story about a book she read and you recognize that book, maybe you can comment on that. She posts "Fault in Our Stars was so good!". You reply to her DM "Fault in Our Stars sucked". Boom, conversation.

Just note that you shouldn't really comment on her actual posts, only stories. Commenting on posts is usually reserved for close friends and other girls telling her how hot she is. Stick to stories, happy hunting

edbanger52 · 2020-07-30T05:19:07+00:00

Careful there champ. Don’t look thirsty.

ronnyDD · 2020-07-30T07:05:00+00:00

Take it slow, get to know her first. DM her for a reason, not just to chat or else you'll look desperate. If you dm her just to chat, you'll look like a boring person who has nothing else to do.

Citvej · 2020-07-30T08:54:33+00:00

Hey. I see you're a bit of a bookworm. Do you know any good books?

And later turn the conversation into cooking. Invite her to cook something together.

BAM.

Impossible-Lake-66 · 2020-07-30T12:33:25+00:00

You can give me her IG and I will fuck her for you brother

quinnmcd · 2020-07-30T13:27:12+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

A field report explains a lesson learned or demonstrates a Seduction concept.
If the point of this post is asking how to get that specific girl, it belongs in AskSeddit.

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STD_Tyler · 2020-07-30T05:38:33+00:00

You have some chance if you talk to her in person. The moment you DM her, chance drops to 0%. If you are really into her, forget the DM and talk to her in real life.

Think about it, if she is attractive, your DM will land in the sea of losers dms she receives on a daily basis. So she will perceive you as another one of these losers.

Title	DMing her on Insta first time
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Date	July 30, 2020 3:40 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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