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UberiDenari/r/seduction20/02/16 01:21 AM
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I always find posts like this weird. Since high school, my closest friends are a range of unattractive to average and never had a problem getting laid. I’m unattractive and never had a problem. When I first went on Reddit and saw how common it is for people like you to exist, I didn’t really get it. I think some people are just born losers with no social skills, and only a few are lucky enough to grow or are willing to put the hard work in rather than blame society. I guess you are neither, and …
/r/seduction20/08/19 01:12 PM
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If that was true I’d be fucked lol. They definitely help, but if you can’t succeed without them it’s you. There is not much else to it. A golden tongue is the greatest asset a man can have.
/r/seduction22/06/19 02:24 AM
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I've never heard someone call another person a "gamma", that's fucking hilarious. Is this a new weird red pill thing?
/r/seduction07/08/17 12:22 AM
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I actually wouldn't say this is true- there's been a recent rise since 2010 of beauty standards shifting towards androgynous looks. Almost all of the major models that are beloved by women have androgynous looks, pretty interesting development imo. Most likely OP is just socially awkward.
/r/seduction11/06/17 02:33 PM
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In that case, not trying to be rude, there's something wrong with your personality. Probably your insecurity, anyone can see someone who's insecure. Try to fix that.
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:40 PM
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I never seen a guy who's below 5'11" with a cute girl and even 5'11" is pushing it. Ok, then that means you're blind lol. My brother is shorter than you at 5'4 average looking and he gets girls hotter than mine. Walk around any city and you'll see cute girls with short guys.
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:39 PM
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It's really not that much effort- and why do you view it as an obstacle? Talking to people is fun, whether leading to a date or not.
/r/seduction06/06/17 05:21 PM
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Oh, haha. Attach "PUA" or something I guess.
/r/seduction06/06/17 10:08 AM
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Why would I take the "be confident" advice from someone who is good looking? Why are you assuming I am good looking? /r/rateme put me at 2-3/10 when I asked on my main account and I still have no problems. Why don't they do these social experiments with ugly people? You think those YouTube social experiments are real? Lol, that's so cute. I'll reiterate: just because your life is pathetic doesn't mean everyone else's is too.
/r/seduction05/06/17 05:31 PM
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Google Hand of God, do that. Then, tell them you want to get a drink or fresh air or something after 3 or 4 minutes of dancing and take them off the dance floor. You need to build a connection or else they gonna move on.
/r/seduction05/06/17 01:49 PM
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Is this real life?
/r/seduction05/06/17 01:34 PM
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Just because your life is pathetic doesn't mean everyone else's is too.
/r/seduction05/06/17 01:31 PM
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Stop trying to twist your way out of it man, just ask her.
/r/seduction26/04/17 02:10 AM
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Ministry of Attraction- discovering them changed everything for me, ride or die for that channel now.
/r/seduction26/04/17 02:10 AM
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I heard smiling is a unattractive trait for men. Whoever told you that is retarded.
/r/seduction13/04/17 03:50 PM
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Yeah, that's your problem. Think about it from their perspective: Someone walks up to you, asks a random question, and then asks for your phone number. No idea who you are, no rapport is developed, nothing. Would you give some random like that you're phone number? So, they're either gonna say no or just give you a fake number. It's gonna be a little harder in Korea, but I knew a guy on Reddit that used to daygame all the time there so it's not a problem. If you want success with daygame, you hav…
/r/seduction12/04/17 02:47 PM
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this subreddit sometimes lol
/r/seduction12/04/17 03:14 AM
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Keep doing what you're doing and learn from your mistakes.
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:38 AM
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I usually don't say this but thank God America is different.
/r/seduction08/04/17 03:04 AM
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This is a 100% serious question, not trying to be condescending. Do you enjoy doing this? Why do you do it?
/r/seduction30/03/17 12:09 PM
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You're overthinking this man, just stop being a scared ass and trying to indirect your way into this. It's pathetic, you can open indirectly but you have to make it clear from the start you're attracted to her.
