Hi,

I believe that this book is the only thing you need to read about dating, as it explains everything logically and clearly.

However there are things that I dont understand or are contradictory:

The first half of the book is all about being invested more in yourself than the perception of others. But how can I achieve that?

The other thing is, your intention when speaking to women should come from a non-needy point, you shouldnt speak to her to get validation.

In the second chapter he describes more practical techniques, for example that its important to lead the women on the date, how to dress and body language etc. But isnt doing this just doing it for the sake of getting her to have sex, and furthermore gaining her validation?

Its really confusing for me, because the non neediness makes 100% sense to me.