There are some girls , usually they aren't very attractive , that have visible higher IQ than others .

I had an experience that I actually felt retarded when I was with her , that type of girl . I was mind blown . made me realize that I may not be in the best of circle of friends ( mostly it nerds ) . Made me look at most people as not worthy/interesting for my attention.

Before I ask the ask the question in the title , let me minimally share my objective (from my point of vew) short story.

I am a senior software dev , highly fit :) , happy with what I have on the material side of things and no goals. Her ux designer/project manager (1 year younger than me ,better looking than most really smart girls . My friends gave her a 6-7 from pictures , I give her a 10+ ) .

We meet on tinder and at first I was like a bit of an awkward rockstar (I was confident even though I was acting weird) , smoked weed and had sex on the first date. Then slowly started getting more needy and wussy, transitioned to only me going to her place like on a leash . The whole thing lasted 1 month. I didin't really speak very seriously with her (since I was always feeling bellow her intelligence) and I actually felt the day she sent me a message on facebook that it doesn't make sense .

I watched quite some Dan Bacon's videos , and from his videos i think he is the best at this "new game" , and not like the old 2008 PUA tricks.

I am interested in his materials "the Flow" and "get your ex back super system".. but I am not sure if they work on really smart girls , But because my feelings about this after watching dan bacon's videos is that it doesn't really matter how smart she is , the same rules Dan describes apply in relationship and dating with smart girls.

Do you think there are some differences in the methods/mindset to apply to really smart girls ? Also does anyone have Dan Bacon's books ?