/r/seduction02/03/17 03:22 PM
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John is dumb, ignore him.
/r/seduction02/03/17 03:17 PM
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Yeah, and don't only tell this to artsy women. Tell them all and show how passionate you are about it.
/r/seduction02/03/17 11:06 AM
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This is advice from a friend who uses online dating, I prefer face-to-face. He's had success from it, but nothing crazy. However, in face-to-face dating, yes this has been big. Talking about hobbies and things you're passionate about spark attraction. Having a passion and hobby you love is huge.
/r/seduction01/03/17 11:16 AM
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There are tons of cheap and fun activities to do, look at the meetups.com in your area. Also, many hobbies are very cheap, like cooking, drawing, etc. Just put action shots of you doing those things and in your description.
/r/seduction28/02/17 11:20 AM
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Off topic but that really is a great sub
/r/seduction25/02/17 03:27 AM
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Online dating and known cougar bars. Enjoy!
/r/seduction24/02/17 12:52 PM
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I liked it, good motivation for beginners.
/r/seduction22/02/17 02:46 PM
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nigga use the fucking search bar
/r/seduction21/02/17 10:50 PM
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Will take advantage of this haha, thanks.
/r/seduction21/02/17 08:00 PM
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I live near DC but never gamed there, it is really that good?
/r/seduction19/02/17 12:47 PM
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Most of the big names in the industry didn't get laid until 8 months to a year in, so it takes a while. Though, if you REALLY want to speed it up, I would suggest going to a boot camp. Ministry of Attraction and Todd Valentine run the best boot camps that I know of.
/r/seduction19/02/17 12:41 PM
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Going from just dancing to talking is important, but don't just ask her if she wants to leave with you. She still needs comfort with you and be attracted to you, you still need to build rapport. After dancing for a minute or two (If you're good at it like the other commenter, you can do it for longer), grab her arm and spin her around towards you. Lead her to the bar and talk and run standard game. Then you can go back to dancing if you want.
/r/seduction18/02/17 05:07 PM
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Daygaming just out on the streets and fun and works well, just don't do it during rush hour. Everyone is coming home from work and doesn't want to speak. Try later in the day or during work hours if you're a student.
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:19 PM
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Ah, I hope at some point you do share. I helped you remember David Deangelo, think of it as compensation haha.
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:10 PM
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PUA history is actually incredibly interesting to me, there's no books on it or anything so sadly the only posts I see about it are on this subreddit by /u/ThrowawayPUA. It's a pretty rich history.
/r/seduction16/02/17 03:15 AM
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Warriors games. Disgusting.
/r/seduction15/02/17 09:56 PM
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/r/fakeid but you didn't hear it from me.
/r/seduction15/02/17 11:12 AM
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The answer to this depends on one question imo: When you day 2 with them, are they still apprehensive and withhold sex? If they do, then it's probably what GrillUnit says it is- if they don't have that apprehension on day 2 then it's probably just that they wanna keep you around like meow fix said.
/r/seduction11/02/17 06:11 PM
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If you're good in bed, they'll be repeat customers.
/r/seduction11/02/17 06:01 PM
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you're weird
/r/seduction10/02/17 04:38 AM
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I have the same ideal, I want to be good in women without having to have a million concepts in my mind that I follow to a T. Essentially, I want to be as close to just a natural dude who's good with girls then a guy who has to think through everything. So, I've summarized, and 50% of advice is simply confidence and holding your frame. Always speak exactly what's on your mind with very very minimal filter, never change yourself in a conversation so that you can please them in a conversation, and …
/r/seduction09/02/17 11:24 AM
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Read the basics and start cold approaching.
/r/seduction08/02/17 04:12 AM
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I would try to increase the length of the set, rapid fire approaches (2 to 3 min) are not as good as deeper sets. See how far the conversation can go until they have to leave, stay in the set. When conversation starts to fizzle, venue change and go for an instant date. Make sure you're not just qualifying the whole time, they have to invest. In 3 minutes, you're not going to get any investment, only qualification which will lead to nowhere. Get more than just "small talk", but also some situatio…
/r/seduction08/02/17 02:48 AM
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Travel is very cheap, the problem is taking time off from work if you have a job.
