Emotional Support

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-01-22T21:07:37+00:00

Just give a specific example. Cause now is just a word salad.

DaygameCode · 2025-01-22T21:54:24+00:00

You still need to learn that the difference between friend behavior and lover behavior lies in the sexual tension you create, and how you navigate it.

Friend behavior is comfortable, predictable, and often lacks the spark of flirtation or sensuality. It’s focused on support, shared interests, and a sense of security.

In contrast, lover behavior thrives on excitement, creating sexual tension, and romantic emotional depth. It involves:

Flirting and teasing: Lovers introduce playful tension through suggestive comments, confident eye contact, and physical proximity.

This is something that guys that stay as friends typically avoid because they don’t wanna make the girl uncomfortable or have her think they are being creepy.

Lovers don’t avoid making things tense, they understand that tension is a must, sometimes that tensión might be too much (coming in too strong) and more often than not it is too little.

Expressing desire: While friends may compliment each other, lovers show desire and how horny they make each other with an undertone of sexual attraction, like noticing how someone’s actions makes them feel in a sexual way . This doesn’t mean saying “you are giving me hardon” but soemthing like “yo girl, stop teasing me, you are too sexy when you smile at me like that” or “you are making my heart rate increase when you look at me like that”, or “i’m trying so hard not to kiss you right now”.

Physical escalation: Small, intentional touches—like holding and caressing her hands deliberately in an intimate obvious way, brushing against each other in a way that she knows it was deliberate, or biting your lips in a way that shows desire while looking into her lips woth a smile that generates tensión and makes her kinda nervous feeling “why is he looking at me like that”.

It’s about that, about building tensión.

Instead, you are doing everything possible to make sure she is comfortable with you, avoiding tensión at all cost, always acting like a friend she can feel completely comfortable at all times. It’s not your job to be her emotional support guy, that’s for friends, not for lovers. You need to create sexual tension and you are not even trying at all to create it, which leads her to think of you in a platonic way.

Title	Emotional Support
Author	No-Interest5076
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	January 22, 2025 9:03 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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