What has worked for me recently for me when it comes to game, or even just life in general is the idea that i am already fulfilled and not nothing external can cause me internal fulfillment.

when you take life less seriously everything you want gets easier i find, cause you wont stress about getting rejected which happens over 300 times for me, or even what people think.

Now how do you do this starting a meditation routine and thinking about what your grateful for and that you already have what you desire.

to sum it up its all in the feeling.