ep1939 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
105	The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless.	Rant/Venting	ep1939	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 12:42 AM
4	A lecture I can't recommend enough: David Deida's "The Way of The Superior Man".		ep1939	/r/TheRedPill	27/03/18 01:02 PM
1	University social circles and seduction		ep1939	/r/seduction	27/09/16 06:46 PM

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1	[deleted by user] Yes general PUA-like things did help me, but I was already getting laid. It gave me some sort of framework and tips but it didn't really transform me in brad Pitt. But few things have been very helpful like don't use the phone for much but setting dates, sitting in restaurants with a wall behind you so she has to look at you and not get distracted or you know stuff like setting dates and inviting them for things YOU want to do or like or to avoid first dates like movies where there's not much in…	/r/seduction	08/02/22 11:18 PM
1	“we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are” What you say doesn't matter. I like saying what I think so it's easier.	/r/seduction	28/01/21 01:24 AM
1	I asked the hot milf security guard at my work Well done.	/r/seduction	26/11/20 07:16 AM
0	RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get? I've read the news. This doesn't seem pua related but literally him showing videos of him assaulting women.	/r/seduction	29/03/20 02:26 PM
1	RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get? source?	/r/seduction	29/03/20 02:15 PM
3	RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get? Meh, if they killed it it was for business reasons, jm2c.	/r/seduction	29/03/20 12:58 PM
1	RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get? Why did they nuked it?	/r/seduction	29/03/20 12:16 PM
5	RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get? Really?	/r/seduction	29/03/20 12:16 PM
1	Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women What I say to my female friends is just to make them aware of potential red flags when all they feel is excitement. Moreover I was more into describing people more closer or into their 40s. Anyway, don't going out or _not finding time to date_, isn't a symptom about the fact that finding a relationship isn't really your priority and you may feel great alone?	/r/seduction	17/03/20 08:31 PM
1	Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women Well I don't think I ever implied the opposite xD.	/r/seduction	17/03/20 04:43 AM
8	Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women I'm in my 30s as well, close to being 33. I didn't meant to over generalize that, and there's a huge difference between being single in your early or late 30s, or 40s. I'm happily in a relationship that I hope is the right one. I was merely sharing my opinion about the dating scene based on what I see, especially for my female friends or exes and their experiences. It is much easier for me to date a good looking girl than for them to date a decent man, that's basically my point. My point is also…	/r/seduction	17/03/20 02:19 AM
10	Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women I'm not putting any burden on any one. I'm not giving grades to people as if we were playing some kind of game. I'm stating that it's harder for a woman to find a psychologically stable, honest and decent man she can trust with her body, even more with her life and make a family with, than for a man to find a girl that simply needs to be...pretty. Moreover, since your post even underlines that, women are judged on their looks (and age) much more than men are, plus they have their biological cloc…	/r/seduction	17/03/20 02:10 AM
2	Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women I didn't say I'm perfect nor I'm judging anyone. You can add me to the losers club, I'm not speaking about myself like OP. That doesn't change my point that OP's premise is false. Women do not have all of this choice when it comes to finding a fine man.	/r/seduction	17/03/20 01:42 AM
10	Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women I'm not a native english speaker. Is there something wrong with it?	/r/seduction	17/03/20 01:34 AM
74	Girls choose you, you don't chose them. As a man, focus on being a better person, and stop chasing women OP is absolutely clueless indeed. I even agree with his second statement, but from a totally different point of view. Women have always had abundance of choice. But women have an absolute lack of decent choices. It's not like the world is filled with strong men with a purpose in their life who aren't psychos. I don't want to be mean, but anybody reading this, seriously think, if you were a woman how many of your male friends or colleagues would you date? Think about it. The guy who can't keep a …	/r/seduction	17/03/20 01:16 AM
