I met this girl at a bar a month or so ago. Got her number after talking to her friend almost the entire time. She told me after how jealous she got from that. Which is really a great strategy that almost always works.

Since then we've been playing this game of cat and mouse. Admittedly I've been pretty needy and she's been shit testing me the whole time. Sometimes I pass sometimes I fail. I failed the most recent one.

We had an amazing time last time we hung out. We spent all day together. She slept over. Since then I've been playing koi.

She texted me Monday trying to hang out. I was busy and suggested today. She said "Not sure if I have work.. Ill let you know when I find out." I said okay. She texts me today saying "I'm working today and tomorrow and forever. I accidentally picked up way to many shifts at work." I respond with "Okay."

I realize now that was a shit test I failed. I made myself too available for her. I made her think she was more important than my free time. I put her on a pedestal, before my own needs. I can wait around for her forever. When she said "I'll let you know when I find out. I should have said "Hmm maybe another time would be better."

Not sure where to go from here. I guess just do my own thing and wait for her to come to me.

Be wary of this shit test tho. Don't yield to a wishy washy response. Your time is valuable.