Hello everybody! been studying seduction for about 6 months now and I'd like to post my thoughts and lessons/learned throughout the rest of the year. Here we go, todays topic: Eye contact. Sorry about the essay format.. This is how i roll.

One of the most important aspects of human interaction, whether during talking, listening, or simply acknowledging someone’s presence, is the use of eye contact. It is also one of the most important non-verbal tools in attracting women. The use of eye contact, voice tonality, facial expression, posture, and physical contact make up non-verbal body language and is absolutely imperative to master.

Eye contact. Think of the last time a hot girl you liked walked up and talked to you. Then think of the last time a superior person (your boss, or an intimidating man) came and asked you a question. Did you look at them in the face when you were uncomfortable? Probably not. It is human nature for you to look down and to the side when you are feeling inferior. Unconsciously, people take their eyes off of another person when intimidated.

Now think of when you’re talking to your family, or a close friend. The eye contact comes easy. Its natural. Better yet, you’re not even thinking about these things! You’re actually looking them in the eye and listening to what the person has to say. You are at ease. THEREFORE, EYE CONTACT INDICATES COMFORT.

How comfortable you are around somebody can be indicated from eye contact, and vice versa; You can tell how comfortable someone is around you by seeing if they’re looking at you in the eye while you’re interacting. Therefore, when you meet someone new, whether a cute girl or in a job interview, it is very important to SHOW that you are comfortable around them. This is because people (especially girls) are VERY good readers of body language, they can sense a unconfident person immediately, which leads them to feel uncomfortable themselves.

Make sure you’re not STARING at the other person. In a conversation, look up to the side every little while, as you are scanning through your memory thinking of something.

Eye contact, along with the occasional nod/yes/ok during conversation show the talker that you are listening and interested in what he/she has to say. This will get people to like you. This might seem very obvious but you’d be surprised how many people don’t do this.

A way to convey a flirty eye contact is to look at a 45 degree angle, look, and smile at the girl like she said something amusing.

Also, assume all longer-than-normal eye contact from girls (especially with looking down + a shy smile afterwards) to be IOIs. Approach or you're gay.

Feel free to add more thoughts/ideas