0	Why Women LOVE Jerks Women don't love jerks they simply trust them more than "nice guys" never exponsing themselves.	/r/seduction	24/01/20 10:26 PM
3	Breakdown: A Married Man breakdown of a breakdown of being a married man he fell out of love because she was an insufferable cunt Dunno man. The entire story is: I liked her cause she was so hot. I don't like her anymore cause she ain't hot anymore. OP really feels so incoherent. She gets pregnant for a mistake, she marries her. Why? He didn't have to marry her. Well, let's say he still wanted a family with her and he does. Why have another child? There isn't a single part of that post where OP seems so interested in having babies. He complains about her body getting…	/r/TheRedPill	03/09/18 12:59 PM
3	Asia Argento, vocal Metoo activist and Harvey Weinstein accuser, paid $380,000 settlement in 2013 to underage actor she had sex with If that happened in Nevada we wouldn't even know about that since the age of consent here is 16. Unless he wanted to prove that he was forced to do all of that, which even from his own story and his lawyers doesn't really look the case the only reason this happened is just because of where it happened rather than the morality of it.	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/18 03:08 PM
3	Asia Argento, vocal Metoo activist and Harvey Weinstein accuser, paid $380,000 settlement in 2013 to underage actor she had sex with Oh yeah, she was forcing liquor down his throat? Please. pulled down his pants and forced oral sex onto him Please, that's ridiculous. How do you force oral sex onto a man? How does that work? You block his body with your 100lb weight, while getting him excited and you suck his dick while he tries to avoid that desperately? Please no, don't suck my dick, you're assaulting me. Also, SHE PAID HIM OFF because she knew what she did was criminal. She paid him because age of consent is 18 in the state…	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/18 02:49 PM
-5	Asia Argento, vocal Metoo activist and Harvey Weinstein accuser, paid $380,000 settlement in 2013 to underage actor she had sex with You're assuming he was a virgin. You're assuming he was unwilling. You're assuming he got him drugged (no indication of that). Also, could you explain me how do you "force a sexual act on a man?". Like how do you get it hard. Couldn't he refuse the approach physically? I just don't believe in all that bullshit. I've also read the news: this guy took a selfie of them in the bed after sex. Is that the first thing you would do with a person that assaulted you? My 2 cents are: he fucked her, he was …	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/18 01:56 PM
37	Asia Argento, vocal Metoo activist and Harvey Weinstein accuser, paid $380,000 settlement in 2013 to underage actor she had sex with She had no problem ruining a young actor's career. Man, seriously, what are we, inverse SJWs? They had alcohol, they fucked = ruining his career? I don't like the hoe, but isn't that overblown. Yes I agree she's an hypocrite, but I fail to see how did she done so much "damage" to him and how did she "ruin his career" edit, re reading the news: She gave him alcohol to drink and showed him a series of notes she had written to him on hotel stationery. Then she kissed him, pushed him back on the bed…	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/18 11:19 AM
81	Submissive women can have their downsides in relationships too I wanted to answer here, but the problem is that you talk about submissive women and then mix then with insecure women or passive women. Those are 3 different often unrelated traits. A women can be submissive and still have personality, decision making and still oppose you (in fact submission is a never ending game). In fact if she opposes you (about anything) it's your duty and role to listen and change your mind if it makes sense. There's nothing sexy nor manly about being thick headed. Thick …	/r/TheRedPill	17/08/18 11:41 PM
1	Low Status Men are Society's Scapegoats Of course having more money frees up your time and helps with social life, never said the opposite. That's just a natural consequence of being wealthier. That doesn't mean at all rich people have better relationships or are more loved by their friends. They simply have more time to focus on them.	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/18 04:18 PM
1	Low Status Men are Society's Scapegoats The poor are considered corrupt for living in poverty. The rich are loved and doted on. While I agree with most of the first part, I can't think of a single person having this mentality in Italy among the people I know. Nobody "loves" the rich. Admire, envy, maybe, depends on the specific person.	/r/TheRedPill	03/08/18 03:27 PM
1	Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy. True, could be. Could be at her work as well. Or with your brother when he came to bring you some tools. Or with somebody she met at the church. The opportunity does not make a cheater imho. Cheating makes a cheater.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 05:51 PM