/r/seduction02/02/17 08:00 PM
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It's like other physical characteristics- would it help? Yes. Is it the end of the world if you're not? No.
/r/seduction02/02/17 11:24 AM
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Bad idea.
/r/seduction02/02/17 04:28 AM
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Ceddit.com is what I use for deleted posts
/r/seduction02/02/17 04:23 AM
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These dudes are over analyzing, she just didn't want to give it up on the first date. No problem, wait for date two.
/r/seduction01/02/17 02:06 AM
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When did you start pickup in general?
/r/seduction01/02/17 01:35 AM
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How did it go?
/r/seduction29/01/17 02:14 PM
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Assuming you get results from Daygame or Nightgame, just being really good in bed can get FWB relationships. More so with Daygame than Nightgame though. Social circle too.
/r/seduction29/01/17 01:58 PM
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Is he dead?
/r/seduction24/01/17 02:20 PM
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Don't bother with the guy you're talking too, I've seen him here before talking about the same exact subject- he has some weird ass beliefs and is a pretty shitty close minded person who thinks himself of something like an amateur psychologist.
/r/seduction24/01/17 02:17 PM
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Off topic but for 50 approaches as your first time, 4 numbers is pretty good.
/r/seduction24/01/17 12:28 PM
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He cheated on his gf with her best friend? Wow... That's horrid. Did he ever say what he did was wrong?
/r/seduction22/01/17 05:24 AM
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Oh, I thought you were just complaining about your future job prospects in life. My bad.
/r/seduction22/01/17 05:12 AM
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No problem, always trying to help new sedditors.
/r/seduction22/01/17 12:22 AM
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Well one time I was walking down the street and accidentally stepped on a skateboard which took me BARRELING down a hill, in the chaos my pants FLEW off and my dick, in a panic, filled with blood! Down the hill a lady was bent over tucking her son into his car seat when BAM, I ran into her dick-first while going down this hill at 50mph and tore through her clothing. Was that what you were asking?
/r/seduction21/01/17 11:41 PM
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Look into trade or tech school, not everyone has to go to Uni.
/r/seduction21/01/17 11:34 PM
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Couple tips. 1.) Maybe you omitted your failed approaches, but it seems you only made 3 approaches the whole night. You need to approach more, requirement. 2.) Idk what it's called but there's a type of game where, if you're solo, you go around the club approaching different groups (Girls or guys) in a friendly manner, like you're just looking for fun. Seems like you would prefer that type of game. In the beginning you choose a group you like and say "My friends ditched, can I hang with you guys…
/r/seduction14/01/17 06:27 PM
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Yeah, in the US you can get a fake easily.
/r/seduction10/01/17 05:16 PM
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You have problems, mental problems. I hope you can fix them and I'm rooting for you.
/r/seduction04/01/17 07:39 PM
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I don't know how helpful this would be for you, but I wrote to someone similar on Reddit about the self-evaluating mindset you should have after every approach. The only PUA YouTuber I've found worth his salt is ministry of attraction, he breaks everything down fairly well (You probably noted, most PUA advice is super vague). Try watching some videos.
/r/seduction02/01/17 03:56 PM
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I think it took most of the big names like Manson about a year of pickup to get any success, so it's really not that weird if you're wondering.
/r/seduction02/01/17 02:49 PM
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If finances are still an issue, I highly suggest you report those two businesses to the Department of Labour. They'll do all the work and you'll get the money you are owed.
/r/seduction28/12/16 03:29 PM
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you are obsessively focused on your hair...
/r/seduction22/12/16 04:05 PM
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I didn't like the style, would have just preferred just straight talking. Maybe just me though.
/r/seduction21/12/16 04:39 PM
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Animation was horrible but tips were pretty good and specific. Not a bad video.
