So today I was grinding with a girl in a bar/club (college town). She is grinding as hard as imaginable, basically twerking half the time. I, being someone who usually either waits too long to escalate aggressively enough, thought that escalating when she's being that physical would be the best time, so I just said "hey wanna get out of here?" And was met with a quick no. I presume that I tried to advance too quickly and probably should have asked if she wanted to go get a drink and talk, and/or tried to kiss her. From your experience, how do you recommend escalating when grinding w a girl?