1	Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy. Then don't marry, easy peasy.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 04:06 PM
7	Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy. Or having drinks and having fun.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 04:00 PM
1	Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy. Of course you are. If you're so insecure don't marry. I know plenty of women that never cheat/cheater, friends I'm very close with which I often go dance or party with when their partner isn't there and they simply don't cheat. To seriously think that every woman (or man) is a cheater is straight idiotic.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 01:58 PM
-8	Cucked husband (married to a single mother) gets cheated on. Don't be that guy. Girl's night out doesn't equate cheating for fuck sake. I know plenty of women that are in relationships, go out with friends a lot and never cheated on them. And some that did. You make some solid points, but you over generalize and fall into misogyny.	/r/TheRedPill	21/05/18 11:53 AM
19	John Cena wises up, dumps post-wall Nikki Bella 5 weeks before their scheduled wedding Lesson Learned: If you are going to commit to a woman, don't do it before your prime. And don't commit to a woman who is well past her prime. There's nothing to learn here and definitely a weak message. If you want to get married for some reason, think it well and are convinced you hit a NAWALT just get married. There's plenty of happy marriages around, even if the average one might be a bit miserable, but that's because people marry without thinking, too young and without having a backspine.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/18 02:22 PM
1	Looks Maxing One thing tho: do it for yourself not for women. Women could not care less how you look, unless you're like real bad. In fact the better the looks the higher the expectations they'll have.	/r/TheRedPill	11/04/18 09:51 PM
1	The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless. What's your suggestion then?	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/18 11:49 PM
4	The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless. Chill out woman. People make mistakes, I don't hide that I did. I need to say that safe for this mistress I never had encounters with other women in the last 4 years I was with my gf. I really did try to be a decent man, I failed in the end, but I really tried. Anyway, I hope you live the rest of your life alone Guess what, that's exactly what I want to do, and told the mistress: I told her that I was probably going to leave my gf because despite me being very attached to her, I just don't feel …	/r/TheRedPill	10/04/18 01:09 AM
1	The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless. The perk is to revive the passion by making her open up more, push her sexual bound, and then you've got another level of submissiveness from her. We already have that in bed, sex with her is beyond amazing, but not in everyday life. She was raised spoiled, and despite her loving and nurturing nature she constantly wants things to be her way. I just ignore it/shrug it off, but boy isn't it heavy.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 05:35 PM
3	The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless. Thanks for your input, really appreciated.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 02:39 PM
5	The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless. There's nothing to envy. I feel miserable very often, totally detached to the woman I live with, in a relationship I find unsatisfying. I love another woman that became the AWALT I feared she'd become the moment I committed a bit. Trust me I feel empty and miserable. Abundance only seem cool in periods, I had those too, when you can't get laid and all women seem to reject you. Once you realize you just need to play and enjoy and make yourself a less shitty version of yourself (even just having a…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 01:37 PM
11	The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless. And the best thing in all of that is my current gf. As with time I started being colder towards her, less interested, the moment I started hanging out way more with my friends during the weekends instead of spending them with her that's the moment she got even closer, more lovely, more caretaking. I literally refuse to cuddle, not really a cuddling person, we have sex like once/twice a weak. I'm more detached. And that's the moment she starts to be more present and lovable. On the other side, th…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 11:44 AM
