Lets help out our fellow brothers and demystify escalation and brainstorm with a simple traffic light analogy

Green=go ahead, speed up ie.Place your hands on her tits

Yellow=slow down ie. Moving your hand away but staying close

Red= stop ie. Moving away from your proximity, slapping your face. These ones are easy to recognise.

Examples of what to do when you get rejected would also be invaluable to everyone.

My hope is to be able to link this post to everyone that asks about escalation, in an easy to understand way