For those who suggest "just go out and approach!"

A quote from this page:

http://www.rsdnation.com/node/576932?page=3

PUA weirdos are basically the guys that practice cold approach indiscriminately (ie forced interactions). Real slayers just have cool social circle and pull girls from there (or they approach strangers only if they give them approach invitations), social circle is so important that to a certain extent it can even outweigh the looks (I want to outline the "to a certain extent" because if you're below a 6, you're doomed).

Also, PUA weirdos tend to downplay the importance that looks and status have for casual sex. They're, for the most part, self-improvement clowns that live in their own world and they can't connect with other people outside the PUA world.

I don't know if cold approach works in the US, but here in Europe is just plain low value and pathetic. Girls (especially hot ones) want to be introduced to guys through a common friend and they want natural guys with an active social life and a big social circle. Game and self-improvements aren't the answers. You had better save money and spend them in improving your aesthetics and living an active social life. That's what really helped me, not the david deida, eckart tolle, anthony robbins and all the other "fake confidence booster" bullshit....they made me incredibly self conscious and my interactions were always forced and sloppy and even though I've now trashed all of that it takes time for my brain to eliminate all that bullshit.

P.S: Now that I have years of experience under my belt I do agree that MM is better than all the other PUA methods (after all it's pure outer game and not stupid inner game stuff) but you have to possess the minimium requirements in terms of looks and status (ie social circle) otherwise nothing will work. A guy with shitty genetics or with no friends can have the best game in the world but almost no girl will want to be around him.

This guy's quote just gets to the heart of the matter. It doesn't include autistic guys with low prospects, you need to be socially connected or have status of some kind, as well as adequate looks. Period.

Why make stuff up and suggest that unfortunate guys have hope? That's what I don't understand.

And yet here I am thinking folks will still try to disagree or claim there is some other way, like "just go lifting" and "try daygame." Sorry, but that's just not gonna cut it. Without social proof and innate social skills, no girls will be interested. Period. End of story.

Pray tell, has anyone with poor social skills/no social circle/no status "gone lifting and tried daygame" and got any good results? Only honest answers, please.