4	The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless. I do. Youre going to end up being Chad’s cumrag Can you expand? Appreciating the rarity of a kind and stable girl. I can't survive in a passionless relationship. I gave our relationship 9 months of living together, and it's getting more passionless. I only cheater on her once during this time, really tried to appreciate the rarity of a kind and stable girl.	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 01:49 AM
17	The Red Pill is a sad aspect of reality, but it's real nonetheless. Thanks for your comment, at the beginning I wanted to write some comment to kind of argue with you. But in the end I do agree with you, except for one thing: this experience is representative of most women being AWALT. I kind of skipped many stuff, but in the end they don't matter and they would not change your opinion. I could tell you 2000 thing on how she was NAWALT yet the fundamental remains: she was always a shallow whore who wanted to satisfy her primitive urge to sleep with someone they …	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/18 01:28 AM
3	Still Wanna Get Married? Could anybody link the original?	/r/TheRedPill	30/03/18 08:48 AM
3	Scored a 9.5, felt on top of the world, went back to her place. Then, absolutely humiliated myself. I'm thinking of seriously hiring an escort now to teach me what I don't know. Stop thinking and do what the fuck you want to do. That's what women want regardless, a man that leads and know what he wants. If you live sex like a list of things to do in a certain way you'll never enjoy it. Unless you feel resistance from her in some stuff (you still need to respect and make feel safe the person in front of you) just let yourself go. Want to kiss her ear, do it, want to put your dick in her mouth, do it, want to sit down as she undressess? Do it. It's all on you. Lose yourse…	/r/seduction	18/03/18 01:16 PM
2	Remember "Put a women on a pedestal and she'll kick you in the face" "hey I'm going to X on sunday, wanna join me?" Where X is generally something I want to do (a museum, buy something, whatever).	/r/seduction	19/02/18 11:52 PM
2	Things You Should NEVER Say To A Woman (Red Pill Edition) Let's agree to disagree, I find it tryharding and non natural. Just telling a woman that you want to be your boyfriend is both putting her on a pedestal as well as giving the impression that you're looking for commitment. Even worse, with somebody you don't even know. That's neither funny nor a good impression. "so he doesn't even know me and he's looking for a relationship for me, he's so manly". No woman's gonna think that. The reason it works might simply be because the rest of your game is o…	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/17 03:00 PM
1	Things You Should NEVER Say To A Woman (Red Pill Edition) Still makes you a tryharder trying to impress her.	/r/TheRedPill	10/11/17 09:39 AM
16	Things You Should NEVER Say To A Woman (Red Pill Edition) I'll be honest, don't like it a bit.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/17 06:29 PM
202	Things You Should NEVER Say To A Woman (Red Pill Edition) "You boyfriend/husband is a lucky man: really? is he?" Fuckin screams feminine cuckold.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/17 02:55 PM
2	28 in College Fraternity. Girls are around 19. How do I sell myself? If you don't care other people won't care. If you make a deal of it, other people will treat you accordingly.	/r/seduction	10/09/17 07:46 AM
-6	28 in College Fraternity. Girls are around 19. How do I sell myself? it should make you more attractive to a 19-year-old girl. He'd look "loosey" to a woman his age tho still being in college. Not saying it would matter that much.	/r/seduction	10/09/17 07:46 AM
3	Never tell her how much Money you make. Depends on the relationship tho. If you're in a long term relationship, especially if you live together, giving some financial information about you to your s.o. seems pretty fair to me.	/r/TheRedPill	02/05/17 05:04 PM
12	FR Probably the worst date I've ever been on. I upvoted both.	/r/seduction	04/04/17 01:37 PM
3	Guide for better 1-on-1 conversations - begginner/intermediate This feels more like pua stuff than red pill. Anyway, there's one important thing missing here: physical escalation. It's what makes you different than a friend.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/17 09:22 PM
2	Guide for better 1-on-1 conversations - begginner/intermediate "Lead men, women will follow".	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/17 09:21 PM
1	How do i get sexual without being creepy/weird/offensive? You escalate phisically.	/r/seduction	06/03/17 10:25 PM
1	Mystery Man Girls do not flake on guys they are attracted to. Do you guys live in a world where you meet only 20 yo college girls?	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/16 12:16 AM
0	You should ghost women who have cheated on you OP, while I do agree generally on your concepts, you sound like a bitter and immature human being full of anger.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/16 11:06 PM
