Hello, I recently started browsing seddit and I have already been more open about how I think and how I think of myself. I think this is one of the first steps into finally coming out of my shell.

One problem I am having is that I am deathly scared of approaching girls, even if it seems like they like me. I have tried isolating that thought and what I think the problem is that I am scared of shame(perceived shame). I feel like when i talk to a pretty girl i will not know what to say and it will make me look like a complete fool. I am trying to work through this but being a noob when it comes to seduction, I have no idea how. Did you guys use to have this problem too? If so how did you overcome it?

Sorry for the poorly written post, I am not very good at turning my thought into text.