/r/seduction21/12/16 03:46 PM
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I can say this, if you approach somebody and they're immediately not interested (Ignore you, tell you to shoo, maybe a little small talk but extremely short and curt answers), it has NOTHING to do with you. Maybe they have a boyfriend, maybe they're gay, maybe they're not looking for a hookup, maybe it's girls night out, maybe they're waiting till marraige. Immediate shutdowns have nothing to do with you and everyone regardless of skill deals with them. Just to give an example, in daygame an ama…
/r/seduction20/12/16 02:29 PM
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Since you're still blaming your problems on that all I can say is that your game is almost definitely shit. That's why you've had 0% success.
/r/seduction20/12/16 02:12 PM
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You're just a bad conversationalist, sorry. Lucky though, you can fix that!
/r/seduction20/12/16 01:55 PM
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I just want to point out that the pace you're going isn't weird. Most of the big names in the industry said it took them 8 to 12 months of approaching to get laid. So you are right on track! From here, just make sure you figure out what you do wrong in ever interaction. Sometimes you do nothing wrong and they're just not interested, but always you can find failed interactions that show you flaws with one part of your game (Approach, Conversation, Escalation, etc.). You are most definitely doing …
/r/seduction20/12/16 01:45 PM
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Don't have much to say about your situation, but whrn you're going to leave the country I would just tell her thanks for telling you as many wouldn't. Nothing to do with seduction, just being a good person.
/r/seduction20/12/16 04:23 AM
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Do more, 10 a day at minimum. Make sure you are practicing "right" as well, if you don't make any progress in a few months then consider coaching, but if you practice well I don't think you'll need it.
/r/seduction17/12/16 02:35 PM
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I'm generally not one to suggest coaching, but if you've hit a brick wall like you have and don't know where to go, I'd go with coaching. I've never taken coaching but Ministry of Attraction seems to have the best coaching program I know of, check them out. I suggest you do some form of coaching.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:12 PM
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Read the /r/fitness FAQ
/r/seduction07/12/16 11:07 AM
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I would also mention if not career, at least a pathway to one. Whether college, trade school, self employed, etc. as long as you're doing something.
/r/seduction07/12/16 04:26 AM
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I looked at your post (not a mod) I think it's because it doesn't have to do much with the sub. it's tangentially related but not really relevant, I suggest posting in /r/casualama
/r/seduction07/12/16 04:18 AM
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Not trying to be rude, but if it's taken you ten years and you haven't realized what you're doing wrong, I'd just take the second path. Neither me or my friends are good looking but it still works for us, nor are most of the big names in the pua field. In ten years if you haven't made any progress, you might just have an unsolvable problem with introspection. I'd go the second route even though it's very harsh to say.
/r/seduction07/12/16 12:21 AM
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not really.
/r/seduction06/12/16 11:44 PM
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and you can prove you don't give a fuck while also not being an asshole teasing is fine, negging is just being an ass
/r/seduction06/12/16 09:11 PM
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Don't shy away from one of the most important parts of pickup (kino), probably part of the reason you haven't had success. When I used to play basketball, I heard a saying that essentially said you won't make any progress if you practice your shot with the wrong form 1 million times rather than with the right form one thousand times. What I'm saying is that it's not always quantity, make you're "practicing" the right way. While it may just be kino you're ignoring, make sure you're continually lo…
/r/seduction04/12/16 01:34 PM
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One word: Reputation. Ever heard of it? Then don't do it in places where you build a reputation? Just do it on the street, grocery stores, coffee shops, etc. I've only ever seen previous girls like once or twice when I go back to my regular spots. I'm still willing to bet that you probably don't get any good results from your daygame. In fact I'm willing to bet it never even led to a single make-out for you (certainly not sex, at least.) Ok? Your opinion on what I do doesn't affect me in the end…
/r/seduction04/12/16 01:26 PM
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You should make a post, there are many people like you (introverted, short, average looking) that don't think they can succeed
/r/seduction04/12/16 01:21 PM
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The deal with women is they require any guy they meet, for whatever reason, to have an active social life. I mostly go solo approaching when I nightgame I never sneak into the conversation that I have friends or anything, or really mention it. Same with Daygame actually, never really mention it and always go solo. Never really had problems and, if you're wondering, I'm not attractive at all. It leaves me with no options unless I want to try day game on my own, where I would probably appear stran…
/r/seduction03/12/16 12:50 PM
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I didn't know random RSD commenters are the arbiter of what makes you weird and what works in dating. I didn't eat breakfast today, can someone get RSD on the phone and tell me if that makes me weird or not? My ugly friend pulled a girl from cold approach yesterday, can someone get RSD on the phone to confirm whether this is possible?