2	Help a guy in need Texts should ONLY be used to arrange meetups. Women are full of beta man contacting them all the time. Beware of it.	/r/seduction	03/12/16 03:22 AM
2	Help a guy in need Make assumptions/guesses. There's nothing that makes people interested than knowing what others think of them. It's great and much better than asking questions like:"Where did you go to college". Instead rephrase it in:"You look to me like somebody who's very interested in studying medicine". Make assumptions, it will trigger their curiosity on why you thought that, it doesn't matter much what you assume. But don't overdo, you should speak about what you like, asking her about her is a form of a…	/r/seduction	03/12/16 02:20 AM
2	What about learning 'game' takes the most time? Maintaining relationships.	/r/seduction	03/12/16 02:17 AM
2	Help a guy in need Text or live conversations?	/r/seduction	03/12/16 02:13 AM
4	The truth explained I think that cold approaches are overrated, but it's not true at all that they do not work nor that they are weird. Maybe they are if you are in some countries that are very closed (scandinavia). If you're a creep talking to every woman, you're a creep talking to every woman, but if sometimes you find the occasion to flirt and exchange words with people it's totally fine.	/r/seduction	02/12/16 11:23 PM
2	Asking someone out on a date for the very first time, Wish me luck lads! You're free to disagree. But asking is beta regardless of the fact you disagree or not.	/r/seduction	05/11/16 12:18 PM
-19	Asking someone out on a date for the very first time, Wish me luck lads! tip: don't ask for dates, tell your date your bringing her to x.	/r/seduction	04/11/16 09:51 PM
1	While women are interested in looks to a degree, they are more interested in how you make them feel inside. [For newcomers] That's how human nature works. If a woman is highly regarded by other men I'll be much more inclined to date her or make her mine. We all are competitive, but women more. If a male is preselected by other females his status will be a lot higher and they'll want him more, that's how it is.	/r/seduction	04/11/16 12:00 PM
2	While women are interested in looks to a degree, they are more interested in how you make them feel inside. [For newcomers] Women have a sixth sense for checking the incongruence between the frame (what we show and say) we have and what we really are. It's like understanding who fakes self confidence, who lies, who's acting, who's not passing a shit test. They just have a feeling for vibe, emotions, they catch details much more than we do. But they are less rational. That's why a common pua theme is that it doesn't matter much what you say but how they feel you that matters when you say it.	/r/seduction	04/11/16 12:09 AM
9	While women are interested in looks to a degree, they are more interested in how you make them feel inside. [For newcomers] Looks are overrated Well, we all know plenty of women that were so much in love with somebody not really handsome, women going crazy for somebody not attractive at all. Yes that reinforces your opinion. But then you find 30 years old woman getting so excited (not phisically, but can happen too) just looking at some picture of a guy they saw on instagram. So then you wonder: yes, those first guys really attracted them with personality, ecc, but then this fuckin guy comes, he's actually maybe in a…	/r/seduction	03/11/16 09:45 PM
3	While women are interested in looks to a degree, they are more interested in how you make them feel inside. [For newcomers] Hmmmm, there are some things I disagree: If you haven't attracted her a few minutes into meeting her, she has disqualified you forever. It won't happen. We all know many people that knew each other for long, didn't even sexualize at all the other one and suddenly they're like in a relationship. Peole that used to be best friends, ecc. My point is: people change idea. I think even we had that woman we knew for long and suddenly we start finding her attractive and sexualizing her, because she has …	/r/seduction	03/11/16 09:19 PM
2	5 Truths That You Don’t Want To Hear in Pickup Exactly. I think op has no idea that grown up worlds, and people that have less time for chatting are also less interested into it. My ex and me met in college, but as soon as we both entered the adult world our online time crippled by a lot.	/r/seduction	03/11/16 02:23 PM
1	5 Truths That You Don’t Want To Hear in Pickup Man unless you have something IMPORTANT to tell me, I won't answer if I'm busy doing stuff. I know plenty of people that answer when they finished working/house chores/gym, ecc. Me not answering a "hey whats up" has nothing to do do with how interested I am, but how busy I am. I'm also somebody that doesnt like chatting with people too much, so sometimes I even answer days latee by calling them directly.	/r/seduction	03/11/16 02:21 PM
