I find it easy to get initial attraction from girls just by joking around and light teasing. However, I can never escalate from this situation and I'm not sure why. Unless I am completely misreading the situation, they seem to be attracted to me initially, then their interest slowly but surely wanes. This isn't with just 1 girl, but pretty much all, so I'm pretty sure it has something to do with how I handle these situations. If I decrease my teasing, I feel that would feel weird and makes the situation feel more boring and forced.

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I feel I handle the initial part correctly with some fun teasing. I think that I might carry this out for too long and the girls just think I tease all the time. How should I escalate from here? What's your advice regarding how to escalate once you have initial attraction, or at least maintaining attraction? Whenever I try to escalate, they tell me I'm going too fast and if I don't, they always lose interest.