/r/seduction03/12/16 12:43 PM
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Whenever you feel like you might be in the wrong, do you just blame SJW's? Not saying you're right or wrong, but here it really just seems like you're blaming an SJW boogeyman to justify your actions.
/r/seduction14/11/16 09:00 PM
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Andreas is the resident virgin, ignore him lol. It's all mindset man, you can get whatever "league" you want, you're limited by your ability and confidence. However, remember the ability part especially lol
/r/seduction25/10/16 02:28 AM
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I guess it depends on who you know. It depends on who the primary care giver is of the children, if the mother is the primary care giver the courts award them most of the assets. Generally when cheating comes to light however the mothers loses the verdict, but if the father has any startling issues the cheater can still win. If there's no kids involved, it depends on a lot of different things and whether the wife is a house wife or not.
/r/seduction14/10/16 10:05 PM
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Men and women cheat at about the same rate, so not really.
/r/seduction13/10/16 08:29 PM
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some people just dig way to deep into theory, you ain't doing nothing wrong mate
/r/seduction13/10/16 08:22 PM
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You're just shit at escalation lol
/r/seduction24/09/16 11:56 AM
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There's a difference between just being confident, being an alpha, and being an asshole. None of my game relies on me being alpha or an asshole, but I am confident and I get results. Simply be comfortable to yourself, and don't whore yourself out to make them happy. You can be a nice/caring person and not whore yourself out for smiles, there's a middle ground. Being alpha is just a subset of game, but being confident is a requirement. You lock the two, so when you decide to stop being alpha you …
/r/seduction24/09/16 11:16 AM
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I'm not quite sure what this post is asking
/r/seduction22/02/16 01:34 PM
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My step by step guide on day game. TL;Dr Don't be a pussy
/r/seduction22/02/16 01:06 PM
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Good luck brother- and most of all, just have fun with it. Game should be fun!
/r/seduction21/02/16 04:41 AM
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My step by step guide on daygame when solo. 1.) Get hyped up. Your commute seems to be via car, so you can't warm up by talking to people. So blast whatever hype music you can and get your confidence flowing. 2.) Get out of your car, walk into the city. 3.) Stop a girl on the street, drop an opener or a compliment, then introduce yourself with a firm handshake right after she reacts or laughs. 4.) Talk. Don't be needy, and be assertive when needed. 5.) Get her number or go on an instadate if she…
/r/seduction21/02/16 03:02 AM
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I wonder who's on the other side of that number... You should call it.
/r/seduction21/02/16 01:34 AM
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That's fair. I smile at strangers or eyebrow-nod if I know the person usually. Different strokes for different folks I guess
/r/seduction20/02/16 11:29 PM
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I have a similar issue (That's not height), and for the most part I just stay away from online dating. It breeds the abundance mentality, and personally it just seems like a lot of work trying to prove yourself- while if you meet irl the introduction is a lot smoother and women are more open (Well, after you get past your opening and actually start talking).
/r/seduction20/02/16 01:53 AM
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Weird. I mostly goof around when PUA-ing and it works out fairly well, and I enjoy myself along the way so I don't complain. Just curious, where'd ya read this? He doesn't post anymore and google searching doesn't give me much more info on him. Not doubting you or anything. Edit: Yeah I can't find anything about satire from googling it, odd.
/r/seduction20/02/16 01:30 AM
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