1	Any tips or tricks to help become funnier? I'd say I have an ok sense of humor but not amazing. I've always been better at engaging in deep conversations rather than being extremely funny. I feel like when I'm around girls I'm not funny enough to get an attraction from them. By the way there's too much pressure on this "funny" thing. Actually if I look at my girl friends I know that the type they fall for is rarely a joker if ever. Having a sense of humor and not being too serious all the time isn't against engaging in deep conversations at all.	/r/seduction	02/11/16 08:43 PM
74	5 Truths That You Don’t Want To Hear in Pickup I agree with all but first. I sometimes am much too busy to answer people and I just wait till I get home after work/gym/whatever. I really don't understand how can you truly believe that everybody has nothing to do but stare on their phones all time. Sometimes I'm not in the mood for chit chatting too. Or, sometimes you may see me online for two hours but I'm arguing with a friend over something, I'm discussing some important matter with a family member, or work related stuff with a coworker. B…	/r/seduction	02/11/16 08:38 PM
4	How to Recover From a Breakup Never really worked for me. Broke up 4 months ago today, met many beautiful women, have 2 "relationships" at the same time that fulfill me, yet I found myself crying alone this saturday while coming back from a party because I miss her. Mind you, I'm not saying that you should not meet other women, you should it's important, but that's not really the way of forgetting a past relationship nor it guarantees you will. Especially if you had an amazing relationship, full of love, amazing sex, deep em…	/r/seduction	02/11/16 03:08 AM
1	When a girl is flirting and asks "What is your type?" whats a good response? That guy got laid like a champ tbh. Yeah, with how many quality women? ;) We all know guys like that setting for anything, there's nothing hard into finding somebody to fuck by mere statistics.	/r/seduction	31/10/16 08:12 PM
1	When a girl is flirting and asks "What is your type?" whats a good response? A woman, actually a man too, would like to think that you're with her because of her, not because she was one of the many with the same qualities op may like. Having no standards has really a freezing ovaries effect. You don't need to answer "what is your type" telling the truth, but you don't want to give the idea that you would fuck anybody, because then you risk looking like a loser and make her feel like she's stupid enough to go with somebody with no standards that would've dated her or who…	/r/seduction	31/10/16 07:30 PM
1	When a girl is flirting and asks "What is your type?" whats a good response? What I mean is that depending on how the answer is given it may go from very funny to quite sad. I don't really like it because: a) it focuses on something shallow like physical appearance. b) the phone number part is pretty meh considering everybody has a phone number Basically the answer is "My type is pretty much a lot of people"	/r/seduction	31/10/16 06:57 PM
1	the tinder effect No sarcasm.	/r/seduction	10/10/16 06:39 AM
1	the tinder effect they are mainly online people, too scared to approach a girl in real life. Jesus Christ why would be that? I read /r/seduction from time to time, or PUA forum, why would I be a "mainly online person"? I never even installed tinder (I think it is sad and for losers, it's not genuine interaction) and I tend to fuck most people from social circle (plus occasionally somebody from cold approaches). Why would you think that people writing here or on PUA have no life and don't do approaches?	/r/seduction	07/10/16 10:33 PM
1	How much does looks affects the attraction (on both genders) I'm good looking and I really don't care that much. I'm at 40+ women and I've been dumped (and cheated) once in my entire life, and god that was totally unrelated on looks. Again, you "discovered" that looks matter, that's not rocket science, they matter a lot, so does social status and money, how am I coping? But if you want to say that looks, money and status are all that matter than it's pure redpill bullshit you can keep for your own. No, an ugly as fuck man, poor and with no status ain't go…	/r/seduction	03/10/16 05:24 PM
1	How much does looks affects the attraction (on both genders) Dude, that's fuckin online dating. Yeah, you discovered that if you're very good looking you have much more success with women, ain't you a scientist? You can keep your redpill banter for you.	/r/seduction	30/09/16 10:27 AM
2	Something that I have found out is quite important in game, and it is probably considered by many as an adverse side-effect of being in the game. Or, maybe, meeting many women elevated your standards. I'm close to 40 sets closed in my life, the two I felt in love with (9 months and 2 years relationships) were pre game. I'm recently getting attached to a woman that's funny, clever, HSE even tho she's just an HB7. She's hard to game and toyally non needy which makes me want her more. What I want to say is that you, as me, evelated your standards. My suggestion is, when you really like somebody take it very slow and be as natural and true to…	/r/seduction	29/09/16 01:42 PM
