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[–]cardkid1234 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well you gotta get the conversation part down before you worry about escalation. There shouldn’t be awkward silence or moments where you don’t know what to say. Saying anything (literally anything) is better than nothing.
What kind of dates are you going on? If you aren’t a good talker I wouldn’t go on coffee shop dates or restaurant dates right away. A more activity oriented date would actually be better for you in that respect. Asking a girl if she wants to go ice skate or bowl or something along those lines can be a nice little date where you can talk when you feel comfortable without it being too awkward.
An activity oriented date (especially an activity you are good at) is also great for breaking the touch barrier. Give her some hands on knowledge on how to be as good as you are at that activity lol.
[–]frost0r 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Talking isn’t an issue. First date we went on it was the best one I’ve been on. We talked well about stuff the. We grabbed some food and she said she’ll probably end up doing the talking now like she does with everyone else’s but I ended up taking more and she was enjoying everything judging from the look on her face and her questions.
No awkward moments second date either. First time we went to a place that has a dozen different foods to choose from second was the movies (that was her idea during the first date, I would have picked something more social like mini golf.
And yeah most of your suggestions is stuff I already do it’s literally just anxiety and poor socialisation that’s holding me back.
[–]cardkid1234 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
If you have no problem talking to her and it seems like you guys are getting along, then why don't you be open with her about it and ask her? You can even phrase it in a way that will only make her like you more. Tell her you really like spending time with her and you like her and you really want to kiss her or take things further with her but you want to make sure she's comfortable with it so as not to mess things up. She should appreciate your honest and give you an honest response.
[–]frost0r 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ta. This was similar lines I was thinking about. Ta :)
It seemed like we clicked so hopefully it’s fine doing this. If not well there are others lol
[–]cardkid1234 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
High confidence is just for when you meet them. Once you really start getting to know them you can be more real with them. So showing a bit of vulnerability by doing this isn't a bad thing for a relationship. If she really did have issues with someone doing this, then thats not the type of girl you want anyways.
[–]frost0r 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah again thanks. I know all this stuff theoretically its just putting it together in practice. Hearing the same thing you're thinking from other people definitely helps. I don't think not escalating to night was a bad thing, she was keen the night before but she was moving stuff to her new house today and from what I can gather fell to sleep less than 30 minutes after I dropped her off.
[–]JinTheUnleashed 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/b4obrl/how_can_i_stop_being_intimidated_by_beautiful/
I answered your question on the spot; here are the free playlists and Jin & Juice Podcast Episode I mentioned in the video as well. Let me know your feedback & thoughts man, I like challenging myself by putting myself on the spot, hope you didn't mind brodie:
How To Get Physical Women For The First Time Playlist:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yt92A4U9rws&list=PL4kMVvKvmH2DH6HFkYsyA9fSu73o8Cvux
How To Get Sexual For The First Time EPISODE (JIN & JUICE PODCAST):
https://soundcloud.com/seduction-unleashed/how-to-make-the-first-move
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I hope this helped man, looking forward to hearing from your journey breh. Feel free to subscribe if you dig the content ~
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[–]frost0r 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Cheers man, went into that skeptical and was pleased you were able to hit the nail on the head. It is 100% because I'm not comfortable talking about sex. Definitely going to check out the post cast and the play list.
[–]JinTheUnleashed 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thank you man, much respecc 🙏🔥
All of our content came from 13+ years since childhood in NYC dealing with all types of women and I was lucky enough to have a natural as my best friend so everything we speak is from 25 yrs of relaying advice to each other.
We try to keep it blunt and raw, honest. NO BS 🚫 I paid for those years in other areas of my life.
The podcast is a great place to start first. We go alot into our stories in chronological order while still going hard at the end with practical advice.
Have a good one bro, PM me if you're ever interested in something serious as far as 1v1.
If not no worries keep in touch on your journey breh ~ 💪 💯
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