Escalating the conversation?

recyclablebanthas · 2016-09-03T09:02:00+00:00

......it's just the ones I do wanna pickup, I can't get the conversation where I want it.

Common misconception: you don't need to escalate the verbal conversation to some place "sexual."

Problem is, when I'm sober I can't fucking escalate the conversation.

What you are really having problems with is physically escalating. This is the essenrial part. You can talk about ordinary stuff all day long and it could be sexy because of your actions. So read up on kino guides and get to work being more comfortable getting closer to her and escalating through touch.

And the corollary to this is: all the seductive "words" in the world won't make a bit of difference if you can't walk the walk.

In fact, talking about sex, before you actually have it, can be one of the best ways to ensure you don't ever have sex with a girl. Unless you really know what you're doing.

You know what I'm talking about. Escalation. Going from the stupid top scraping small talk that pretty much everyone genuinely hates deep down to a more suggestive and seductive conversation.

This part is an issue with not really understanding "small talk."

It's. not. small. It's a gateway to deeper things. The problem is not that you ask a question like, "What are you studying?" Or "How was your day?" Or -insert "boring" question here-

The problem is one or both of the following issues:

You're not actively listening, you're waiting for your turn to talk.
You're not using the information being given and are instead moving on to the next "small talk" topic instead of going deeper.

Edit: added a bit specifically about kino. I can add more if requested.

Jideuism · 2016-09-03T00:55:00+00:00

I want answers too!!

Fkhx · 2016-09-03T05:41:46+00:00

Someone please answer

Dddbro · 2016-09-03T08:19:14+00:00

Ok. So I have some experience with this. I'm not saying this is what you should be doing, but maybe something along the lines? I don't know. Ok. So after the initial "Hi" and bs convos. At some point. You stop talking and just stare at her. Just stop dead and just look at her with intent and passion. She'll looked befuddled and flustered but stand your ground. When you feel that she's had enough.....take out your level 13 casting wand, and cast your 'charm' spell. Roll for 7s and if it comes up 'Boom!' Ladies and gentleman, you have yourself a date ;)

UPURS145 · 2016-09-03T09:07:00+00:00

Okay so two things before I start. I'm buzzed and I'm still fairly new to game, however I have read up on a couple of things on Kino and I have applied them during day game. First of all you want to introduce yourself. Go up to her and say "Hey how's it going, I'm Upurs145 and you are?" Or you go up to a group and say "Hi, I see that you guys are in group and I would love to get to know y'all. I'm Upurs145 and you all are?" Make sure you give them all a handshake, and ask them how they know each other. Next begin the Kino stage with the girl you are interested in. I usually do the old Style method of doing the cube on the girl. To get to know them and this builds Kino because I'm holding their hand. The girls often get impressed and I begin to raise my smv. After a while of talking about how they are feeling and building an emotional connection I begin to move into the putting my hand the girls lap stage. If they are into it they won't mind, because by this point you have developed that emotional bond. Over the course of the night you want to continue escalating to hand holding, moving her across the room, making out all the basic shit. Again I'm buzzed so if you have any questions ask me cause I can't really think right now.

Title	Escalating the conversation?
Author	theKoncept3
Upvotes	9
Comments	8
Date	September 2, 2016 11:22 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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