1	The two worlds: Generally speaking, what are the attractive girls and higher value guys doing after college? How is the lifestyle like after graduation? (Mid 20s, late 20s, and even 30s) There is nothing sexier to a woman to be the number two priority after his man's goals and purposes.	/r/seduction	29/09/16 01:34 PM
0	A quick tip on making a move on a girl you already know for the first time... from the girl it worked on (21F). But I definitely want to kiss him so he's managed to seduce me there He didn't seduce you per se. I don't even like the term seduction, but that's irrelevant. The time you spent with him, the connection you built and the comfort you built during this time led to a growing arousal. You are mixing seduction and arousal which are very different things (and arousal beats attraction every time as well). If you end up on an isolated island, you and a man that you don't find attractive, you'll end up h…	/r/seduction	28/09/16 11:20 AM
-1	A quick tip on making a move on a girl you already know for the first time... from the girl it worked on (21F). But I think it's a useful demonstration of how a man can escalate and engage despite his already being friends with a woman. Time spent between a man and a woman, given comfort and even a tiny line of attraction leads to arousal, where's the discovery? TYou actually don't even need the attraction.. Example given, take a girl you don't find attractive and put her in a club, you're not gonna open that set probably. But end up on an island, only you and the girl you don't find attractive and you're…	/r/seduction	28/09/16 11:16 AM
3	2 PUAs arrested for kino The term PUA is used with really no fuckin meaning anymore.	/r/seduction	28/09/16 09:14 AM
3	A quick tip on making a move on a girl you already know for the first time... from the girl it worked on (21F). No offense but aren't you giving much too much dept to something that didn't even happen? You don't even know how you'll feel when you will kiss or have sex. I could mention countless times when everything was perfect for hours or months and so sweet till we actually engaged in a sexual relationship and we understood there was nothing really between us but a cute friendship or empathy. So, no offense, but this is a non story and nothing really worked (till now).	/r/seduction	28/09/16 09:12 AM
1	I approached a model the other day "You're really gorgeous--you have such beautiful eyes" You showed her like you're the other countless beta males trying to hit on her everyday. Good job on trying too.	/r/seduction	28/09/16 08:08 AM
1	University social circles and seduction How would that help in breaking them?	/r/seduction	27/09/16 07:36 PM
1	How much does looks affects the attraction (on both genders) Yeah, I'm attractive too, but holy shit if PUA and game helped me a fuckton. You don't need a genius to understand that looks, social status and money do matter and are strong DHVs and can get you women much much easier, but also knowing how to be a man and work with women gives you so fuckin much. I know plenty of very good looking guys that have little success compared to people not as good looking but with much better frames and personality. There was this Ian Somerhalder type at my universit…	/r/seduction	27/09/16 06:53 PM
2	Has anyone here changed their attitude and personality and formed a relationship with someone who previously rejected them? People are extremely hard to change their mind. Ever happened to you that you thought somebody was, e.g., a jerk and you would interpret any of his odd behaviour as being a jerk? Ever happened to you that somebody told you a girl was easy and you interpreted her behaviour as being easy (e.g. smiling to people, touching somebody's shoulder, ecc). Ever happened to you somebody told you a person was a pervert and then you would intepret any of his behaviour as to pointing out he's a pervert (like g…	/r/seduction	27/09/16 06:35 PM
3	How to seal the deal "Hey, I need to go to the mall tomorrow want to buy a new jacket, come with me." It's not too datey or serious, but you get the chance to work on her. That's what I like to do at least.	/r/seduction	27/09/16 06:32 PM
2	How To Kiss A Woman Without Rejection (for beginners and intermediates - NOT really for advanced guys) As Jullien puts it, with women is the only time when you are free to do what you want, and I kind of increased my success in my dates a lot since I'm being more natural and I simply take what I want.	/r/seduction	27/09/16 06:18 PM
