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[–]InsanityOverDose 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I heard something once. Haven't applied it but will at some point. If a girl accepts to go on a date, she expects you to escalate. A girl will not do it, so you just kinda have to go for it
[–]Jock_Status 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes and if a girl stays to talk to you after your approach escalate. I touch a arm a few lines into the convo tbh
[–]jthefreshest 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I mean there is signs other than physical, im no master at reading situations but definitely things that aren't physical would be her taking an interest in what your talking about even though it doesn't really involve her, actually carrying a conversation u think generally if you can see she's putting in some effort then it's probably a good idea to move towards something physical to get solid evidence of interest. For myself I have kissed girls I have been on the fence with and realized I didn't really feel much so I'd bring it up and say that I didn't really feel anything and don't want to go on another date or you could say we could definitely try again on our next date. Friend zone sucks dude, honestly hasn't happened to me much but there are ways out of it too.
[–]LuxPlayer43 6 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Yeah not for this situation, because we both leaving to diff universities
But yeah thx, do you know a way to declare your intentions? Like i mean in my country we never say lets go on a date, its more like lets do smth, because we dont have a word like „date“ in our language.
[–]jthefreshest 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well I mean if the two of you are hanging out I guess it kinda depends how you meet. Of it's on an app then it's kind of known it's an app. Not sure what language you speak but maybe just say in casual conversation I'd like to be more than friends or something. Or atleast elude to that. I mean if you have hung out more than once or twice alone, I think it's pretty obvious what your intentions are but maybe just say like "I like you" and i want to continue doing this with you, I'm just curious if we're on the same page, or I'm just wondering what your intentions are. I always say when in doubt just be upfront and honest the worst they can say is I think of you as a friend and that sucks rejection always does but then atleast you know. If you're trying to get out of the friendzone it takes finesse lol a combination of waiting a certain amount of time and also knowing if there ever was interest on her part. And playing the friend role for a bit but slowly doing more intimate things with her. Of course there will always be the girl that no matter what you do won't let you out of the friendzone and that's usually the one who was never interested or has something else going on.
[–]LuxPlayer43 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Thx mate
[–]jthefreshest 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No worries any other questions feel free to ask.
[–]bryantozuzu 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Escalating how? If you mean sexually then try implying sexual sentences, so it doesn’t come of too bold and it plays in her mind,Example if she asks “what do you do for fun” look at her up and down and smile or bite ur lips and tell her “I do a lot for fun, honestly I could show you better than I can tell you” (be smoother than that 😂)this could play in her mind “like what does that mean” then you could take it from there, make sure you take it slow but don’t drag it on and waste time and mixing this with physical escalation would be perfect.
[–]whaddefuck 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
The escalation is mostly physical if all the other signs are there.
[–]LuxPlayer43 6 years ago [recovered] (6 children) | Copy Link
So if signs like eye contact and playfull touching, (are there other signs i missed) are there, i should make a move?
[–]whaddefuck 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep, just wait for a silence and go Pavlovian, look at her lips, bend over 70,80% and let her do the last effort. I mean, you’re on a date, it’s expected.
[–]BetterBeLuckyThanGud 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
when she look at your lips , it either mean you have spinach on it , or she wants you to kiss her.
Any other tips?
You know, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take and all that crap. Overthinking never worked for me. If the stakes are clear, it’s a date and you are enjoying yourselves, go for it. No one else can do that for you, even if you fail, at least you’ll be at peace with you.
[–]BetterBeLuckyThanGud 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
if you fail kiss , say you couldnt resist , and try 3 min later
[–]Pump_action_yogurt 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't have spinach on your lips.
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