2	How To Kiss A Woman Without Rejection (for beginners and intermediates - NOT really for advanced guys) The method I use. When I want to kiss them, I tell them to come closer, they can sense where it's going, but don't know, and then we kiss. Never failed me once. Just do it when you want (once you established attraction and comfort).	/r/seduction	27/09/16 12:29 AM
0	How much does looks affects the attraction (on both genders) no comments?	/r/seduction	26/09/16 11:42 PM
3	Don't let this take over your life I never stop flirting once I'm in a relationship, but I know boundaries and I don't get too involved.	/r/seduction	26/09/16 09:35 AM
1	Watch any RSD Tyler (Owen) video on .5x speed, and he becomes the most hilarious rambling drunk. This is actually amazing. Doing this right now.	/r/seduction	24/09/16 11:47 AM
1	PSA: This will be short and to the point. I disagree totally. Your problem isn't being too funny, but not sexualizing and escalating. You aren't running a comedy show ffs.	/r/seduction	24/09/16 11:45 AM
7	Got confused between (A) seize the opportunity and (B) don't chase; let her chase you. The way I see it, not being needy and abundance mentality come from yourself, not from faking and maintaining a frame at all costs. You should feel free to act the way you like, it's much more about your internal attitude than your forcibly created frame.	/r/seduction	23/09/16 10:21 AM
2	Is it a bad thing that I no longer use Instagram? Indeed who fuckin cares of what they like and how they expect you to be. Be a leader, not a follower.	/r/seduction	21/09/16 08:15 PM
2	PUA Meets Girlfriend On Camera The amount of salt here..anyway music much too loud..	/r/seduction	21/09/16 12:45 PM
1	For those of you working on your physique, if your shirt is on 99% of the time, arms and shoulders means more than abs He's tall and sexy as fuck tho, has a very loud, deep masculine voice, and a very intense stare. Are you, me, we as good looking as him? He's actually one of the few guys I'd say he would look worse with 10 KGs of muscle on his body and it might make his game even harder.	/r/seduction	20/09/16 06:59 PM
27	Alright seddit, lets talk about making friends, having a social life, and building a social circle, especially after graduation! I want to give my opinion. And I want to give it an input from somebody who's first language is not english. In Italy/Poland, our languages make very clear distinctions between friends, companions and people you know. First of all a friend is somebody who's there when shit goes down, in moments of troubles, ecc. And through your life you'll probably have only a handful of them, if you're lucky. Other people are merely people you know well, or people you hang out with, companions (or comrades, wi…	/r/seduction	18/09/16 01:16 PM
1	Newbie: Today I approached a blonde girl in a mall and she looked at me like I was going to murder her... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24SL_QEmVVI	/r/seduction	14/09/16 02:53 PM
2	how do 'normal' guys get laid? This is already a big step, I was talking very generic tho.	/r/seduction	14/09/16 11:23 AM
2	Newbie: Today I approached a blonde girl in a mall and she looked at me like I was going to murder her... Exactly. It should be pretty known also that it's how you say stuff that's more important than what you say. If you did the same with confidence, without nerves chances are the outcome would've been different. Also, never assume stuff like "she was open to interaction and I failed" or the reverse "she had stuff in her mind", just move on. As far as you know she maybe had a terrible day and you don't know it.	/r/seduction	14/09/16 10:30 AM
2	how do 'normal' guys get laid? I wasn't even speaking about physical appearance, it goes much further than that. You speak as an insecure scared little bitch and women will sense this. That's why I value growing up as a person and having an attractive lifestyle much more important than pick up techniques. Because if you focus on yourself rather on the lame "I'll bang x number of chicks" you are free from the outcome of your dating/opening, you are confident and happy with yourself, and trust me this goes much beyond reading b…	/r/seduction	14/09/16 10:29 AM
2	how do 'normal' guys get laid? You're much too focused on the goal than on the path to get to it. Try to become manlier, rather than focusing on lame pick up lines/techniques.	/r/seduction	14/09/16 12:30 AM
3	How do you apply Mark Manson's advice on approaching? But how do you get to the point where you start being vulnerable? The way I see it, being "vulnerable" simply means not playing too hard, lose your frame a bit. RSD Jullien talks about it in one of his first videos (no, not going to find you the link, it has the word frame in the title). First you need to have good opening technique I disagree, it matters very little what you say, it's much more important HOW you say it. Trust me, even saying "Hi, I'm Bill" can work wonders. get her interested s…	/r/seduction	07/09/16 07:08 PM